Why do you feel that there are so many people who don't support the elderly in rural areas?

Where did the rural elderly get the feeling that they can't take care of themselves when they are old? First of all, they have no financial resources. Second, they have no living security. For generations, the children of the elderly have given them food and drink, and they can't take care of them without freezing or warming.

You are not from the countryside now, but you were from the countryside three generations ago. How do you feel about asking such a question?

Where did you see "rural people don't provide for the aged"?

Ask questions realistically and don't make a fool of yourself by grandstanding; Hurt the emotional life of "rural people"!

My parents live in the countryside, and I go back to visit my parents more than a dozen times every year. After all, they are old (90-year-old father and 87-year-old mother), and our two brothers voluntarily give money to their parents for their old-age life, never asking who gives more and who gives less; Basically, parents are given more than16,000 per year, plus the "national basic pension" of both parents, which is 398 yuan per month, and the agricultural grain subsidy is 1200 yuan. Parents' living expenses are nearly 22,000 yuan a year, which can solve the basic living; And a slight surplus. Parents' main expenses in rural areas are human contacts and bring more money; Sometimes they find themselves spending too much, and they all take the initiative to bear it; Give them more money at will so that they won't be trapped by money.

The village where I used to live also had more than a dozen villagers' groups, with nearly 600 families and a population of more than 2,000. Growing up in that land, many of my primary school classmates stayed in the countryside to develop, and their parents were all around 80 years old. Every time I go home to the countryside, I will meet many familiar old people along the way, sitting in front of the gate to play cards or relax; Almost all of these elderly people receive the "national basic pension", which is 108 yuan per month; Most of their children go out to work, and the rest of the elderly are "guarding the home" at home; Their source of life is basically the same as my parents', and their children give them money to live on time. Even some children don't give money, but they go out to work and buy them necessities such as rice and noodles. Plus, the old people still have about 100 yuan a month, so it's ok to live in the countryside.

My uncles and aunts are all in the countryside, and now they are old enough not to do farm work. The living expenses will be paid when the son arrives. They are very happy!

I used to live in a village group with about 140 people, including more than 30 people over 70 years old. Our local customs and rural customs are very good, and our children are filial to their parents. If you are not filial to your parents and mistreat the elderly, your family will not get along well in the village. Even their children should "walk with their heads down" at the door for fear of others pointing fingers; Don't talk about dealing with villagers, everyone will accuse their behavior; Force him to admit his mistake and support his parents, including getting sick and seeking medical treatment.

The biggest problem in rural areas now is that parents' funeral expenses cannot be paid. A normal middle-class family costs at least 60,000 yuan for a funeral, and some big families even spend more than 100,000 yuan.

Our land is close to Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai, and the labor force has basically gone; An acre of land in the family is basically kept, so that the old people can plant crops from generation to generation, and some people simply plant trees; Some people use 500 yuan to lease an acre of contracted land to others to "dig pond culture shrimp". It used to be a "land of fish and rice", but now all food is outsourced; There is too little land per capita to farm and keep alive. It is better to work in the city to earn money quickly; Now these people earn at least 70,000 yuan a year. 80% of young people have participated in the social security payment in the city, and they will also have a life of providing for the aged after retirement. They are not worried about their future survival. Many families have bought commercial houses in the city, for example, 37 households in my village group. Except for a few families who didn't go out to work, all of them had houses in the city, including my brothers, and of course they bought two suites.

Some people, who are black rural people all day, say how hard the old farmers are; In fact, what you see is the "dark side". Now the real rural people, as long as they are not lazy, healthy and not seriously ill, have an average annual income that is definitely better than that of the "average family" in the city, even several times.

Our village is not too rich in the local area, but every household has built a two-story building and added a family scooter (basically locked in the garage and opened during the New Year). Rural people's mental state is really good. Don't bury rural people in the future; Some rural people don't look well dressed, but you really don't have as much money in your pocket as he does, just keep a low profile.

The above is my understanding of rural people in wucun, Shuiyang Town, Xuanzhou District, Xuancheng City, Anhui Province. If you don't believe me, you can make a field trip and learn about their lives!

Let me show you some "photos" taken during the Spring Festival: take them at will.

Xiemiaotang

Rape planted by parents

My old house was built on 1994.

Cousin's car

My brother's car

My father is 90 years old and basking in the sun.

My mother is 87 years old and still busy.

Cousin's house, cars and houses in the city.

This is me.

It should be admitted that there are far more people in rural areas who are not good at providing for the elderly than in cities. The reason is related to money.

Most of the old people in the city have pensions, which to some extent really fulfilled the sentence: it is better to raise an old man than a pig. (words are not rough).

In contrast, providing for the aged in rural areas is far from "economic benefits" except investment or investment, but only a "spiritual benefit", hehe! Everyone knows which is more important.

The objective conditions are there, and no one should choose anything nice to say. Everyone's old age is a bloody thing, especially in the countryside.

This question is a bit exaggerated and not realistic. Pension is a traditional virtue. According to what I have seen and heard, there are still most children with conscience and filial piety in rural areas. Only a few people are ungrateful and have no respect for their parents. No matter what you don't ask, you have money to buy a house, no money to support your parents, no money to burn incense, no money to be filial to your parents, and even to abuse them. Although the living environment and family conditions are different, most children and women stay at home to support the elderly and enjoy family happiness. Lonely old people who have no children and daughters live in nursing homes and are supported by the government.

Cities don't need children to support the elderly. Who will support the elderly and children in rural areas?

Some people are satirizing jokes (raising children to prevent old age), while others are satirizing (children don't support the elderly).

There seems to be something wrong with your topic. I heard it's bad for the elderly, but it's always been raised by children. It seems that people in the city are very filial to the elderly. To put it bluntly, their pension is useless. Some are sent to nursing homes for the elderly, and some are sent directly to hospitals for escort. If the old man has nothing to inherit, what good is there without a pension?

Will city people take care of the elderly? Isn't it all because the blind people who stay at home take the old people's pension money to the nursing home?

If people in cities don't have pensions, more people won't support them.

Have you done your research? How did you come to so many conclusions? What's the ratio? How many families, how many people? You can't jump to so many conclusions at will.

Nowadays, young people in the countryside don't take care of their parents. Fighting for feng shui after death. In fact, it is an extreme purpose-selfishness.