People around me laughed at my lack of a son. What should I do?

One way to control is to force you into their logic system, and you will never win under the rules system they created. For example, they created the tacit premise that "sons are better than daughters". Once you feel guilty about not having a son, it means that you have accepted this premise, and you will be entangled in this mud forever.

Next time you go out, I'll hit you. You cried and said why you hit me. I said that because you are not wearing a hat, I will hit you every time you go out because you are not wearing a hat. After a long time, I began to wear a hat when I went out. If you forget to bring your hat, you may even feel ashamed. That means you have entered my logical system, even though you don't know why you took out your hat.

Many traditional dross control people in this way. When people are controlled, they become tools for others to make profits. In your case, they're after your property.

Therefore, to break through this control, we must break away from the logical system set by others. I will not play your game and will never abide by the rules set by them. The first step to do this is not to feel guilty or correct your behavior because of unreasonable accusations from others.

If you want to gag others by having a son, you are raising a white flag. The right thing to do is to challenge another traditional default setting: "It's better to have relatives than no relatives", really?