What should I do if I don’t dare to talk to the opposite sex?

I am similar to you. I am a very weird person, moody. I almost didn’t like playing with girls when I was a child. I rarely talk to girls now, but I don’t talk to them. The reasons are not the same as yours.

Actually, the original poster: 1: You must first adjust your mentality. Don’t blindly care about other people’s opinions. Of course, you cannot completely ignore other people’s opinions. You must have your own Personality, but you also base your personality within the range acceptable to most normal people (if it is a non-mainstream personality, you have to figure it out yourself, I despise it)

Two: You don’t want to Deliberately seek to talk to others, and don't care too much about whether you participate or not. You are who you are, and whether you participate or not is still you.

Three: Read more books, newspapers, or other entertainment projects. You must have something you know and are good at. When talking to others, you need to adjust your mentality, speak at an appropriate speed, and participate appropriately. (Take your time and speak slowly. For topics you don’t understand or are not good at, you can be a careful listener. For topics you are good at and know, you can participate appropriately at the appropriate time. But it is not recommended that you take the lead in this topic at the beginning, and it is also not recommended that you tell everything you know)

Four: In front of everyone, never say something that is not surprising. . For correct views, you have to agree with them; for wrong views, you can remain silent. If you want to correct them, try to use more euphemistic language to express them, but you cannot ask others to accept them. Whether they accept it or not is their business. Just state it appropriately.

Five: You can have a weird temper, but just understand it and don’t let it happen randomly. I also have a very weird personality, but I handle myself well in front of my friends and rarely get emotional.

Six: (The last point is also the simplest and most useful method) You should keep smiling appropriately when you are with others, but don’t smile too exaggeratedly or stiffly, and try your best to smile at the appropriate time. Smile as much as possible. (Actually, the reason why I rarely speak is mainly because my expressive ability is a bit poor. I have a thick and vague voice quality. My tongue is a bit short and I can’t hold my voice down. But I am very popular, mainly because I smile all day long. , I have a good attitude, and others feel happy to be with me. Similarly, I am also a good listener, and others like to tell me their concerns and let me keep them secret. Sometimes my friends can endure it and listen to me slowly.)