Is it appropriate for girls to have premarital sex?

Girls' premarital sex is not suitable for me, who is somewhat conservative. In the communication between men and women, girls give up themselves easily, which will make them lose the initiative and make boys feel easy to get, so they will not cherish and care.

Then there is premarital sex. Accidentally pregnant with a child, but for various reasons can not get married immediately. Induced abortion will do great harm to girls' health and even lead to lifelong infertility.

Tell a true story more than ten years ago! My sister's classmate ate forbidden fruit with her fiance before getting married and got pregnant. At that time, there were many rules for getting a marriage license, and the fine for pregnancy was 5 thousand yuan. The man was in poor condition and refused to pay the fine, so my sister's classmates had to abort the child.

The reason for abortion is that they have been married for several years and have no children. Finally divorced, the man quickly found a woman and gave birth to a child. My sister's classmate is almost forty years old, and she found a man with two children to be a stepmother to others, and her life was almost ruined.

Premarital sex does little harm to boys, and you can turn around and leave irresponsibly at any time. It is very harmful to girls, bearing the reputation of promiscuity and immorality before marriage, which makes people point and talk. Being looked down upon by her later husband, she despised resentment and even affected her life's happiness.

Girls should respect themselves and lead a totally clean life. No matter how sweet words and threats the man makes, he should keep the bottom line after marriage and leave the best to the right person, so that he can be cherished and respected by his husband. The man who loves you will respect your choice, restrain himself and will not force you. A man who doesn't love you will get your body again and again. If you don't return it, it is bad for you that you don't love him. Are you girls worth dying for such a man?

Let me put it this way. I knew a girl in the past and fell in love at that time (of course, I went with the purpose of getting married). She has a firm attitude and won't have sex before marriage. Of course, I absolutely respect her! But I think this is not a very pure woman. Considering a person is a comprehensive judgment, either what you show or what you really look like. Why? This girl was introduced by others, and only she knows best what she has experienced in the past twenty years. I mean no harm, but men should also learn to protect themselves. There can be no harm to others, and there can be no defense against others! Later, the girl told me that she had a psychological burden on sex, saying that when she was a child, she saw that her parents were like this, so she was very exclusive about it. I'll tell her what I think about it. First, I don't have a virgin complex. There is no need to dwell on what happened before. As long as I tell you frankly, don't hide it, don't cheat, and get along well, everything will be fine! Things used to be bad. Let me enlighten you. Unfortunately, I won't mind either! Second, sexual behavior is the most important link in the future life of husband and wife. We should all treat this matter correctly and cautiously. I have a psychological disorder. I'll accompany you to see a psychiatrist to lay a good foundation for future marriage. Then before marriage, she kept saying that I was her only man, but when we first met, she was no longer a virgin. . . . . . I asked her, why did you lie to me? I told you, I don't care if I'm a virgin. If anything bad happened to you before, just tell me! I will take better care of you! There is no need to lie to me if you have no choice! I really don't care about your past! Even if you don't ride a bike, I can accept it! The only unacceptable thing is cheating! Because I don't know how many liars there will be in my future marriage and family life! So I got divorced!

To tell the truth, I'm 30 years old and haven't been in love yet. I was introduced to a girlfriend, but it didn't work. Some feel inappropriate at the first contact, and some are satisfied with the initial understanding. After many times of communication, they finally refused. There is a simple reason. I just slept with someone else. I can't accept it. I think men in China really want their other half to be their own, even love rat, who has hurt many girls.

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Follow-up comments: I am not afraid to see someone comment that I am still single in my life, because there are still some principled girls around me. Although there are not so many, I believe there is always a girl like me who won't have something wrong with each other when she gets married. I also met many friends around me. After discovering that her girlfriend had a story with someone else, she struggled in her heart. Although some of them broke up because of something wrong, because of this. So I suggest that girls think about their future husbands. What kind of boy are you looking for? What qualities will this boy have? Think it over and do it. Don't wait until a boy refuses to regret or dare to say that he is looking for someone because of your past, and carefully hide the past. Some people try to make everything disappear with the phrase "who has no past", but then again, the past is different from the past, just like everyone's struggle history. Some people used to make themselves excellent.

Having said that, I want to say that some men are really scum. They will sleep with other girls for a month or two after falling in love. If they don't agree, they will say that other girls are abnormal. Have you ever thought about marrying her? Because of all kinds of agitation in the lower body, other girls relaxed their vigilance, and finally you slept enough for an inappropriate breakup. Some people try to please others in order to sleep. There are really many love rat.

Love rat is terrible, and love rat culture is even more terrible. So is love rat.

Finally, I wish you all happiness.

Is it appropriate for girls to have premarital sex?

The so-called appropriateness of this question is a topic that should not be appropriate. Most people think it's right to be uncomfortable. I also think girls' self-esteem is appropriate. Love between men and women and caring for girls is a great and noble sentiment of love. That year, I just graduated from college to work, and my ex-wife who graduated from technical secondary school fell in love at first sight. She is an old-fashioned girl who has never been in love and held hands with the opposite sex. We respected each other for several months, without any deviant behavior. It was the first love, and we all got married sincerely for the purpose. On the night of her 19 birthday, she asked to chat with her in the single dormitory. During the chat at a certain distance, she gradually approached and got the first kiss and hug, but they restrained themselves and didn't wait for the beautiful day of marriage. We couldn't remember which time was her real first time in our later sweet love, so we unconsciously gave me the Virgin so that I could get married and have children in the future. Once I asked her what it was like to hug and kiss for the first time. She said that at that time, the whole person was so happy and sweet that I didn't know anything. I really understand how great and happy love is! Therefore, I think there will never be a standard answer to whether it is appropriate for girls to have premarital sex.

There is a post-90 s girl in our company who follows the boss. And now the BMW is on, which is very peaceful.

I have a daughter of my own. Seeing this, I was thinking, what will my daughter do in the future? So I let her learn a musical instrument, at least in the matter of supporting herself, you can rest assured that I should not be a third party to survive.

One more question, what should I do when I am old enough to fall in love? Actually, for girls, premarital sex is still a disadvantage. One is the moral level. It is generally believed that girls have some indiscretions in premarital sex (although equality between men and women is advocated, this problem still exists), and the other is that if safety measures are not taken, it will harm their health.

I'm going to remind her at an appropriate time that premarital sex is the bottom line, remember to hold it, and in case of deep feelings, I must take protective measures to protect myself.

After all, we all came here when we were young, and some things are really hard to grasp.

Is premarital sex appropriate?

Not appropriate, because I have never had sex before marriage and have been in love for more than a year. I tried everything except sex, including walking hand in hand, looking at each other affectionately, hugging warmly, and sometimes being excited, and finally let me hold the last line of defense.

I don't think it's appropriate, but it's hard to insist. I don't want to see you get each other so easily.

Sex after marriage has also made jokes, especially for the first time. He held back for so long that he finally let go of his hands and feet and went into battle. After hard work, he was defeated But it's better to feel happy and forgive him than to find someone who has been laughed at and given up.

After getting to know each other, I finally set foot on the right path slowly. Sex is a happy thing for married couples. Why should I try it in advance? If you have sex, the other party says you are out of character, or your family objects, you asked me to do it yesterday? My young mind can't stand trial and error again and again. Cann't bear the trauma again and again.

It's not easy to be a girl, only this is worth insisting on. Get married if you find someone you love. There's no need to make so many tricks, but you'll hurt yourself in the end.

Is premarital sex appropriate for boys?

90 12, why is gender discrimination so serious? ...

There is something wrong with this proposition. If you had deep affection for me before the couple, it is understandable. All adults will pay for their actions, have responsibility and have feelings. Why not?

If you have a one-night stand or sell your body for other purposes, it seems to me that it is problematic and inappropriate. For an extreme example, stay with a director for one night and give you a female number one or a first hero. Do you think it's appropriate?

Everyone has a different outlook on life and values. Never stand on the moral high ground to condemn others now, because you don't know what he has experienced and what he is experiencing.

It is best not to have sex before marriage!

When my wife and I first got married, we often quarreled so much that we almost got divorced.

But after every quarrel, I remembered that she was ugly and lazy, and I took a mouthful of blood. It is estimated that she will never get married after the divorce. ...

It's almost ten years now, and the family is harmonious. ...

Personally, it is appropriate for girls to have sex before marriage! As long as you remain an adult, sexual behavior will not infringe on the rights and interests of others. )

After reading a lot of moral bitch's answers, I think I must break with them! Anyone who thinks premarital sex is not allowed. Almost all people think they are always right. Their demands on others may exceed the moral standards of ordinary people. In fact, they may be the first group to violate the moral standards they advocate. So, I said, these people are moral bitches.

Why do I insist on the legality of girls' premarital sex? Please see the reason:

First of all, sex life should not be demonized too much. Sexual needs, like eating and sleeping, are the most basic physiological needs. Adults, both men and women, have very normal sexual needs. Not sinful and immoral. Those who preach sexual immorality every day, their sexual needs are evil, and they are typical hypocrites or moral bitches who say one set of seat covers after another. They, they do more behind their backs than others.

Secondly, adult women don't get married and have sex with others. It's not illegal! Please look at the laws of our country. Is there a law that adult women can't have sex without getting married? No, there are two prerequisites, one is that women are willing, and the other is that sexual behavior cannot infringe on the rights of others. For example, if you have sex with a married man, it is against the law and should be prohibited.

Thirdly, adult women should have premarital sex under the premise of safety and privacy. Otherwise, it is illegal. For example, it is not allowed to gather people for fornication, to broadcast sex live, to have sex with many people at the same time, and to have sex with people who know they have AIDS. These are all sexual crimes stipulated in the criminal law!

Fourth, women who have sex with their boyfriends before marriage can also test the degree of harmony with their boyfriends. After all, there can be no sex in marriage, and the harmony of sex is directly related to the happiness after marriage. So it is reasonable for women to have sex with their boyfriends before marriage. The actual social reality is that the probability of men and women not having sex before marriage is very low. Under this premise, it is ignorant to advocate that women should not have premarital sex. I have a good friend who didn't have sex before marriage. After getting married, I found that men concealed the fact of their impotence. Finally, they ended in divorce. Those moral bitches who insist that women can't have sex before marriage, if you encounter such a thing, will you still insist on moral priority?

Finally, I want to say a few words. Don't put a high-sounding moral label on sex and imprison it. Don't mention that sex is a sin. So why can't everyone live without evil sex? Accepting this matter is as normal as eating, which is the most basic common sense of a civilized society. If you are a moral bitch, you can refute me! I'm not afraid to argue with you! But I prefer being reasonable to all kinds of abuse.

Now China's behavior before remarriage can no longer be described as sexual liberation, but as sexual abuse. Now it's not premarital sex, but premarital promiscuity. Premarital sex originally refers to having sex with the fiance or fiancee in advance after engagement, which is basically the responsibility of both parties. But what we are doing now is basically promiscuity. Some people compare premarital sex with women's feminist thoughts, but they don't know that the biggest victim of premarital sex is actually women. How many gynecological hospitals are there in big cities now, and how many women are infertile after marriage? Excessive indulgence and promiscuity before marriage lead to abortion and physical injury, and even many abortions lead to the breakup of married families, and the female side is the one who suffers the most. We say that the essence of the West is heresy, but we completely accept the dross of the West, even shine on you is better than Blue. Now China has more sexual assaults than Europe, America, Japan and South Korea, second only to Brazil.