How to deal with the relationship after confession failure (how to deal with the relationship after confession failure)

The confession was successful. Fortunately, we are together. What I am most afraid of is that my confession fails, I can't successfully catch up with girls, and I will worry that I won't make friends in the future, and the meeting will be very embarrassing. Don't tell me what the chance is. In fact, confession failure is not completely helpless. Below I will share with you how to deal with the relationship of confession failure.

First, admit failure and take the initiative to break the embarrassment.

Don't worry, there will definitely be an embarrassing period after the failure of confession. To ease the embarrassment, you need to take the initiative to break your current embarrassing situation. You can pretend to have nothing to do and take the initiative to talk to girls or do something else, or you can bring it in a joking way, such as:

"Oh, just kidding! We are too familiar with it and can't do it at all! "

Second, make friends after confession failure

When you get along with a girl after a failed confession, you should treat her as a friend and forget that you once confessed it, otherwise both sides will be unnatural.

I don't know March: I liked her very much when I confessed. The reason why I confess is to let her know that I like her. Although the confession was rejected, I still miss her sometimes. This is an iterative process. After all, forgetting someone doesn't mean forgetting. Although the other party knows very well that they can't be like ordinary friends, they can only be like ordinary friends! Just pretend this never happened, say hello when you meet her and ask her if she is all right (even if it is a trivial matter). Also, don't post what you like in your own space and circle of friends. It's hard to forget you. Since she doesn't like you, she will definitely feel melodramatic when she sees these. Therefore, just like ordinary friends in the future, don't go if you can stay away from her. ...

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Third, appropriate ambiguity after confession failure.

After the above two steps, if you have resumed friendship, you can be ambiguous and test the attitude of girls towards you. Of course, you may encounter many small problems in this. It doesn't matter. You can develop your own style. If your way of doing things makes her unhappy, you need to ask people around you to know if you did something wrong. If it is really your own fault, then correct it and apologize. If it's not her own fault, but her cognitive error, if she still feels right without apologizing, then you should give up on her decisively, maybe you are really inappropriate.

Regarding confession, I would like to believe that most people come with warm and sincere feelings. However, not everyone has a keen emotional touch and smooth exploration skills. Most people are still suffering from uncontrollable breaking through the window, so those who dare to take the initiative are brave first. However, since you took the initiative, shouldn't you bear the consequences yourself? Confession, or a happy ending, or a ceremony. Respecting each other's freedom is also preserving your most basic demeanor.