After being in love with her boyfriend for three years, my cousin won the love with a knife: "He married me, and he has an RV. He is not stupid. " What should I do?

I like a sentence from Weibo:

"Some people appear in your life, just to teach you something, then leave, and finally stay with you is the most worthy of your treasure. The most ideal life: the circle is clean, the life is regular, and there are people you like. "

Many men say that women nowadays are snobs.

They listed many snobbish women, for example, when they got married, they only valued the RV and the bride price, and never talked about the truth. But when a woman talks to them about her true feelings, she will say that this woman has gone too far and always loves it or not.

There is a kind of man looking for a daughter-in-law, which is like this: women can't buy things from him, can't ask for a bride price, and can't just ask for a house and a car. If a woman wants these things, then this woman is power. He also doesn't talk about love with women, but how good he is to women. Otherwise, he thinks women do. If you have money, how can you tolerate a woman doing this?

You ask him why that woman married you.

He would say, "What do you mean? What do you women get married for? Your purpose is not simple. "

You ask him, women don't want love and money. What is the meaning of marriage?

He would say, "Women marry men to live a good life, have children and support their families."

I see. In the eyes of some men, when a woman is married, she should give nothing and give selflessly.

I seldom hate people in the entertainment circle.

Cao Yunjin is a ... After his wife gave birth to a child, he always insisted on the AA system. Even when he was doing the show, he confidently said, "Why should I pay more?"

His wife said, "You are the father."

He is not satisfied with this reason. He'll think, aren't you mom? He forgot that it is difficult for women to get married and have children. Even, he thinks these are all things that women should do.

He felt that it was totally unacceptable for a woman to let him take care of the life of the child and his wife while she was giving birth. No matter what state the wife is in, she has to bear half of the family responsibilities.

They look down on women who spend or want men's money. They think such a woman is not a good wife.

I have thought deeply about such men, who are actually the most heartless people. They always weigh the pros and cons of love and marriage.

Weighing the pros and cons, I mean that if you are useful to me, I will stay with you. You are useless to me, so I will abandon you.

Some men say that women are snobbish, so it is not realistic and snobbish for men to weigh the pros and cons.

There is a relative who is like this: she can't see that the other person is better than her. If the other person is better than her, then she will destroy the good of others.

Zhangyan and his cousin have never dealt with each other since childhood. Zhangyan has a good academic record and looks good. She was very popular since she was a child. And her cousin, who doesn't like studying, has a big temper, not to mention getting along with her classmates, but with several sisters at home.

Because the two sisters are often compared by relatives, zhangyan's cousin hated zhangyan from an early age.

Zhangyan is right in everything, but wrong in everything. All relatives like zhangyan, and she is disliked by her relatives wherever she goes.

She lived in the shadow of zhangyan since she was a child, which led her to rob things and quarrel with zhangyan as soon as she saw zhangyan. When zhangyan bought a new dress, she had to buy the same new dress. Zhangyan takes a few mouthfuls of food from which plate, and she will put all the food from that plate into her bowl.

When someone pointed out that Cousin zhangyan was wrong, Cousin zhangyan said this: "Why do you like her?" Why does she live so well! "

Zhangyan's cousin is unwilling. Even after zhangyan's mother died and zhangyan's family conditions plummeted, zhangyan's cousin still hated zhangyan.

In reality, family ties are often vulgar. When a person is down and out, everything she once had is easy to turn a blind eye. People pay more attention to her present situation and the benefits she can bring to others.

After zhangyan's mother died, zhangyan's father remarried soon. Zhangyan became a burden, and her father no longer provided for her to go to school, so she had to go out to work to earn tuition. When relatives met zhangyan, they were no longer so enthusiastic, but more pleased with zhangyan's cousin. Because cousin zhangyan's family suddenly developed.

Whenever family members get together, zhangyan is always the one who is neglected. Zhangyan's cousin bought gifts for relatives and kept close contact with them. Instead, she became the focus of all the stars.

A relative of zhangyan said, "zhangyan may not come back after school. Nobody can even point to her. Even if she comes back, she is helpless. She can only trouble her relatives, but she can't help them much. "

And zhangyan's cousin has been working at home because she didn't go to college, and her family conditions are so good that she can definitely point fingers.

Zhangyan gradually got used to the cold eyes of his relatives. At first, she seldom attended family gatherings and seldom went home.

She wants to fly away However, when she graduated from college, her father had to let her stay at home. Because he thinks that after raising his daughter, he will still count on zhangyan when he is old.

Human nature cannot stand the test.

Many times, our self-righteous love is really just a joke. We can only laugh it off.

Zhangyan later felt that the biggest mistake in her life might be that she had been in love with Tang and Song Dynasties for three years. In high school, Tang and Song talked about love with their cousins and later broke up. When zhangyan University graduated, Tang Song and zhangyan worked together in a factory in their hometown, and they fell in love.

The two talked for three years until it was time to talk about marriage. When they were about to get married, zhangyan's cousin appeared. Zhangyan's cousin said to the Tang and Song Dynasties, "If you want to marry her, you have to work hard for twenty more years. If you marry her, you can marry me. You have my RV. "

Zhangyan and Tang and Song Dynasties have a long history of three years, but they can't meet a promise made by their cousin zhangyan. Tang and Song Dynasties realistically chose zhangyan's cousin. Weddings in the Tang and Song Dynasties were held as usual, but the bride was replaced by zhangyan's cousin.

Among zhangyan's relatives, no one condemned the rebellion and abandonment in the Tang and Song Dynasties, let alone zhangyan's cousin's affection. They all think that the choice of Tang and Song Dynasties is understandable and even correct.

As zhangyan's cousin said, "I'm better than Zhang Yanbi. The Tang and Song Dynasties will definitely choose me, and he's not stupid."

The so-called maturity only means that we slowly begin to accept some unfairness, learn to protect ourselves, and slowly begin to be calm about many things.

Zhangyan once wept bitterly because of the departure of Tang and Song Dynasties. Her father only thinks about his new wife, and he demands more from her. I raised you, and you should also make my demands.

My mother is gone, and my father doesn't care much about her. And the people who loved her left her, and almost all her relatives chose to support her cousin.

She was angry and wronged, and she struggled painfully. In the eyes of her father and all her relatives, she chose to leave this sad city. Her father thinks she is raised for nothing, and relatives think it is really a finger.

She was alone in the field and had a hard time, without the legendary counterattack. She is a drop in the bucket among the ten million migrant workers in Qian Qian.

She started dating and then got married. The man is not excellent. Like her, he is a part-time job. She doesn't have a generous dowry, and men don't have many bride price. Soon after they got married, they lived step by step.

When she learned the news that her cousin divorced Tang and Song, she didn't even feel much. She thought in her heart that she would never get through it, and it had already passed. Now zhangyan doesn't want to look back, just want to look forward.

What we should do most is to live our own lives. As for the loser, the reason why he can lose probably does not belong to us. Instead of thinking about those who don't belong to us, we should cherish the people around us.

The past is the wind, don't look back, move on.