On the wedding day, the bride listens to her relatives and raises the bride price. Is it wrong for the groom to break off his marriage on the spot?

When getting married, the bride price has always been a controversial topic.

When getting married, the man always gives a bride price, and the woman often judges the Excellence of the man by the level of the bride price.

As a man, I always hope that the bride price can be less; As a woman, I always feel that the bride price is not enough.

Now the bride price has completely become a matter of clearly marking the price, and we can talk about it in a positive way.

In today's society, it is not shameful to ask for a bride price publicly. Although feelings have deteriorated in money, it is not surprising, because it has become a common phenomenon.

However, it is normal to talk about this issue before the wedding, but it is somewhat unkind to suddenly change your mind and raise the price temporarily on the wedding day.

The woman used a temporary fare increase to test the man's sincerity, but she didn't consider it at all. In addition to economic strength, this man also has problems of dignity and face.

Although Liu Hong (pseudonym) is an ordinary rural girl, she is very beautiful since she was a child. She has been an attractive type since she was a child.

Liu Hong is not the only child in the family. She has a younger brother.

For parents, the two children naturally have the same love, but after all, in rural areas, there are still some traditional concepts, so they may be more inclined to their younger brothers to some extent.

For example, when chatting at ordinary times, although there is no property at home, parents always habitually say that these are for their younger brother, who is a boy after all.

Liu Hong didn't go to college because she was beautiful. When she was in high school, many people wrote her love letters. Slowly, she "degenerated", learning from others' puppy love and talking about love.

Falling in love will inevitably affect study, so Liu Hong didn't go to college in the end. However, she did not continue to repeat her studies, but went out to work.

There is also a common phenomenon in rural areas, that is, young people who have never been to college do not stay at home and often choose to work in cities.

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In those years when Liu Hong worked outside, he was also sought after by many places because of his beautiful appearance.

And at work, there is always someone to take care of themselves, perhaps because it has always been like this, so it also virtually contributed to Liu Hong's vanity.

Liu Hong dated several times, but finally broke up.

She always thinks that she is beautiful, and that the beauty of a girl is capital. Besides, Liu Hong's parents always instilled in her an idea that she must find a boyfriend with good conditions.

Influenced by her parents, Liu Hong has always regarded economic conditions as the standard to measure whether her boyfriend is good or not.

Later, Liu Hong fell in love with Li Shuo (a pseudonym), while Li Shuo was a city resident.

Neither of them went to college, but Li Shuo's starting line is better than Liu Hong's. He dumped several streets in Liu Hong just because of family conditions.

However, despite this, it didn't stop Li Shuo from liking Liu Hong.

To Liu Hong, Li Shuo is not only handsome, but also rich, so she thinks Li Shuo is a very good boy and she likes him very much.

Since falling in love with Li Shuo, Liu Hong's consumption concept has changed. In the past, shopping was mainly about economic benefits, but now, she is blindly pursuing famous brands and quality, regardless of price, because someone pays for her.

Two people fell in love for a year, and Li Shuo paid a lot of money for Liu Honghua, but he never cared.

Because he thinks he is willing to spend money for the woman he loves. From the beginning, he was anxious to marry Liu Hong.

The future daughter-in-law Liu Hong is very satisfied with Li Shuo's family. Because Li Shuo's family all think that girls from rural areas are more practical and simple.

In this way, the two men reached the point of talking about marriage.

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When the two families met, Liu Hong's parents talked very well, saying that they were not unreasonable people and didn't care about the bride price at all.

In addition, Liu Hong married from the countryside to the city, which is a blessing. If she forces others, it will be unsatisfactory.

Liu Hong's parents finally said that even if Li Shuo's family gave him a bride price, they wouldn't ask for a penny, and they would let Liu Hong marry him as a dowry.

Look, Liu Hong's parents are telling the truth. In addition to buying a house, Li Shuo's parents gave her a bride price of150,000 yuan. These betrothal gifts are normal in the local area.

The wedding arrived as scheduled, and everything was well prepared, but on the wedding day, an accident happened.

Li Shuo and his family went to see relatives that day, but on the way, he received a phone call from Liu Hong.

On the phone, Liu Hong said, "Dear, my relatives say that ordinary girls can get hundreds of thousands of bride price when they get married. Besides, I'm so beautiful, I have to add another 100 thousand Besides, your family is not short of this hundred thousand dollars. If you discuss with your parents, it is to give our family a face and let our family compete for face in front of relatives. "

At this moment, Li Shuo said, "We are already on our way, and we will arrive soon. Where can I prepare100000? Besides, my parents bought us a house and a car, and they all took out the money, and their savings were almost spent. I will give you all the money I earn in the future, which is not enough to give your family face! "

On the phone, Liu Hong kept saying that Li Shuo should prepare another100000 yuan. Li Shuo, however, think to Liu Honggu, this also calculate.

In fact, Liu Hong did call Li Shuo because his relatives said something.

Relatives said, "Why don't you have more bride price?" That family is so rich, is it silly not to take it now? After marriage, you can enjoy it. You have to think about your parents. Give this100000 to your brother, and your parents will have less pressure in the future! Besides, if they really want to marry you, they will definitely pay for it. "

Hearing this, Liu Hong's parents were tempted, and Liu Hong usually used Li Shuochong to spoil her, so she called directly.

I thought this matter could be solved. As a result, Li Shuo went to Liu Honggu. Liu Hong refused to get on the wedding car because the bride price of100000 yuan was not ready in time. She also said that Li Shuo didn't love her, which made her lose face in front of relatives and friends.

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At that time, not only Liu Hongjia's relatives were there, but also Li Shuo's relatives were there. Liu Hong's family wants this face, and so does Li Shuogu.

Besides, Li Shuo's parents were very angry about it and finally told Li Shuo directly that they loved the marriage. Li Shuo, who has always had a good temper, also directly said to Liu Hong, "I can spoil you at ordinary times, but I didn't expect you to be so noisy at the wedding. Do you think it is interesting to add a bride price temporarily? "

Liu Hong retorted: "My relatives are also good for me!"

Li Shuo snorted, "well, then you talk to your relatives! I'm not getting married this time. The previous150,000 bride price was limited to three days! "

Say that finish Li Shuo turned away.

The wedding didn't take place in the end, and both relatives played a joke there. Some people think that Li is too stingy, while others think that Liu Hongjia is too dissatisfied.

In fact, whoever is right or wrong has a steelyard in his heart.

No, in the end, Liu Hong's family was forced to personally apologize to Liu Shuo's family for more accusations.

But even if you want to save it, it's too late. After all, on the wedding day, things were so big that the restaurant was retired and the alcohol and tobacco were also retired. Liu Shuo's parents came one after another to apologize to their relatives and friends. Look how much you've lost face.

For a woman like Liu Hong who has no opinion, she will be a "brother's helper" when she gets married. Because she has a younger brother.

Some people may say that it was caused by that relative of Liu Hongjia's family. Of course, people who make careless suggestions must be wrong. However, the biggest mistake was Liu Hong and her parents.

"Greed" ruined his happiness, and Liu Hong personally ruined his happiness. No wonder others.

In fact, to be a man and do things, you really have to leave yourself a way out. While thinking about yourself, you should also think more about each other.

If Liu Hong is young and inexperienced, will Liu Hong's parents look greedy?

Finally, it's over. You can only say that you are shooting yourself in the foot.

Life is not easy, do it and cherish it.