My husband often likes playing mahjong and smoking, and the situation at home is not good. What should I do?

My husband, who often likes playing mahjong and smoking, is in a bad situation at home. What should we do?

Love playing mahjong, smoking and drinking. This is the "standard" for men.

Your husband is not bad. There are only two "standards" for men. It seems bad for a man to persuade him to play mahjong. Why don't you change your strategy and ask your husband to play mahjong less or not? You should know when he plays mahjong. You can ask him to go shopping together, or book movie tickets in advance to watch a movie, so that you can relive the good times when you were in love and let him have no time to play mahjong. What a wonderful thing. You have ideas about your husband smoking, too. He wants to smoke, you give him one, and you eat plums, which is not enough.

In a word, your husband loves playing mahjong and smoking. A wife should not quarrel with him. Noisy can't solve the problem. The wife has to find a way to make him have no time to play mahjong. If you come here several times, your husband's Ma You won't come to see your husband.

It's unfortunate that you have such a husband! Such a husband doesn't understand life, is lazy and has no long-term plans. Even if he has some money in his pocket, he can't squander it. I said long pain is better than short pain. Leave him. But if you two have children, you should reconsider. After all, children and everyone are single parents. It is difficult for such a husband to turn over a new leaf. Another way to kill two birds with one stone is to threaten him with divorce. See if he's changed. I have no choice.

There is a joke you can borrow. Tell him that if you go to play mahjong again, I will invite someone else to come home and close the door, because you are afraid at night and need company. If he doesn't listen to advice and continues to smoke, then tell him to go to the street when smoking and never touch you, because you hate the smell of smoke. If he doesn't try to change the conditions at home, you must find someone to help him. I believe that someone will help him. ...

You should keep your promise and don't joke. If a person does not change, it means that he is not bitter enough. You should make him suffer enough!

If a man doesn't work, he is not a man. He can't even support his wife and children, and he gambles. Where did his gambling money come from? Warning three times. There's no other way, only Meng Liang broke up.

I sympathize with this question raised by my friend. A man should stand tall and shoulder the responsibility of a perfect family. Love playing cards and indulging in gambling will make the family worse. If the family situation is not very good, gambling will destroy the whole family. You should explain these reasons to him, so that he can get rid of this habit and become the pillar of your family. It's not easy to organize a family, and it's even harder to build a real relationship. So, both of you should cherish it and wish your families a happy new year! Return to normal life as soon as possible. Have fun every day.

Men are the backbone of the family. Therefore, there must be a limit to everything, and playing mahjong is also possible. However, this is understandable. Smoking is harmful to your health. Quit if you can. If you are addicted to mahjong, you will never leave your hand. This is not good. Men need to change.

Playing mahjong is a recreational activity, a mental and intellectual activity with time and a certain economic foundation. It is inappropriate, even wrong, to play cards in the dark every day regardless of family circumstances like this. You want to play mahjong to change your life, which is the laziest move and idea. Ten bets and nine losses are the end of the casino. Or sit down and have a good talk with your wife, realize your mistakes, unify your thoughts, and open up a new development direction by changing your family situation and becoming rich. If you have a bad heart, you can't win at cards.

The same is true of a woman I am looking for now. She lost in three months and spent tens of thousands, but the situation is different from yours and she is ready to break up.

I have seen such a situation before. My husband was playing mahjong, and my wife smiled. She went home and handed the passbook to her husband and said, I watched you play, and her husband left.

Smoking is harmful to health, and second-hand smoke is more harmful to family and others. Playing mahjong is harmful to cervical vertebrae and lumbar vertebrae, and the mood fluctuates. It is necessary to manage the money well, let his parents educate him, and the husband and wife communicate well. After all, life is not a person's life. Playing mahjong, whether winning or losing, is not the beginning of life. It's also about yourself. You should stop playing mahjong as soon as you start. First of all, you must be persuasive if you don't play mahjong.