The gun's "routine" childlike innocence, a man with high emotional intelligence, is like this in picking up girls. what do you think?

0 1 Since Dear Dear started broadcasting, the emotional scenes of Han and Tong Nian, the characters in the play, have made the audience so sweet. Childhood is in K &；; After K Club got drunk, Gun became more and more fond of her. After he sent his childhood home, I recalled her softness when she was drunk. However, just when he fell into sweet memories, he unexpectedly received the message of breaking up with Tong Nian. Gun was not prepared for such an accident. After thinking about it, he replied to Tong Nian: "Have you thought about it?" It means saving children's minds.

After getting a positive reply from his childhood, he was confused and didn't know how to save this relationship, so the sweetness that just started ended in vain.

After breaking up, my childhood was actually in a bad mood. But she heard that a company was going to record the theme song for the cyber security contest, and Tong Nian actively signed up for it. Then they actually met at the theme song audition, and as a result, the gun was deeply moved by the song sung by Tong Nian.

Guns really have feelings for childhood. He never talks sweet words. He expressed his love to Tong Nian in order to get back together, so they got back together.

In fact, their reunion was not accidental. In the process of pursuing childlike innocence, the gun profoundly shows a high IQ man's "pick up girls" routine. There is no way. Love is at hand. How can he just watch and not take action?

One of Gun's love routines: pretend to be casual. Before he went to Norway on business, he deliberately revealed his contact information and itinerary to his childhood, but when he picked up the plane in childhood, disguise was a surprise. This is the performance of high IQ. He hid his inner thoughts, but inadvertently revealed them to the other party in disguise, giving the other party a chance to create such a planned surprise.

The gun's second love routine: refusing to be honest, calling a spade a spade and begging for a hug. After they got back together, Gun became bolder than before. This straightforward way of begging for hugs caught Tong Nian off guard, but Tong Nian was still moved by such warm feelings.

Gun's third love routine: give each other the initiative. Sometimes men are too active, which will make women feel bored. Therefore, before going to Sanya for closed exercise, Gun carefully informed Tong Nian of his schedule, asking Tong Nian to take the initiative to contact himself during the break, instead of letting him contact Tong Nian and throw the initiative to the other party, and he should also enjoy the high posture in love properly. Seemingly childlike initiative, in fact, the gun is the initiative with high posture.

In fact, in a beautiful love, you need routines. The so-called routine is not designed to make a person take the bait, but is good at using some skills to make this love perfect.

A few months ago, I went to a nearby university to take an art class. Among those who attend classes, a 30-year-old woman always attracts my attention. Because she can always interrupt the teacher when everyone's attention is the most concentrated, and during the break, she always says how other people's ideas are wrong. Her idea is very reasonable. Her behavior of telling others what to do makes me uncomfortable, so I remember her deeply.

With the gradual understanding of her, I know that this woman is a single woman with children alone. I don't know if she was born with this personality, or because she was dissatisfied with her ideals or stopped after divorce, she turned herself into a person with low emotional intelligence and good at attacking. In her eyes, everyone else is wrong. She complains about her life and surrounding environment from time to time, but she has never reflected on herself and never seen her biggest flaw.

Later, when listening to her complaining about life, I got a general understanding of her life. It turned out that she was spoiled by her family since she was a child, and she was competitive since she was a child. Whenever she wants something, she must get it. Whenever she feels something is wrong, no matter what others say, she can't get in. The ex-husband couldn't stand her personality and insisted on divorcing her. It can be said that her low emotional intelligence ruined my marriage.

High-quality relationships are maintained by high emotional intelligence. The so-called routine is to leave an almost perfect image in the other person's heart when I get what I want.

Knowing such a woman, she is really the kind of woman who cares about everything in the eyes of her friends and will be considerate of her friends.

I remember a trip. Someone cut his arm on the way and needed a band-aid. But how can there be a pharmacy in the scenic spot? When the reasonable person was sad and frustrated, the woman said loudly, "Don't be afraid, I brought a band-aid!" " When she took out the band-aid from her bag, she handed a small bottle of iodophor to the man who scratched her arm. People around her admire that she is really a thoughtful woman.

However, this woman has become a forgetful person in front of her husband. Before every business trip, she always needs her husband to help her with her luggage. Her husband was worried and told her not to forget this and that, but she remembered the men's advice one by one and looked happy.

As a person who knows how to prepare band-AIDS for himself and his colleagues when traveling, how can he not even know what to prepare before going on a business trip? It's just that she has to pretend to know nothing in front of her husband, because she knows in her heart that the more a woman needs this man, the more a man will behave like a man in front of her. On the contrary, the more a woman pretends to be a "woman" in front of a man, the less pity she can get from a man.

In fact, in the world of love, we should not only be sympathetic and sincere to our partners, but also perform some "routine plays" sometimes. This high IQ skill is the best way to maintain love. Not only satisfied me, but also satisfied him. Why not?