What if you are harassed by hr

A recruitment information of Netease HR was circulated wildly in the circle of friends.

HR wrote this in the recruitment information:

"Have a crush on my female colleague,

Give me a resume and I will help you. "

Even added:

"Give me a resume, and I can even help with the medicine."

A well-known enterprise HR,

Actually, he blatantly said that he would harass and poison female colleagues.

If you didn't see it with your own eyes,

It's hard to believe.

Encounter such HR,

Which girl is willing to be his colleague?

In such a company,

Which girl can work with peace of mind?

Misfortune comes from the mouth,

This is not just a joke,

It is also a kind of "sexual harassment" with bad influence.

Because I said something inappropriate,

This HR has been fired,

He paid a heavy price for his behavior,

It has brought a severe public opinion crisis to Netease.

This also gave us a profound warning:

"By our side,

There are still many people who are used to joking.

Do unpleasant things,

I still don't know where I am wrong. "

In the comments on Netease HR incident,

Behind every sentence "What's the big deal" and "It's just a joke",

We should all reflect:

"When your female relatives or friends,

Working in such an environment,

How would you feel? "

If you feel uncomfortable,

Please don't wear "shameless" as a joke.

On the morning of May 20th,

Weibo V "Dermatologist Lin Xiaoqing" released a message saying:

I was fired from the hospital,

And sexual harassment of female netizens,

And "throwing the pot" to the assistant.

The cause of the incident is that,

On may 6,

A female netizen sent Weibo to say:

When @ Dermatologist Lin Xiaoqing asked me,

Ask about "sex".

Female netizens think this is a social survey.

As the issues discussed by Dr. Lin become more thoughtful and clear,

Female netizens feel violated.

So sort out the chat history,

Exposed the doctor of medicine V in Weibo.

Unexpectedly,

After the female netizen exposed the harassment incident of Dr. Lin's private letter,

Nearly 70 female Weibo users came forward,

Correct the evil deeds of this doctor v,

One of them is a girl and a sophomore.

As more and more people begin to pay attention,

Dr. Lin had to come out to clarify,

First, he directed and performed a wonderful drama of throwing the pot to the assistant.

But soon the lie was shattered,

Finally, the hospital suspended Dr. Lin for investigation.

160w Medical Big V for fans,

Because I can't control my behavior,

Ruined his career.

When he faced moral condemnation and legal sanctions,

You still think,

This is just a joke?

Have you ever heard such words?

"Just kidding, don't be so serious?"

"Are you too sensitive?"

"He didn't mean to, human nature ..."

You may have heard of it,

You might say,

But did it ever occur to you,

Will people who hear these words feel indifferent?

I have seen a very famous play before.

Present,

Is a problem that many girls are troubled by in reality:

"What if you are harassed by people around you?"

"Go to the bar, can you touch it casually?"

"If you promise to date, will you promise to have sex?"

"You are so beautiful, you must have many boyfriends?"

In the play, the heroine Xinhui is a college student.

At a school party,

She was harassed by a senior,

He approached Xinhui,

Staring at Xinhui's accidentally exposed shoulder strap,

In collusion with it,

Also said with malicious intent:

"Come out with me, just the two of us ..."

Xinhui was frightened,

But for fear of being gossiped,

Dare not call for help.

It was not until the students next to him cleared the way that they escaped from their clutches.

The senior didn't succeed,

Spreading rumors at school,

For a time,

On the campus social network,

Countless swearing came at her.

She was ashamed and afraid,

Instinctively want to escape from all this.

But her good friend Kyle caught her,

Tell the cowardly letter hui:

"Don't be afraid, don't hide, face it bravely."

Bad guys don't get better just because you give in,

They will only get worse because of your weakness!

With the encouragement of friends,

Xinhui finally decided to face all this bravely.

She is no longer weak, no longer silent,

Start fighting harassment.

She said in front of the students who splashed dirty water:

"I like makeup, it doesn't mean that I am open;

Just because I like dressing up doesn't mean I'm casual;

Just because I don't say bad things doesn't mean I can bully people! "

Facing the boy who harassed her,

She stopped running away,

But to push him away!

"Go to hell!

How frank!

This is obviously sexual harassment! "

In real life,

Many people gradually began to understand:

Things that used to be disgusting and didn't dare to resist,

Will slowly produce disgusting maggots in my heart.

After that, I stopped being weak and defended my bottom line.

I found everything cool!

When girls become annoying,

Such malice will gradually disappear.

I met a pervert on the subway before,

When the subway is crowded,

Reach out to the girl next to you.

The girl couldn't bear to avoid it several times.

The pervert is still close behind.

I couldn't take it anymore, so I pushed the pervert away.

At first,

This pervert is quite arrogant,

But when other passengers in the carriage started to blame together,

Scared him to run away.

Harassed girl,

Never talking,

Just silently walked to another car.

That's when I understood:

"Not everyone has the courage to oppose aggression,

But as long as most people don't keep silent,

More and more people will take action,

Defend your rights and interests. "

On the evening of April 5,

Weibo said in summer:

I just met a salty pig hand in a convenience store.

Fortunately, she found a couple of passers-by to help cover.

Get out of trouble.

Under this hot search,

Many netizens have sent out distressed voices.

At the same time, male students jokingly left a message:

"It's okay, you're so dark,

No one can see you when it is dark! "

In the case that women's safety is particularly prominent,

Some people will still think this is a harmless joke,

As you can imagine,

Many times, a lot of violence,

Under the packaging of "somewhat ironic",

It turned into an unscrupulous move.

As early as 20 17,

Guangzhou Gender Center released survey report:

Investigation on sexual harassment of college students in China.

According to the investigation report,

69.3% of the respondents have suffered from different forms of sexual harassment.

75% of them are women.

The report also shows that boys and girls,

Nearly half of people choose silence after sexual harassment.

Only 2.7% girls and 1.6% boys,

Choose to report to schools and other management departments;

Only 1.2% girls and 0.5% boys chose to call the police.

In the "20 18 China workplace sexual harassment survey report" shows that:

Of the 233 respondents,

66.5% people have experienced sexual harassment in the workplace.

Among them, 5 were male, accounting for 23.8% of male respondents;

Women have 150, accounting for 70.8% of female respondents;

Of all the interviewees who have suffered sexual harassment,

The proportion of women is 96.8%.

Of these respondents, only 4 chose to call the police.

25.8% people choose to leave their jobs,

Or 18.7% people are depressed. ...

Heinrich, a famous safety engineer,

Once put forward an accident control theory:

"A serious accident was exposed,

There must be thousands of unsafe behaviors hidden behind it.

Like an iceberg that surfaced,

Only a small part surfaced,

Hidden underwater, it's much bigger. "

When the sexual harassment incident was exposed,

Actually, that's just the tip of the iceberg.

In places we haven't seen before,

More people suffer sexual harassment and even sexual violence.

Just like the HR "drug recruitment" incident,

On the surface, it may just be a joke.

Isn't it actually a long-standing unhealthy trend?

Women are not objects,

She didn't stop, she didn't make a sound,

Doesn't mean you can touch her legs,

Make some bad jokes and do something out of line.

There is a saying that:

"Flies don't bite seamless eggs."

Most of the time,

Not that there's something wrong with the eggs,

It means:

When you don't keep the bottom line,

You will be harassed by flies.

There are always some people,

He likes to make color jokes intentionally or unintentionally.

You didn't show disgust,

He might do something,

Intentional or unintentional physical contact;

When you don't show obvious resistance,

He'll think you don't mind,

Next time,

He may escalate to a worse situation!

Maybe give you a glass of wine,

Maybe it turned into real sexual harassment.

When you lose your principles for some reason,

He will be more unscrupulous.

On April 5,

A man molested a girl on the bus,

The girl broke down and cried,

The smelly man tried to grab the window and escape,

By the driver and passengers,

There are also good people waiting for the bus and stuffing them into the car.

Finally, the smelly man was taken away by the police.

Received the punishment it deserved.

In fact, in reality,

If you are violated,

Don't be timid,

Speak bravely while protecting yourself.

So there will be countless good people standing behind you.

Be your strong backing.

Please remember:

There is no robber logic that flies don't bite seamless eggs.

A fly is a fly,

This has nothing to do with eggs,

The egg is innocent.

If you meet this fly,

The best way is to shoot it on the wall!

Article source: Yi Bei

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