What should my husband's mother-in-law do when she sees a joke?

You shouldn't listen to your mother-in-law from the beginning. I have personal feelings, and the result can only be that she thinks you are easy to deal with. Now that I have resigned, I want to stick to my principles, and they feel it. Therefore, they are more wary of me. Occasionally, they look back at their son and become "tolerant" to me. My mother-in-law also sarcastically said that my tears were worthless.

My husband says I've changed, and I have. If I don't change, I will go to a mental hospital sooner or later. Not only will no one sympathize with you, but you may even be accused of being narrow-minded.

The key to this problem is to communicate with your husband more. It seems that your husband is a filial man. He can't abandon his parents and be totally for you. I don't think you are that kind of bad wife, but he must understand you. If his parents are really wrong, he must protect you.

Really can't. You will go to your parents' house, or move out, be independent, and don't look at their faces.

I think it's just that you are too weak and kind, which is why you are like this. It is not too late for you to change. You should fight, fight. Of course, I'm not teaching you to quarrel, but talking about methods. In short, you must respect yourself, otherwise, don't expect your mother-in-law to take you seriously.