Is it a good thing to be too polite? Why?

Not all people will treat you like your family, but even your family will appreciate your politeness. In front of elders, it is politeness and tutoring; in front of friends, it is politeness. Be humble and mature; be decent and generous in front of colleagues.

If you are talking about that kind of fake politeness, then I'm sorry, I won't even be polite to such a person. If you are talking about the kind of overly polite politeness, that's fine. I like this kind of person. He knows how much he weighs and doesn't need me to teach him.

I don’t think it’s a good thing. You are a gentleman, you are noble, you are upright, yes, you follow the rules, and you leave a perfect impression on others. However, if you think about it on the other hand, everyone will only treat you with perfunctory courtesy, and your interpersonal relationships will only remain on the surface. In my opinion, politeness means deliberate alienation, which is not good for interpersonal relationships and cannot bring you closer to others. There used to be a saying that the friendship between gentlemen is like water, but in this world full of routines, this principle is not practical for most people.

What you have to do is to be true to yourself and be grounded. You might as well put away the umbrella of self-protection. It doesn’t matter. Show your sincerity and overcome your inner protection first. I am only polite to strangers or unfamiliar people. When I eat with strangers, I pour the wine. When I eat with acquaintances, I put the wine and glass directly in front of them without even pouring the wine. However, I am very polite to my parents, grandparents, and close friends and relatives. After all, they are all relatives who have nursed me since I was a child. Besides, don’t you think it’s tiring to pretend every day?

Being polite is obviously not a good thing, no matter who you are dealing with. Human nature is greedy, are you willing to be polite to me for the rest of your life? Can I satisfy your initial kindness to me for the rest of my life? If you can't, don't be polite. I don’t know what you think of this article. You are welcome to comment and forward it