Interpersonal communication, don't be too nice to people.

I don't know if you have heard the saying, "Your kindness should be sharp."

There are many good people in society at present. To be precise, they should be gregarious. Too many people don't know how to refuse, and finally they lose their original selves.

In interpersonal communication, being too kind is a kind of criticism, because it will become the natural reason of the other party. When one day you stop being nice to him, he will think that you have changed.

I once read such a case in a book. A man felt sorry for a beggar in the street, so he gave him twenty dollars a day. But one day he went out in a hurry, so he only had ten dollars on him.

When the man handed him ten dollars, the beggar suddenly became angry. Aren't they all twenty? The beggar's words are like a pot of cold water in a winter night, which makes him cold all over.

He doesn't know that someone in this world really takes kindness for granted. Suddenly, he became indifferent to the world. Since then, he has never given money to beggars.

When your kindness has been taken for granted by others, then the word kindness has lost its luster.

The most important thing for people to get along with each other is heart-to-heart communication. When you give your heart and finally get a knife in your back, then you don't need to go easy on him.

War face is not a derogatory term, but a better protection of one's rights and interests. There is still a lot of beauty in this world. When calculation conflicts with kindness, many people will still be willing to choose kindness.

But when you choose kindness, please be sure to protect yourself.

There are many news reports that female college students sent their grandparents home because of kindness, but they were finally trafficked to poor mountainous areas and finally ruined their lives.

The beginning of life is beautiful. At the beginning, we were all pure and kind. It is precisely because we have experienced the dark side of society that we are disappointed in this society.

However, after helping the old man, someone fell down, and I believe someone will come forward to help. This is the goodness of human nature.

However, kindness is called kindness when applied to the right person, and stupidity when applied to the wrong person. Some people's utilitarianism is decades of thinking, and it can't be changed overnight.

Human nature itself is unpredictable. When you are sincere, others may think you are a joke.

So when you give goodwill, you must see if this person is worth it.

If kindness is excessive, grievances will come to you. Kind people are not stupid, they just think they should cherish this hard-won fate, so they are willing to help others.

However, when excellent people are used and abandoned again and again, they will also be disappointed in this society, thus becoming the kind of people they hate most at the beginning.

So don't let good people lose the heart and motivation to help others.

Some people think that kindness is to maintain the current circle of friends. As everyone knows, your kindness may be just a sign of cowardice in the eyes of others.

Persimmons are soft, indicating that good people will always be bullied. So people can be kind, but this kind of kindness also needs to be sharp.

In fact, the so-called interpersonal relationship is the expression of emotional intelligence. On the basis of showing kindness, we should set our own bottom line and principles. Once they touch, goodwill will also become a poisonous needle.

Everyone has a different definition of kindness, but kindness in the eyes of the public is definitely not blindly wronged to please others.

When you are kind, you should also distinguish between true and false, and don't let kindness become a burden.

Some people approach you with goodwill, while others approach you with purpose. Whether it is the former or the latter, we need time to verify it before we can come to the conclusion whether this person can accompany him to the end.

In interpersonal communication, there is no need to be kind to villains and backstabbing people, because they will only test their bottom line and principles again and again.

People will meet many people in this life. In any case, it is only a unilateral effort, and any relationship will not last long.

Therefore, it takes two people to run a relationship together and run in with each other in order to go hand in hand to the end.

The so-called kindness must be used in the right place and will only consume your people. Leave him as soon as possible. Because with him, you will not make progress, but will regress.

In dealing with interpersonal relationships, you don't need to be too kind, you just need to live up to your conscience. As a man, you must live honestly and frankly in order to attract people who are kind and straightforward like you.

Kindness is a compulsory course for everyone to learn, because it is an inspiring force.

But kindness is also a double-edged sword. If used in the wrong place, it may be poison, which will only help others.

Therefore, in interpersonal communication, there is no need to be too kind to those who have no conscience and do not know how to repay kindness, because they are not worth it.

Only when there is a sharp edge in kindness, then you are the most beautiful yourself.