More and more "little grandmothers" in rural areas eat and drink, but going out to work worries their families. Why?

This problem is the result of parents' doting on their offspring, which exists not only in "young women" but also in many "young masters". Such people are fed and drunk by their parents at home and live a life of "mouth to mouth, clothes to reach out". What they consume is the efforts of their parents, which has nothing to do with their own abilities. This phenomenon can be said to be the result of parents alone. Then, after going out to work, what are you worried about in such a wealthy family and family?

Different education for children will lead to different outlook on life in the future;

I remember a joke poking fun at the attitude of grandfathers in China, the United States and Japan towards their grandchildren: When the child stands on a stool, Grandpa China will say, "Don't move, don't move, and quickly take the grandson down to warn the child not to climb so high, which is dangerous"; When an American grandfather sees a child standing on a stool, he will go over and say, "You jump down, and grandpa jumps with you. As a result, the child jumps down, but he doesn't pick it up, so that the child can remember it for a long time and experience life by himself"; When a Japanese grandfather sees a child standing on a stool, he will go over and say, "You are a man. You can jump down bravely. You can do it! " !

Although this is a ridiculous joke, it illustrates a problem that parents' subtle influence on their children's education and future outlook on life is of great significance.

What are you worried about after going out to work, such a rich family and family?

1, poor ability of independent social life. Such children, first of all, have poor independent living ability. After going out to work, their families are afraid that they will "suffer hardships". Actually, well, as the old saying goes, you learn from mistakes! Parents can't take care of the "giant baby" for life, nor can they just pay attention to their children's knowledge education, but also teach them the truth of being a man. They have to face life by themselves, and their own way is their own after all.

I'm worried that such children will go astray.

Outside the world, children who are afraid of being lazy can't help but be tempted. Once they go astray, their families will fall apart. But it is not absolute. After all, everyone's living environment is different and their outlook on life is different. However, when young people have not formed their own outlook on life, once they go astray, the road of life will be bumpy. These aspects are the most worrying issues for the elders of every family.

Worrying is one thing, and "too big for my father" is another. Parents can only do their due responsibilities as much as possible, set an example, educate the younger generation, help their children shape a healthy outlook on life, and don't spoil their children too much. From childhood to adulthood, when it comes to wrestling, let him/her deeply realize that there is a "price" for getting something for nothing, and not everyone is worth it. Let him/her become a useful person, at least responsible for his/her own life. In this case, the "mistress" and "young master" go out to work, although they say that "children are immersed in love thousands of miles away", they will feel much more at ease.