Please, love life as much as possible!

Learn to cook, and you can be picky about food.

On Monday afternoon, the department manager asked us in the group who would take tomorrow off, and sh

Please, love life as much as possible!

Learn to cook, and you can be picky about food.

On Monday afternoon, the department manager asked us in the group who would take tomorrow off, and she was going to send us some cookies she is making now. As he spoke, a big picture of butter and sugar appeared in the group. We have already replied that we will never take time off to eat cookies!

The next morning, everyone in our department ate her cranberry cookies, which were exquisite in appearance and delicious. I sincerely thank her for her kindness to us, but the only regret is that she resigned and left the company some time ago, and before that, I was sitting next to her.

Actually, this is not the first time I have eaten her cookies. Besides baking cookies, she can also fry steak, cook braised pork, coke chicken wings and so on. Of course, that's all I know.

At a departmental dinner, she said that when she was at home, her mother told her to learn to cook, or her husband's family would laugh at her marriage. Of course, my mother told me the same thing. So she can cook all kinds of meals, such as jiaozi, steamed buns and so on. Then after getting married, I went to my husband's house and found that many relatives were not as good as her. Everyone looked at her with new eyes. I really admire her mother because she didn't spoil her only baby daughter.

Of course, what impressed me the most was not that she was praised by her relatives after going to her husband's house, nor that her mother was strict with her. Instead, I suddenly realized that we learn to cook and cook all kinds of meals. In fact, the biggest beneficiary is ourselves. Being able to cook means that you are picky about food, and it also means that you don't always hate ordering takeout or going to restaurants. I can cook whatever I want. In addition to eating delicious food, I will also feel a sense of accomplishment from the heart, such as deep praise from the other half, such as praise from friends. And this, from beginning to end, should be a pleasant enjoyment.

Someone around me said, "I can't cook. I have to find a boyfriend who can cook. " Or you will starve to death in the street. "It is true that many boys can cook now, and some of my classmates will make jiaozi, pancakes, handmade noodles and so on.

In fact, those girls who say that they can't cook or are not good at cooking are unwilling to do it because they don't want to, or they hate the choking smell of lampblack, or they hate washing and cutting vegetables, or they hate washing dishes after meals. In short, they are not unwilling to do it. Of course, if you have a partner who can cook and is willing to cook for you every day, congratulations, you are very lucky ~

I can't cook all the dishes, but I can only cook a home-cooked meal for my family. But I have been following my mother and watching her cook since I was very young. Later, when I grew up, my mother taught me how to make handmade noodles, pancakes and steamed buns on weekends, and I always made them myself.

Until now, I have basically participated in cooking whenever I have time. To borrow a sentence from my mother: taste is the second, participation is the most important, but you must make progress every time. Thank you, mom, for your encouragement and help!

Life is your own, why not be more refined?

During more than half a year with this manager, she brought me a lot of help and touch. The most intuitive impression left on me is that she is an exquisite person who knows how to create an exquisite life.

She almost wears different styles of clothes to work every day, with delicate makeup on her face and frequent hair changes. Passing by her occasionally smells faint perfume, but the smell is not strong.

On one occasion, she sent flower arrangement works to the group at the weekend, which was really exquisite and beautiful. She is not a professional florist, but she is good at discovering beauty and knows how to create beauty to decorate her life. Those flowers are beautiful but not bright, which really makes people feel very happy.

My former leader was financially independent, had a car and a house, and had no pressure of life. She has all the capital to create an exquisite life, both materially and spiritually.

Many of us are drifting with the tide. Even if we work hard, after the exploitation of food, clothing, housing and transportation in turn, the balance of the silver card is very poor. Yes, an exquisite life needs money to support it. We may not be able to fry steak, arrange flowers, bake, or wear different clothes every day.

Such a normal and exquisite life seems to be some distance from us, but what we lack is nothing more than material capital, and we don't lack spiritual capital. In fact, we are full of a heart that can love life. As the saying goes: the house is rented, but life is not. We should all strive to be people who love life and are good at enjoying it.

We can't fry steak, but we can make braised pork and coke chicken wings;

We think it's too expensive to buy flowers, but we can raise green radish, meat or a few small fish;

We can't dress in different styles every day, but we can dress neatly every day.

We can't go to the gym, but we can go to the playground, the park, running or walking.

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In fact, sometimes life is like solving a math problem. There may be many solutions, simple or complicated, but no matter which way you choose to solve the problem, as long as the final answer is correct, the process is really not that important.

When we don't have enough wisdom and choose stupid methods to solve the correct answer, no one will question us, and no one will sayno. Therefore, when we can't have an exquisite life for the time being, we can choose a simple life and create our own living atmosphere with our love and yearning for life.

postscript

This article is written for myself, encouraging myself to love life hard and find back my enthusiasm for life.

By the way, thank you for your patience to see here. This girl stays up late to code words, and mistakes are inevitable. Welcome to leave a message to correct me ~