What should I do if my parents keep quarreling at home, the relationship with my father is not good, and the family is not harmonious?

Hello, my parents often quarrel and make the family very chaotic. As children, you can use some words to persuade each other.

Hello, it is not good for parents to quarrel and should be avoided, but most parents still inevitably quarrel. This has both ideological and emotional reasons, more of which are personality reasons, and many of them are accidental factors. In short, there are many reasons for parents to quarrel, and sometimes it is difficult to prevent them. Therefore, once they quarrel, they must learn how to handle the conflict correctly.

1. Praise the other party. For example, if your father complains about your mother, you can persuade him: She comes home and cooks for you every day. This is the envy of many men. Don’t be dissatisfied.

2. Adding fuel to the fire. When the two of you are having a serious quarrel, you can say: Divorce him. We can't bear this grievance anymore. How can we live like this? Usually one party will stop immediately. 3. Ambiguity processing. The two parties often quarrel over trivial matters, but when they quarrel, old scores will be opened up, and old sesame seeds and rotten millet matters will come out all at once, and they will continue to argue and become chaotic. At this time, it is impossible to tell who is right and who is wrong. If we insist on making a clear distinction between right and wrong, it will increase the contradiction. It is better to let both sides share the differences and make peace the most important thing.

When trying to stop a fight, you must pay attention to your skills, and you don’t need to talk earnestly. After all, the more the two get involved, the more chaotic they will be. Just a few simple words will make them stop, because no one likes big principles.