The behavior that a man hurts his wife the most.

Lead: Couples will inevitably bump into each other in their lives, but some mistakes should never be made by married men, otherwise your woman will not only be sad, but may even drive you out of the house.

One of the most harmful behaviors of a man to his wife: nonsense.

Amy has been very busy at work recently, and she has social intercourse from time to time in the evening. It was already dark when she got home. What was greeted was her husband Lei Yang's angry expression and complaining words: Where have you been wandering without making a phone call? Do you still have this home in your heart? I was so busy outside that I was frozen when I came home. Amy burst into tears, and she was hurt to pieces by her casual words.

Generally speaking, it doesn't matter if you talk nonsense in interpersonal relationships, but the more intimate the relationship, the more careful you should be to avoid it, because any casual words may cause harm. In addition, most women fall in love with their ears and are extremely sensitive to the information inadvertently conveyed in male language.

Analysis:? Please be careful, my injury comes from you? This is a lyric that reminds her husband never to forget his wife's fragility. It only takes a little effort to jump to the mouth? Nonsense? Will you consciously hold it? Couple discipline? . If you manage with your heart, there will be heavy love.

The second injury: forgetting the important day.

Angie wishes her husband would take the initiative to remember her birthday and their wedding anniversary. Near that day, Angie always said some angry words intentionally or unintentionally, which made her husband a little confused? There was some blame and complaint in his wife's words. Finally, Angie said angrily, why do you always forget these important days and make people doubt your true love?

Despite repeated advice from marriage experts, careless husbands still forget their wives' birthdays and wedding anniversaries. In fact, there is not much mystery in studying a woman's psychology carefully: just to prove that her husband cares about and misses himself.

Analysis: Women are easily moved because they are more considerate than men. A husband who can share a happy birthday with his wife is a welcome gift. Almost all women have to face the hardships of this world while being housewives. Considering the double hardships of women, shouldn't men give women more consideration and comfort and convey your love to her quickly?

The third kind of injury: the repressed self

3 1 year-old Lili lived with her husband for 4 years. There is nothing wrong with her husband, but Lili is unhappy. Because in their marriage, every plan or idea put forward by Lili will be aborted in her husband's loud denial or confused opposition. If lily has plans for the weekend, her husband will definitely say, hey, who cares about the children? Lily, who is deeply caring, became uneasy at once. She was afraid that her husband would accuse her of not loving her family and having no sense of responsibility. Living in such a flattering habit, Lili suppressed her inner desires. In fact, she is not happy at all.

Psychologists say that women are more likely than men to suppress themselves in marriage, on the one hand, to maintain the stability of marriage, and on the other hand, because women think it is easier to control their feelings than to change their lovers. Therefore, many wives always bear resentment alone, but also suppress resentment, in order to please, see their husbands' smiling faces. Men certainly want to see their advantages at home.

Analysis: In order to strive for the best interests in the relationship with men, women often take actions that make themselves look passive, while men rarely understand their well-intentioned disguise, which will only encourage their bossiness. Repressing oneself can only bring about a deeper gap. It's better to open your heart and show yourself bravely.

Injury 4: A man's strength is a woman's weakness.

Men always think that independence is a virtue of men, but many times, men's strength is only women's weakness. Influenced by the male-centered culture since childhood, men always remind themselves to be a big man with indomitable spirit. The sudden silence from this often makes his wife puzzled: when she left in the morning, she promised to come back to accompany you tonight, but kept silent at night, because she was too busy and tired to find the feeling of talking today. How can a wife who loves her husband stand this silent torture?

Like Xiao Jia, she spent two weeks in her husband's silence with restraint. It was not until another night that she suddenly cried in her husband's arms after falling in love, and her husband realized that his desire for independent self-esteem had become his wife's pain.

Analysis: Psychologists tell us that because of different psychological needs, men tend to be lonely and women tend to be friendly; Men's psychological characteristics are more suitable for society, while women's psychological characteristics are more suitable for family. Therefore, in family life, men should obviously be close to women. A man's independent strength may be a brave talent at work. If faced with a two-in-one marriage, such a talent is bound to become a wife's injury.