"Daughter-in-law, what do you think? The banquet is held in the country, and a table is only 200 yuan. Don't do it in the city, it costs money "?

China has always been a country of etiquette. For most people, a wedding is a ceremony, a symbol and a turning point in life. Especially women, because they have always been emotional, the importance of weddings to them can be imagined.

Because the wedding is the beginning of two people's married life, it is to tell outsiders that we will be a family in the future, enjoy the happiness in life together and face the ups and downs in life together.

Therefore, there is no doubt about the importance of wedding for those who are ready to enter marriage, especially women. But after all, the wedding is a matter for two families, so when discussing the wedding, there must be times when everyone disagrees.

In this case, if it is not properly solved, it may leave an imperfect place for the wedding and also plant a time bomb for the marriage, so it should be properly solved.

Daughter-in-law is from Xiao Min. After graduating from college, she got a job in a local company and met Xiaofeng at work. Xiaofeng is tall, similar to Shuai Shuai.

Xiao Min has a good impression of him. Xiaofeng almost fell in love with Xiao Min at first sight and started a crazy pursuit mode. In fact, Xiao Min is not without worries. What worries her is that Xiaofeng's family is rural and has no house in the city.

But in the end, the magic of love overcame everything. Xiao Min and Xiaofeng began to fall in love, feeling more and more strong, and began to talk about marriage.

Especially after Xiaofeng mortgaged the house in the city, Xiao Min's family had no reason to object to their feelings. After all, Xiaofeng works very hard and diligently.

Xiao Min began to look forward to his wedding. In a beautiful hotel, his relatives and friends witnessed his happiness, but when the two sides talked about the wedding, differences quickly arose. Xiao Min lived in the city since childhood, and all her relatives were in the city, but her mother-in-law insisted on holding the wedding in the country.

Mother-in-law's reason is, "daughter-in-law, the banquet is held in the countryside, and a table costs only 200 yuan." We asked the chef to cook. The material cost of a table 150, and the chef's cost is about 50. Don't do it in the city, it costs money! "

"But my relatives and friends are all in the city. It's not appropriate for them to drive to the wedding, is it?"

"What's the matter? They came to the wedding and wanted to eat farmhouse music. Don't you city people like to eat farmhouse music? "

"Mom, a wedding is a wedding, and a farmhouse is a farmhouse. Xiaofeng, can you say something? "

When the daughter-in-law saw her husband Xiaofeng standing there without saying a word, she was so angry. This conversation naturally ended in discord.

Xiao Min always thought that Xiaofeng loved herself very much and would give herself a perfect wedding. After all, a wedding is a lifetime thing. However, when Xiao Min quarreled with her mother-in-law yesterday, Xiaofeng's attitude made him very chilling.

Angry Xiao Min felt that Xiaofeng didn't understand herself, so she had a cold war with Xiaofeng for several days. When I was shopping with my best friend Xiaoli this day, I couldn't help but vomit Xiaofeng and her mother-in-law.

Xiaoli listened to silence for a while and said one thing. Xiaoli's boyfriend and Xiaofeng are friends. It turned out that Xiaofeng spent almost all her savings to buy him a house this time, and even her mother-in-law took out the coffin book.

I didn't tell Xiao Min all this. Mother-in-law also gave Xiao Min money as a bride price and even bought her a whole set of jewelry, but she really didn't have much money at hand.

Moreover, Xiaofeng's father just paid off the money he borrowed because of illness, and he really didn't want to borrow any more money, so he decided to hold a wedding in his hometown.

Xiao Min listened thoughtfully. She doesn't want to have a wedding in her hometown, but she doesn't want to embarrass her husband. Suddenly she thought of a way, discussed with her parents in advance, found a hotel that was very familiar with her father and paid some money;

Then tell Xiaofeng that the discount in this hotel is very good and it doesn't cost much to hold a wedding. Xiaofeng didn't believe it at first when he saw such a big discount, but he believed it when he saw that the boss and his father-in-law had a good personal relationship.

Originally, my mother-in-law was afraid of spending money, but later she saw that the hotel was so cheap that it was decent for her relatives to come to the city. In this way, the wedding took place as Xiao Min imagined.

One week after their marriage, Xiaofeng gave Xiao Min his salary card, saying that he knew about the wedding and would treat his wife doubly well in the future. Xiao Min's heart is as sweet as honey. She believes that everything she has done is right.

The wedding is the first time that two people encounter marriage, because there will be different considerations based on different angles and different positions. No matter which party is stubborn and persistent, it will become a time bomb for future marriage.

The most important thing is to stand on the other side's point of view, understand the other side's difficulties, and seek similar methods in this process, so as to effectively solve the problem.

Fortunately, Xiao Min completed the wedding she wanted in her own way, and at the same time solved her husband's encouragement. As a husband, although I didn't know it until later, I still know his wife's efforts and efforts in marriage.

All in all, this is a good start. The most important thing in marriage is to respect each other, to be able to consider problems from each other's perspective and to be considerate of each other. This is the beginning of a happy marriage. Wedding is not the most important thing, the most important thing is the attitude towards marriage.