My best friend is 3 years old and unmarried. She came to my house for five days during the Spring Festival holiday, and our friendship is over.

Even Shen Teng said in the program, "Jia Linghong made me greedy after she became red!"

Although this sentence is a joke, it does express the feelings of many people. After Jia Ling and Zhang Xiaofei became popular, I don't know how many people were envious!

Compared with the box office of billions, more people envy the friendship between Jia Ling and Zhang Xiaofei.

These two girls have been supporting each other for many years, from obscurity to great success, and their sisterhood has lasted for a long time.

sometimes the affection between girls is really beyond imagination. It can be as firm as a rock and will remain unchanged after the baptism of wind and rain. It can also be brittle as glass and can't stand a little bumps.

I received a private letter from Jia Jia, a fan, who shared an unpleasant experience during the Spring Festival.

Jia Jia is 3 years old. She has been married for three years, and her daughter is two years old. She is deeply in love with her husband.

Many people say that girls should never marry far away, or they will regret it for life. But Jia Jia said that she was probably a beautiful accident. Although she married from one city to another, for now, life is quite kind to her.

Jia Jia has no in-laws, who died in a car accident many years ago.

I don't feel anything at ordinary times, but every holiday, Jia Jia feels that there are no old people at home, so she is not far away, and she goes back to her parents' house with her husband and baby for the New Year.

This past New Year, due to the current epidemic situation, Jia Jia did not go back to her family for the New Year.

But she still met her "relatives". On New Year's Eve, an "uninvited guest" came to her home-Jia Jia's best friend, the same age as her, who grew up as a big friend and was single.

After Jia Jia's long marriage, she rarely had the opportunity to get together with her girlfriends. She usually only chatted on her mobile phone. Especially after Jia Jia was promoted to be a mother, she was busy with taking care of her baby every day, leaving less and less time for herself and less contact with her girlfriends.

Therefore, my best friend suddenly called and said that she would come to the house, which really startled Jia Jia.

but "it's not bad to have friends coming from afar", Jia Jia still entertained her best friend with 1% enthusiasm.

when my best friend came, she cried and said that she left home because she quarreled with her own mother, and the reason for the quarrel was that her mother disliked that she could not get married at the age of 3 and would die at home sooner or later.

Jia Jia comforted her best friend and told her to spend the New Year in her own home. In order to avoid the worry of her best friend's mother, Jia Jia also specially called her mother to tell her not to worry too much.

when talking about her feelings, my best friend said that she had met several people in recent years, but they couldn't get along with each other. Maybe the man who can understand her in this world hasn't been born yet.

when Jia Jia got married, her best friend didn't attend Jia Jia's wedding because she was on a business trip, and she knew little about Jia Jia's husband.

when Jia Jia's husband came home, he saw that there were guests at home and they were his wife's girlfriends. In order not to disturb the conversation between the two people, he just made a few simple polite remarks and went to the bedroom to see the baby.

But this aroused the dissatisfaction of my best friend, who said to Jia Jia, "Jia Jia! Does your husband not welcome me? How cold and faint to me? "

Jia Jia said that her husband was originally a unsmiling person, telling his girlfriend not to think too much, but she was still not very happy.

in order to show her enthusiasm for her girlfriends, Jia Jia specially asked her husband to go to the supermarket to buy extra-large lobster when she had already prepared the New Year's Eve dinner. This kind of high-profile New Year's Eve dinner is usually reluctant for Jia Jia, but she is willing to "bleed" for her girlfriends.

On the second day of New Year's Eve, Jia Jia took his best friend to the movies, and Jia Jia's husband was waiting at the gate of the cinema while playing with his children.

best friend joke Jia Jia: "Jia Jia, how did you find such a man? It's so girly! Especially the way to hold a child! "

to tell the truth, although girlfriends often joke, Jia Jia is still not happy to hear her girlfriends say this about her husband.

Jia Jia found that after not seeing her best friend for a long time, she changed a lot. She liked to hurt people, but now she is good at "poison tongue". In addition, girlfriends are unusually "blx".

On the third day of New Year's Eve, the family stayed at home, and when they were eating, their best friend used the children's small spoon. Jia Jia quickly stopped, saying that adults should not use the children's tableware.

my best friend not only refused to listen, but also deliberately said, "melodramatic! When I was a child, we wore the same pair of pants! " After that, I also used my used spoon to feed the children.

Jia Jia is about to explode with anger. She usually takes care of her children very carefully and strictly subdivides the tableware, which has broken Jia Jia's bottom line.

But I didn't expect this to hurt my best friend. My best friend asked Jia Jia if she was annoyed at night. Jia Jia said that she didn't, but she couldn't accept the fact that adults used children's tableware.

On the fourth day of girlfriends' arrival, Jia Jia's family and girlfriends watched TV, and her quiet husband commented on single girls in the sketch: This kind of girl is really single by strength!

the speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart.

My best friend thought Jiajia's husband laughed at her, so she left a note the next day and left without saying goodbye.

My best friend wrote on the note: Jiajia, I thought our relationship was as good as it was then, but I found myself wrong! You've changed, and so have I! This may be the last time we meet, so let's put an end to our friendship with dignity.

after reading this note, Jia Jia feels puzzled. What did she do wrong? So that years of friendship will change!

Jia Jia was angry and sad. She repeatedly touched everything that happened in the past five days. She thought she was right, so she didn't want to call her best friend. If she really offended such a friend, it can only be said that they are no longer suitable to be friends!

Many single girls have probably lamented that they are single because they have not met the person who can understand themselves.

what do you mean? Do you tolerate your rudeness or just forgive your recklessness and rudeness?

regardless of friendship, love or marriage, in the final analysis, it is the ability to get along with others.

If a person lacks this ability, it will leave all interpersonal relationships in a state of chaos, get along with friends, miss love, and finally complain, as if everyone is sorry for themselves!

No matter how close the relationship is, it can't stand the "poison tongue", and no matter how good the friendship is, it can't stand a fragile blx.

An ancient philosopher once said: The true meaning of life lies in knowing yourself, and knowing yourself correctly.

when you think the whole world is against you, maybe you should reflect on it, do you send out malice to the whole world first?

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What do you think of people who are "spiteful" and "blx"?