Write a composition politely

1. What is "filial piety" in the composition with the title of ceremony? Ceng Zi once said: "Life is a matter of courtesy; Death, ritual burial and ritual sacrifice can be described as filial piety. "

Mencius once said that there are three kinds of unfilial. It is the first kind of unfilial to blindly obey and not know how to dissuade parents from doing bad things when they see their mistakes. Being poor at home but doing nothing to support parents is the second kind of unfilial; As we all know, the third is that there is no future. In the sentence of Louzhang, Gong and Mencius talked about it.

Gong was puzzled. He thought puffed up and the whole country said he was unfilial, but Mencius made friends with him, so he asked Mencius why. Mencius replied: "Generally speaking, there are five kinds of unfilial people; First, lazy parents; Second, gambling and drinking, spending all the money but not supporting parents; Third, be stingy with money and throw your parents aside with your wife; Fourth, do the opposite, indulge your desires and shame your parents; Fifth, courage and ruthlessness at ordinary times bring trouble to parents.

And puffed up just because his father did something wrong, he assumed the responsibility of repaying kindness and was not accepted by his father, so why not be filial? It is unfilial to let my father do something wrong. "

Confucius once said, if you don't respect your parents, what's the difference between keeping a cat and a dog? From this point of view, filial piety is to serve parents with a respectful heart, so that parents can have ample food and clothing, be broad-minded, be healthy and behave correctly, without adding burden to their parents and worrying about them. If parents are wrong, they should also speak out tactfully.

This is filial piety. There is an allusion called "Wang Xiang lying fish", which means "filial piety".

There is a city in the south of Shandong Province and a river named Xiao Mu River in the north. In the middle of this river, there is a place where there is no ice in March and September, and the boundary between ice and water draws a human figure.

According to legend, this is where Wang Xiang lies. According to legend, in the Western Jin Dynasty, there was a family in Linyi City, and there was a young man with a strong bloodline named Wang.

This winter, his mother was ill and wanted to eat fish very much, but it was September, and there was ice and snow everywhere. Where can I find a fish seller? Wang Xiang was in a hurry, and there was nothing he could do. One day, it suddenly occurred to him that fish must be afraid of cold and want to go to a warm place. I used my body temperature to melt the frozen water, and the fish swam towards me, so I caught the fish. So he ran to the river, took off his clothes and scraped on the cold ice. The ice melted and the fish was caught. Mother recovered from eating fish.

This is the famous legend of Wang Xiang lying fish. The story of this young man in the Western Jin Dynasty is very touching.

Wang Xiang became a model of filial piety in China. This story tells people that filial piety is children's absolute obedience to their parents, that is, they fully understand their parents and even sacrifice their lives to repay them.

Of course, Confucius was not the first person to advocate filial piety. The concept of filial piety existed before Confucius.

But Confucius was the first thinker who systematically expounded filial piety. For the first time, he considered filial piety from the perspective of national stability and world peace, and thought that if a person could abide by the principle of filial piety, he would not commit the crime of insurrection.

Filial piety is the foundation of benevolence. If a person can't be filial, he is definitely not a benevolent.

Confucius used this idea to educate his students, so some of his students are famous for their filial piety, such as Min Ziqian. Min Zikai, a native of Shandong, is said to have been driving with his father when he was a child, wearing a cotton-padded coat just made by his stepmother and shivering with cold. His father thought that he was driving badly on purpose, and was furious. He raised his whip and whipped it. As a result, the cotton coat was torn, revealing reed flowers, not cotton.

Father understood and decided to divorce his abusive wife. But Min Ziqian knelt in front of his father and begged him not to divorce his stepmother.

He said that if he divorced his stepmother, his brother would become like this. Father felt reasonable and agreed to his request.

Min Ziqian is a noble among Confucius disciples and a concrete practitioner of Confucius' filial piety thought. Confucius' filial piety to students mainly has three meanings. First, there is no violation, that is, he absolutely obeys the will of his parents. Even if he knows that his parents are wrong, he should gently persuade them to ignore them and still obey them with a pleasant face.

The second is "respect and support". Confucius thinks it is unfilial to support parents only in life.

He said: Just like dogs and horses, anyone can feed them. Support parents disrespectfully like dogs and horses. So respect is the essence of filial piety.

The third is that you haven't changed your father's way for three years. Confucius' filial piety embodies benevolence and runs through ceremony. He asked people to be polite to their parents. Death, burial with ceremony; Sacrifice it with ceremony. "

However, Confucius' filial piety has both classical humanism and foolish filial piety. After the development of later Confucian scholars, it has become a tool for the feudal ruling class to oppress the people. Since the Jin Dynasty, many feudal rulers have also played the slogan of "ruling the world with filial piety", which has had a great impact on China society.

Just as Confucius' filial piety itself is advanced and lagging, its influence on China society has two sides. On the one hand, it plays an irreplaceable role in maintaining the family unity and harmony of the Chinese nation, forming a good social fashion of loving the father and filial piety of the Chinese nation. On the other hand, he stressed that children should be absolutely filial to their parents, and even asked their children to mourn for three years. "Don't change the father's way for three years" has become a spiritual shackle that binds children, which is extremely unfavorable to the expansion of children's personality and develops into a post-Confucian "cannibalism ethics".

So we should correctly understand the meaning of filial piety. The so-called "filial piety" means respect, love and filial piety.

When it comes to filial piety, most people think that as long as they do their best to support their parents, it is filial piety. In fact, livestock and poultry still know how to feed back, and supporting parents is only the most basic part of filial piety. In addition to filial piety to parents, it should be extended and supplemented, and filial piety to clans even extends to filial piety to the whole nation.

Therefore, we say that filial piety in the modern sense is the expression of love, the true feelings of the country and relatives, the due responsibility between people and me, and the intimate relationship at the time of human relations. Filial piety maintains the order of the old and the young, and is a virtue passed down from generation to generation by parents and children; Filial piety is sincere gratitude for life, and it is also a grateful return without regrets.

Loving oneself is filial piety, filial piety to family, filial piety to country and nation. Therefore, the significance of filial piety is not limited to filial piety to parents, but should start with relatives and then extend to the whole society and country.

2. Etiquette essay is a national subject.

What is the most important thing for an individual? I think the first thing is to have a civilized quality. Only when everyone has the quality of civilization can the overall quality of this country be improved. Good behavior habits are the premise to ensure our smooth study and the foundation to build a healthy personality.

Students who don't have good behavior habits at school may be undisciplined and don't pay attention to hygiene, which will disturb the learning environment of the class. On the contrary, if we develop civilized behavior habits, the learning environment must be good and orderly.

We know that students in a school can only build a good learning environment and create a good learning atmosphere if they have good civilized behavior habits. Now, we are in the most critical growth period in our lives. What we do in this period will have a subtle influence on our own psychological quality, and civilized behavior will help us improve our psychological quality and moral quality at the same time. If we don't pay special attention to the cultivation of our moral quality at this time, then even if we have rich scientific and cultural knowledge, what is the use of people to ourselves and society? Therefore, first of all, we should be an upright person, a civilized and polite gentleman, and then we can become talents. We should not be machines that simply master knowledge and skills, but people with harmonious development of body and mind.

Civilization is the frontier of our quality. With civilization, we have the most precious spiritual wealth in the world. I remember a famous person once said: the realization of virtue is made up of behavior, not words.

Numerous examples show that the key to a brilliant career and a successful life is noble sentiment. However, the most basic question is: what kind of mental outlook, what kind of ideological quality and what kind of moral standards should we take over the baton of human civilization?

The president of Nankai University wrote a motto on the mirror: "Face should be straight, hair should be cut, clothes should be neat, buttons should be tied, head should be straight, shoulders should be flat, chest should be wide, back should be straight, weather should not be arrogant, colors should be peaceful and clothes should be properly installed." As a middle school student, we must understand that our appearance should at least conform to the atmosphere of the school and the identity of the students, and maintaining a generous and decent appearance is a kind of respect for teachers and classmates.

Students, civilized etiquette is the minimum moral standard of human society, and it is the external expression of one's ideological realm, knowledge level, moral quality, cultural accomplishment and communication ability. Ushinski, a famous Russian educator, said: "Good behavior habits are a kind of capital."

The formation of good manners and habits can be transformed into a person's inner character and sentiment. Image etiquette is not only related to the individual's own image, but also to the overall image civilization of the school society and even the country and nation. It can shake every student's heart. Image etiquette is a flower that can make the campus more beautiful. Fierce social competition does not allow us to stay in self-pity, let "image etiquette stay in our hearts", let us "learn etiquette well and beautify our image" and strive to build our own life building with our arms.

Civilization and etiquette are the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization and basic moral bottom line, even if we have profound scientific and cultural knowledge, what is the use to people and society? To learn everything to be a man is to learn to be a man, to learn to be civilized, to learn to learn to be social, to learn to keep the environment clean and tidy, to learn to learn to be a civilized campus, and to start with me and every little thing, so that the flowers of civilized etiquette can blossom everywhere on campus.

3. For the composition on the topic of ceremony, every family should give gifts when there are 400 words on holidays. The so-called ceremony is familiar to many people. If the gifts are too many and expensive, people will naturally not blame you. If subordinates make mistakes, they will try their best to please the leaders and give gifts generously. What kind of high-grade tonic, high-grade wine and bags will be brought to the leaders? This is a "gift" from them. Leaders will naturally be generous. The subordinates left happily. It's not so much a gift as a gift. Give a small amount of benefits. Under the protection of leaders, more benefits come from taking bribes. This "gift" is just a "profit" I don't like such a selfish and hypocritical gift. What I like is this sincere and simple gift. Giving gifts to relatives and friends is always full of joy. Buy some. This is the real truth. The next day after returning home, relatives brought gifts back. Just like opening the door and welcoming me warmly. That is the further sublimation of family ties. This is the real reciprocity! In the process of sending me back, although there is no gain or loss in this real gift, you can't send that kind of affection and blessing if you want. Different gifts for different people. The harvest fruit was given to hardworking people. That romantic rose is for the love of my life; Then'''''' innovative composition' gave me a gift, and the scholar was in high spirits. What gift should I give back? .

4. A composition of 600-800 words with etiquette as the topic. I went to high school for the first time. Thanks to Confucius: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand."

It means: without civility, you can't stand in society and family. Civilized etiquette is a habit that people develop in their lives.

For a person, etiquette is the manifestation of ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment and knowledge level, but for the motherland, etiquette is the reflection of living habits and morality. China is known as the "state of etiquette", and it is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation to be polite to others.

To be a civilized person, you must be able to use civilized language and do civilized things. Simply put, it is to be polite and reasonable.

To be a civilized person, we must speak civilized words, not swear, not swear. No matter before or now, during recess activities, I always hear some harsh words from my classmates. They may not feel anything, but it reflects a person's education and accomplishment. Others will cast contempt on these students, and their self-image will be greatly reduced.

"Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance." So, please remember, whenever and wherever you are, you should use civilized language, refuse swearing and stay away from vulgarity! To be a civilized person, you must learn to respect.

Respect for others is the basic quality of civilized people. For example, in class, the teacher is in class, or the classmates are talking, but you are absent-minded and don't listen carefully. This is an act of disrespect to others. We will apply when we grow up, and the recruiter is asking you. If you are absent-minded, look around and dig your nose and ears.

You don't have to answer. People have to let you go. Why? Because you don't speak basic manners and behave uncivilized. To be a civilized person, we must have civilized manners, reject violence and stay away from barbarism.

There will inevitably be some small misunderstandings and frictions between classmates. Some students will laugh it off, and some students will take a very irrational approach and talk about heroes with their fists.

As a result, regardless of the severity, the school should give criticism and punishment. If you are light, the teacher will criticize you; If you are heavy, your parents will pay for your recovery and your parents will apologize. Your dignity and your parents' face will be destroyed by your temporary irrationality. What kind of hero is this? Please remember: violence is a barbaric act. Violence will never solve any problems, but will only make things worse! Civilized etiquette does not mean a one-time action, but a permanent habit and a part of life.

Let the motherland become a civilized country and let foreigners look up to us more. Why not? Let civilized manners stay in our hearts and become as common as going to work and school, helping us and reminding us in life. I should always remind myself that I come from China and am a civilized citizen. Let foreigners delete all their previous impressions of us and let them look at us with new eyes! Students, sow an action, reap a habit, sow a habit and reap a character.

Civilized things are easy to do, but they are important things in life and the most difficult thing to stick to. Let's start from now on, in word and deed, bit by bit, form good civilized habits, speak civilized words, do civilized things and be civilized people, so that the flowers of civilized etiquette in our school can bear rich fruits.

5. Ask for a etiquette article with the title of "Li" and about 600 words.

Etiquette is a process of self-discipline and respect in interpersonal communication, which is expressed in a certain and established procedural way, involving dress, communication, emotional intelligence and so on. From the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external expression of a person's inner cultivation and quality. From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be an art, a communicative way or method applicable in interpersonal communication, and a customary practice of showing respect and friendliness in interpersonal communication. . From the perspective of communication, etiquette can be said to be a skill of mutual communication in interpersonal communication. It can be roughly divided into five branches: government etiquette, business etiquette, service etiquette, social etiquette and foreign etiquette.

Etiquette is based on people's life and social interaction. People can correctly grasp the scale of interpersonal communication with the outside world and reasonably handle the relationship between good people according to various etiquette norms. Without these etiquette norms, people will often be at a loss in communication, and even be rude to others and make jokes. Therefore, if you are familiar with and master the etiquette, you can draw inferences from others and treat people just right.

Etiquette is an important means to shape the image. In social activities, paying attention to etiquette in conversation can become civilized; Manners and manners can become elegant; Dress appropriately and be polite, and you will become generous; If you pay attention to manners, you can become beautiful ... as long as you pay attention to manners, everything will be done just right. In a word, a person can become attractive if he pays attention to etiquette.

Etiquette plays a positive role in regulating people's social behavior, coordinating interpersonal relationships and promoting the development of human society.

So whenever and wherever, we should treat people in the most appropriate way. At this time, "ceremony" has become the most important part of our lives. Etiquette is an art in interpersonal relationship and a bridge between people. Etiquette is an agreement that must be observed in interpersonal relationships, and it is a conventional form, that is, a conventional practice in interpersonal communication.

6. Treat people with courtesy. China is known as the "state of etiquette", so people have attached great importance to this "ceremony" since ancient times.

But there are many kinds of manners, such as politeness, respect, gifts, etiquette and so on. And few people can really do it. Because as the saying goes, "no one is perfect", we can only start with the most basic ceremony.

I think the most basic "courtesy" is politeness. Politeness can be seen everywhere. For example, you should take the initiative to give way to the elderly, sick, disabled pregnant women and nannies on the bus. Don't talk back to your elders at home, don't quarrel and fight, respect the old and love the young in public places, and parents should take the initiative to pour them tea, beat their backs and help their parents do housework as much as they can ... Now I want to tell you a rude thing.

Once he went to school, a snail came up and blocked his way. The little mouse said fiercely, "Go away, little guy!" " "The mouse said, and kicked the snail far away.

Once, a little mouse went to the river to drink water. He felt that a small fish in the river was blocking his way, so he picked up a stone and threw it over. The little fish was attacked, startled, and hurriedly dodged.

The little mouse smiled and said, "You know what I can do!" " One night, the little mouse saw a little pig lying on the side of the road on his way home and said proudly, "Who gave you so much courage to stand in my way!" " "Say, a kick. Bang, the little mouse just kicked on the pig's foot. The pig was fine, but the little mouse cried "alas, alas". It turned out that his foot was swollen in a big bag.

The pig stood up and said to the mouse, "You are arrogant and rude to others, and you don't know how to respect people. You suffered today! " Only by respecting others can we gain their respect. The little mouse looked at the injured foot and lowered its head in shame.

After listening to this story, we should understand that we should treat people with courtesy.

7. Polite composition etiquette has no weight, but it can make people have the weight of a feather, which can make people have the weight of Mount Tai; Etiquette has no price, but it can make people's souls depreciate and become noble; Etiquette has no color, but it can make people feel gloomy and pale, and it can make people feel high and happy! It depends on whether you have it yourself! Treating people with courtesy is like a warm wind in spring, which warms everything in the world and melts the hard ice of people's hearts; Just like a breeze in summer, it refreshes everything in the world and eliminates the heat of the air; Just like a trace of autumn wind in autumn, it blows all over the world and gains fruitful results; Just like a meter of sunshine in winter, it illuminates everything in the world, dispels the chill and warms the hearts of the world. "Those who respect others, love others and love others forever." As early as thousands of years ago, Meng told us this, which shows that treating people with courtesy is a noble quality! Look at that year: Xin treated the sage with courtesy, and Hou Ying rewarded Xin with his life. Lin Xiangru treated Lian Po with courtesy, and Lian Po offered a humble apology and made friends with Lin Xiangru. Liu Bang treated Xiang Bo with courtesy, so Xiang Bo pretended to be a repeatedly official, which enabled Liu Bang to escape. "People are rude, things are rude, countries are rude and restless." In Journey to the West, Pig Bajie explored in the mountains and saw a village woman: "Hey, fat woman, how to get to the road ahead?" In a rage, the village woman hit him with a pole. Wukong turned into a monk and saluted, "Sister-in-law, where is the front?" That's the advice. Fan Zeng was Xiang Yu's father, but Xiang Yu ignored Fan Zeng's "number" and finally let Fan Zeng leave Xiang Yu. Li Hongzhang once went to Russia and spoke freely in public. The result was ridiculed by foreign journalists, which made China people lose face in the hearts of foreigners. If they don't know etiquette, don't know etiquette and don't need etiquette, they will lose the help of others, and even lose their own personality and even national dignity! Treat others with courtesy, and others will repay you, even with death. The story of Kong Rong Jean Pear is still being told. Liu Bei's visit to the thatched cottage has also become a much-told story; Washington fifty-four etiquette rules, people should abide by; In ancient times, two families in Zhangye gave each other three feet of land, which should also be worth learning. Their examples all reflect the lofty value of treating others with courtesy, and they are all examples worth learning! China is a country of etiquette, so we should inherit this thousand-year tradition and feel the etiquette thoughts of Confucius and Mencius together. Treat people with courtesy.