Why did a rural girl refuse to play with a rocking car when she saw it for the first time?

Some rural children are prematurely sensible because of their poor families. The expression of "sensible" means that no matter what they want in their hearts, they have to show that they don't want it; Say don't wait. Such duplicity makes people feel distressed, and the sensible people who feel sorry for them are unhappy.

The rural girl saw the rocking car for the first time, and her refusal was heartbreaking

I saw a video online that recorded two rural children seeing the rocking car for the first time. car's reaction. In the picture, there is a little girl with a fair face and beautiful clothes sitting on the rickshaw. Next to her are two little rural girls with dark faces and simple clothes. One of them is carrying her younger brother on her back. She has a fixed look in her eyes. After looking at the rocking car for several minutes, someone wanted to pick her up and play for a while, but she backed away and waved her hand, saying, "No!" with a simple smile on her face.

When asked "Why don't you play", she didn't answer and just kept shaking her head. Later, people tried to persuade the girl by saying that she wanted to play with the little brother on her back and said, "Please give it to me." When the girl heard this, she took a step back in embarrassment and said, "No need!" However, they kept looking at it. As she started to rock the car, it was really heartbreaking to think of how she refused to play in every possible way.

Because I always insisted that I want the girl to experience the rocking car, I put in the coin and told her: "The money has been spent, and it will be impossible if we don't play." After hearing this, the girl no longer refused as before. As she walked towards the rocking car, she picked up her brother's little hand on her back to cover her mouth and snicker. After the girl and her brother got on the rocking car, they had a great time with a faint smile on their faces. Later, the girl’s younger sister also experienced the joy of riding a rocking car and said: “Happy!”

Netizens commented on this: Netizen 1: The little girl’s eyes are beautiful, although they are timid. But the light in his eyes was bright. Netizen 2: It makes people feel distressed to see it. Every child should be happy. Netizen 3: When I saw her timid eyes and her happy smile while playing on the rocker, I couldn't hold back my tears.

What are the symptoms of prematurely sensible children?

①Wronging yourself

Children who are too early to be sensible will first consider others. For example, they will always take the initiative to give in to their younger siblings, even if they are wronged, they will silently digest it. Children who become sensible too early may turn into a pleaser personality when they grow up, which is very bad.

②Hide your thoughts

Children who are prematurely sensible usually hide their thoughts, which is the "duplicity" mentioned above. In order not to cause trouble to their parents or to gain approval from their parents, they suppress their own needs, so it is difficult for them to obtain the happiness they deserve.

How to give children a happy childhood?

①Meet the reasonable needs of children

A happy childhood is nothing more than being able to eat, drink and have fun without any worries. When the child asks what he wants to eat or play, if it is in Within reasonable limits, parents should satisfy their children.

② Tolerate children's certain willfulness

Children will always have a little temper and willfulness. Appropriate tolerance from parents can make them feel loved and naturally make them feel happier. Therefore, parents should give their children a certain amount of room for willfulness instead of suppressing his nature.

Conclusion

Children who become sensible too early mostly come from poor families, so parents should still consider the family’s financial situation before giving birth, otherwise the children will also suffer, that is, they will suffer and suppress themselves. , losing the happiness that should belong to his age.