When it comes to emotional issues, women can stay calm but men can’t. What’s the problem?

The highest state of loving someone is to see that person happy and happy. As a person who has been here, Brother Xue tells you that the best way to cherish the person you like is to be friends. This is what I will give you. Your best advice is that when all of your objective conditions are in place, I hope you can hold on to yourself when pursuing a pursuit. Whether a person is mature or not depends on whether the person can control his own behavior and love you deeply. It's not the time to release this love. People don't understand what love is when they first fall in love. Come on slowly... Don't fight an unprepared battle. If speaking out will make you lose even more, it's better not to say it. If you are happy to say it, then you are only considering your personal feelings. Loving someone means making them happy. I don’t know if you have heard of such a song. Loving you means making you happy. This is not love. Greatness is an attitude towards love. You are really still young when it comes to relationships. I know you don’t like to hear others say you are young, but the reality is like this. You have to face your reality. If you want to love, you have to understand and respect it. I care about you and ask yourself, do you really know this girl well? Do you know that there is an intangible thing that gives the atmosphere of love? This intangible thing is the family background. I mean the way of education... I don’t know if you can. Understand what I mean. There are often many differences in concepts here. The meaning of this is to let you know more about what this girl wants. I think if I were this girl, I would hope that my man is A person who is much better than me can at least make me feel that this man can be the person I can entrust my whole life to. This man will do what he says and will be loyal to me. This man deserves my trust for a lifetime. Love is a great knowledge. Indeed, people have it. Sometimes you need to be impulsive, but when you can't bear the consequences of impulsiveness, don't choose to be impulsive. I hope you have more reason. Learning to be rational is good for you and the girl you have liked for a long time. Take a look at the following stages of love. Well, you will understand a lot. When you love in the future, don’t fight an unprepared battle. Know what she wants. Know what you want. Then weigh it. You will know how to deal with things around you. Learn from my brother here. Bless you...

A psychologist once wrote that a mature relationship that can be called true love must go through four stages, which are:

***Existence( Codependent)

Counterdependent

Independent

Interdependent

Transition between stages The time required is not necessarily determined by the individual.

The first stage: ***save.

This is the period of passionate love. Lovers always hope to be together no matter when and where.

The second stage: anti-dependence.

When the relationship stabilizes, at least one party will want to have more time to do what they want to do.

At this time, the other party will feel left out.

The third stage: independence.

This is a continuation of the second stage, requiring more independent time.

The fourth stage: birth.

At this time, a new way of getting along has taken shape, and he (she) of you (you) has become your (your) closest person.

You support each other and create your own life together. When you are together, you will not hold each other back, but will grow together.

However, most people fail to pass the second or third stage and choose to break up, which is a pity.

Many things will be fine as long as you communicate well, don't act out of character, don't think too much and trust each other, so that the time for the second and third stages will be

shortened. It is not easy to meet and fall in love with the person you love, so don't give up easily.

The two got together because of fate, and got to know each other because of their intentions. They really have to cherish this blessing, not to mention that the breakup was not without reason. I hope to see the above four stages

It can really give everyone some inspiration and understanding and cherish fate, and we will gradually become the people we love.

You and he have nothing in common. They have no similar appearance and completely different personalities. Once you fall in love with him, as time goes by, you will be surprised that your eyes are a bit like his.

, and his smile is a bit like yours. The pace of your walking is also somewhat similar, and the tone of your speech is becoming more and more similar.

There is a mole on his neck. One day, you find that you also have a mole on your neck. It turns out that we will become the person we love.

You originally like people who are down-to-earth, but he has always been more frivolous.

But when you fall in love, he will unknowingly become an honest person.

< p>Even he himself was not aware of this change.

He originally liked lively girls, but fell in love with you who were reserved.

These days, you have become more and more lively, and you almost don’t recognize yourself.

We will gradually become each other’s ideal person. This change is definitely not intentional.

The longer two people love each other, the more similar their temperaments become.

You once thought that he was not the type of person you dreamed of.

However, there are One day, you are surprised to find that he has become the type you like.

You don’t have to look around anymore, he is the person you are looking for.

When you love someone deeply, you will really lose yourself bit by bit.

Why do you still feel happy?

Probably because when you lost it, you also gained it.

You earned back his temperament and his smile.

Happiness is very simple, so it is easy for those who are very simple to obtain it...

I ☆ Qing Wu Feiyang ☆ is a young man who has experienced a lot of ups and downs in life. , here I express my views on life and love. Although it is relatively long, I hope you can read it carefully. I hope you can live a happy life!

In the following articles, I hope you can find your ideal answer and get rid of your current troubles!

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What is the reason why a person comes to this world in his life?

One word "love"

This is the sentence on the road of life: "The road has no end but is passing by"

Come and go in a hurry, What did you gain and what did you lose?

The most important thing is not what you gain or lose, what matters is what you encounter on the road of life!

Life is the process of finding love, and everyone must find four people in their life

1. Yourself

2. The person you love most

3. The person who loves you the most

4. The person who can spend your whole life with you

First you meet the person you love most, and then Experience the feeling of love

Because you understand the feeling of love, you can find the person who loves you the most

When you experience loving and being loved, and learn to love, you will know what is Only what you want

will you find the person who is most suitable for you and spend your whole life

But the sad thing is that in real life these three people are often not the same person

So you feel that life is not perfect

You feel happiness and troubles

The endings are different when you meet different people at different times

< p>Meeting the right person at the right time is a lifetime of happiness

Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a heartbreak

Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time The wrong person is a ridiculous time

Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh

The one you love most often does not choose you;

The one who loves you the most is often not the one you love the most;

And the one who lasts the longest is not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most.

Just at the most suitable time The one who showed up.

There is no need to be sad for anything. You will definitely say that it is easier said than done!

Use time to prove all this!

☆青五飞阳☆ "Love Chapter"☆Qingwu Feiyang☆QQ: 543845623

Many people in life ask what is love because they are confused?

Everyone has seven emotions and six desires, love is just one of them

People come together because of loneliness. Maybe you and him like each other and both live in loneliness. came together

The first love was all about liking, the liking later became love, and the love later became family affection. This is the simple explanation of love

Love and liking are not the same. It all depends on whether you like or love.

Love is hard to come by

When you love someone, you will give everything for him. This is love

< p>Love is happiness, love is pain, love is joy, love is sadness, love is helplessness...!

A light love is like, a deep like is love!

What you like turns out to be love, and what you love turns out to be family affection!

Love comes after love!

Love means that when he is there, he is the only one in the eyes; when he is not around, everything has his shadow.

I like it when I suddenly think of him while reading a book late at night, imagine what he is doing now, and feel a light warmth in my heart, but I never take the initiative to call him. A few minutes later, my attention was attracted by the plot of the book again!

Love is in the lonely night, longing comes like a tide, I hold the book in my hand but I can’t read it, and I am thinking about it in my heart. Wondering whether he is still working overtime at this time, whether he has eaten dinner, whether he is thinking about himself as much as he is thinking about him

I like to discuss issues with him and argue with each other, not giving in, and acting like he is in front of him. Like a hedgehog, he never admits defeat, but in his heart, he has already secretly admired his knowledge and talent.

Love means hoping that he will be in step with you and be connected to your heart. A joke he said unintentionally can make you feel depressed or even tearful in an instant. In front of him, I was never defensive.

I like to go out and send him a text message to tell him that the weather here is very good, then turn off the phone, play alone in a foreign place for a week, and suddenly appear in front of him after being tanned. Startled him.

Love is wanting to be with you wherever you go. You can stand on the beach and call him on the phone and let him listen to the sound of the waves; you can also stand still for a long time because you see a figure that looks exactly like him on the street in a foreign land. < /p>

Love was what he had been told before leaving on a business trip. He stuffed his backpack with clothes and food, and would not leave until the train left at the station. And in the days after he left, I was uneasy every day, praying over and over again for his safe return.

What I like is that when I am hurt, I don’t want him to see my fragile side, so I quietly wipe away my tears in front of him, and turn around, still looking happy and strong.

Love is when you are wronged, crawling on his chest and crying bitterly, without pretense or worry, telling him all your troubles, and longing to be comforted in his arms.

What I like is eating KFC with him when we are tired from shopping on weekends; it is grabbing a cup of hot coffee with him in the cold winter; it is walking side by side with him on the street, always half a meter apart in the middle; Playing games in front of the computer with him, the two of them smiled like children.

Love is spending half a day on weekends making a few delicious dishes with your own hands and watching him eat them with satisfaction; it is constantly refilling his coffee cup with hot water in the cold winter; it is walking with him on the street. She let him hold her hand tightly; she worked quietly next to him, happily watching him concentrate on working in front of the computer.

What I like is listening to him tell interesting stories about his childhood, and then laughing, and feeling inexplicably moved in my heart.

Love is listening to him telling interesting stories about his childhood, and then smiling slightly, and feeling even more pity for the man in front of him who used to be so naughty and mischievous

Love is meeting him in the corridor, happily I said hello to him and exchanged a few words with him. When I passed by, I saw the bright sunshine outside the window, and my mood improved for no reason.

Ai saw him in the corridor. She pretended to have an indifferent expression on her face, but when she passed by, she carefully felt the trembling air around her, so she couldn't help but look back.

< p>I like it when I see him walking hand in hand with another girl. My heart hurts a little, but I will soon smile again toward the rising sun.

Love is a game where you cannot afford to lose. After giving it all, what may be left is just a scar engraved in the bottom of your heart.

To like someone is to want him or her. It belongs to you, so you can like many people and want many people to be yours.

Love is obviously inseparable from him, but I have to give up on him, because the happiness he wants may not be given by me. I don't dare to occupy him, I hope to see him find happiness, even if that happiness is not shared with me.

What I like is that I hope to find someone to talk to when I am lonely, bored or sad.

Love means that I want to share it with him at any time. When I am happy, I even want to give him my faults and happiness.

What I like is, receiving his call when I haven’t contacted him for a long time, and then listening to him with a smile.

Love is, when there is no contact for a few days, you call him anxiously, and then hold back your tears and smile.

Like, only when we are together do we miss each other.

Love means that even if we are together, we miss him every second.

If you like someone, many friends will also feel happy.

Loving someone is a world where two people will feel uncomfortable if there is one more person.

It is sweet to like someone. Loving someone is a blessing in disguise.

If you like someone, you will be very happy when you are together

If you love someone, you will be inexplicably disappointed when you are together

If you like someone, you I won’t think about your future

If you love someone, you will often look forward to tomorrow together

If you like someone, you will always be happy when you are together

Love someone People, you will often shed tears

If you like someone, when you haven’t seen each other for a long time, you will suddenly think of him

If you love someone, when you haven’t seen each other for a long time, you will think of him every day< /p>

If you like someone, when you think of him, you will smile slightly

If you love someone, when you think of him, you will be in a daze at the sky

Like someone People, you will think that if they have children, you will definitely like them very much

When you love someone, one day you will suddenly be curious: what will our children be like in the future

To like someone is to hope that everyone will be happy

To love someone, hope that he will be happier

To like someone, you only need today

To love someone, What you expect is forever

To like someone is to see his advantages

To love someone is to tolerate his shortcomings

When you stand In front of the person you love, your heartbeat will speed up

But when you stand in front of the person you like, you only feel happy

When you make eye contact with the person you love If you vote, you will be shy

But when you make eye contact with the person you like, you will only smile

When you talk to the person you love, you find it difficult to speak< /p>

But when you talk to the person you like, you can speak freely

When the person you love cries, you will cry with her

But when you like When someone cries, you will comfort her skillfully.

When you no longer want to love someone, you have to close your eyes and hold back the tears

When you no longer want to like someone, You just need to cover your ears!

Like is a kind of emotional love and a feeling

Like is a kind of intuitive love and a feeling

< p>If you like someone, you can stop loving. There is no end.

If you like someone, you love someone very naturally and calmly.

If you like someone, you sometimes look forward to loving someone with them. , sometimes I’m afraid of being with him

If you like someone, you keep arguing with him

If you love someone, you keep giving for him

Like A person, hope he can find himself at any time

Love a person, hope to find him at any time

Like a person, always smile for him. Love a person, always smile for him. And crying

Like is persistent love and worthy

Like is like, very simple, love is love, very complicated

I like you, but I don’t necessarily love you. If you love you, you must like you very much

In fact, there is only one step between liking and loving

But if you want to take this step, it depends on you

Yes Do you like to take this step

Or do you love to take this step

Love is love,

Love will eventually lead to love

This is love!

Whether you like it or love it, you must see clearly whether your choice is what you really want or whether it is because of the existence of loneliness

☆ Qing Wu Feiyang☆ "Love Chapter"☆ Qing Wu Feiyang ☆QQ: 543845623

As long as there is affection in a person's life, there will be love. Only when you like each other and love each other can it be called love.

The deeper the love, the more silly people look. It’s the same for everything. You can feel it. Since you are in love, you should cherish it and don’t ask for anything from the other party easily. Love is not about possessing the other person, but about tolerating the other person. If you love his advantages, you should also love his shortcomings. People in love like to change something about the other person to get the results they want. Don't deliberately change anything about the other person; maybe What you love is what he is now. Maybe he no longer loves you if he changes. Maybe your haircut makes him not love you anymore

Love is equal, love does not need a reason, love is love, don’t expect too much Too many!

☆青五飞阳☆ "First Love"☆青五飞阳☆QQ: 543845623

When you are in love, there is first love, and every person has to go through this process in life,

Someone once asked me, what is the possibility that my first love will last forever?

People who fall in love for the first time will give their most sincere hearts to each other. Because they have little experience in first love, generally speaking, the possibility of success is not too great, but don’t be discouraged. Nothing is absolute. It all depends on your own efforts. I hope those who fall in love for the first time don’t think too much, feel the happiness now, seize the opportunity and decide the fate in your own hands!

☆青五飞阳☆ "Broken Love Chapter"☆Qingwu Feiyang☆QQ: 543845623

If you are in love, you will inevitably be lovelorn. You often meet people who are lovelorn on Baidu.com, and they are sad. Recalling my past, but everything has passed, don’t think too much about it

No one intentionally changes his heart, when he loves you, he really loves you

But when he doesn’t love you, he really doesn’t love you anymore

When he loves you, there is no way to pretend that he doesn’t love you

But the same is true when he doesn’t love you. Ways to pretend to love you

When someone doesn’t love you and wants to leave

You also have to ask yourself if you still love him

If you don’t love him anymore , don’t be reluctant to leave because of your poor self-esteem

If you still love him, you should hope that he lives a happy life

I hope he can be with the person he truly loves. Don't stop him

If you prevent him from your own happiness, it means you don't love him

If you don't love him, what qualifications do you have to accuse him of changing his heart?

Love is not possession

You like the moon but it is impossible to take it off and put it in the basin

But the light of the moon can still shine into your room

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way

Let the person you love become a beautiful memory in your life!

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