Mom's parents sent the wrong message. Shortly after the withdrawal, the director said that the child was expelled from kindergarten.

Every class has a parent group, through which parents can know the students' school situation for the first time. It can be said that parents provide a lot of convenience, but in fact it also brings a lot of "inconvenience".

There is such an unfortunate child. His name is Lin Lin. Linlin was unlucky because Linlin was expelled from kindergarten, not because he had any big problems, but because his mother was in trouble-sending the wrong message to her parents.

Lin received a higher education and considered himself a senior intellectual with a broad vision. She was very dissatisfied with kindergarten from the beginning. Not only that, she also deliberately discredited the kindergarten and found fault with it. She often talks loudly with people she knows about what is wrong with the kindergarten.

In fact, although Linlin's kindergarten is not very good, all kinds of facilities are satisfactory to the public. Linlin's mother's bad words are more personal prejudice. It's just that she was restrained and didn't swear publicly in front of the kindergarten staff.

Therefore, the kindergarten doesn't know that Lin still has such a side, or just pretends not to know.

Anyway, how can you walk by the river without wet shoes when you meet a tiger at the end of the year? One day, Lin talked to his friends about kindergarten on WeChat, edited a paragraph of Gong He's ugly words, but accidentally sent it to the parents of kindergarten.

This may cause a sensation, send the wrong message to parents, and before it can be withdrawn, the phone rings: your child is fired.

In fact, Mr. Lin Lin didn't watch the tour at that time, but only knew it under the reminder of others. Then who made the call? It turned out to be a call from the leader of the kindergarten. What a coincidence. Who would have thought that the kindergarten director appeared at this time?

How should parents handle conflicts with teachers?

Understand the situation carefully: If the child is wronged at school, many parents will not calmly walk into the school to discuss with the teacher. In fact, this does not solve the problem. Parents should first understand the situation with their children, then learn from the teacher and make a correct judgment after understanding the situation.

Communicate with teachers more: communication is a bridge between people, and many things are caused by poor communication. If there is a conflict between teachers and students, parents should not go to the teacher immediately, but wait until the teacher's mood is stable to understand the situation, pay attention to the way of speaking, and don't let the teacher misunderstand.

Stabilize children's emotions: Sometimes the fault is not necessarily the child, but parents should not directly speak for the child, but should first stabilize the child's emotions and help him solve problems objectively and reasonably. Let him know that no matter who makes a mistake, let the child and himself calm down and then solve the problem with the teacher.

Don't tolerate children who have no bottom line: children are rebellious. Sometimes they don't pay attention to their mistakes and often find reasons for themselves. Parents can't tolerate this. They should carefully analyze the whole process with their children, and then fully understand the problem, so that children can understand their mistakes and be responsible for themselves.

In fact, the contradiction between parents and teachers has existed for a long time, but it is not a unilateral problem of parents, but a lack of understanding between them. In order to make the relationship between the two sides more harmonious, not only parents should be more tolerant of teachers, but teachers should also pay attention to the way they get along with their parents and avoid conflicts.

How should teachers get along with their parents?

Respect parents: Teachers and parents should establish good relations, respect each other and treat each other politely. Teachers should not be too arrogant to their parents because of their high cultural level, nor should they blame their parents for their poor performance.

Teachers can only give advice to parents, but can't order parents not to vent students' dissatisfaction with their parents, otherwise it will easily damage the image of teachers and reduce the efficiency of education.

Report good news but not bad news: Parents send their children to school in the hope that their children will get better and better. Even though they know that their children's grades are not good, parents still want to hear the teacher's praise for their children.

If the teacher wants to talk about the child's mistakes, he might as well praise the child's achievements first. Every child has his own bright spot. Parents will be happy to hear the teacher's praise, which makes it easier to listen to the teacher's advice. Don't treat parents differently: the students in the class have different family backgrounds, so teachers should not treat parents differently.

When dealing with students' problems, we must be equal and not take sides. We should solve the problem according to the facts. Treat students and parents fairly, otherwise it will bring bad influence, cause parents' dissatisfaction and bring great psychological trauma to students.

In fact, the contradiction between teachers and parents is ultimately caused by insufficient communication. Without communication, there will be no interaction between people. The relationship between people will become cold and distant, misunderstanding and distortion will occur, which will bring harm to work and life.

Communication is a bridge of interpersonal relationship, which can make interpersonal relationship more harmonious and work easier. Therefore, teachers and parents should communicate more and talk more about their children. The two sides can meet frequently. Only when communication is harmonious can the relationship be more harmonious.

In fact, parents and teachers are all for the good development and future of their children. The two sides should get along and communicate more amicably, instead of being nervous and tit for tat.

Conclusion: Parents should know teachers, teachers should respect parents, and cultivate children's talents.

Today's interactive topic: How do you think teachers and parents should ensure good communication?