The conflict between men and women when there are emotional problems is one of the cold wars

Motive: It is the reason for the conflict between men and women. For example, in family problems, men and women will quarrel over things such as children's tuition fees, and then the two people stop talking. This is the last step after the quarrel. The direct and most common reaction

Purpose: When two people quarrel there is a reason, then there must be a result, which is what you call the purpose. After all, no one can calmly continue to communicate as if nothing is wrong after a quarrel. You must You will only give up when you achieve a certain goal of your own. For example, in the above example, there will be a result in the end. Dad pays, mom pays, or both of them pay half of the tuition. This is the completion of the goal.

Resolution: If it is this kind of quarrel with a purpose, then achieving the purpose is the fastest way to solve it. However, there is another exception, that is, the relationship between male and female friends is very subtle, and they will fight for reasons that are not reasons. When we were quarreling, for example, there was a little joke but it was very vivid: A boy and girl were hiking together. The temperature dropped at night. The girl deliberately wore very little in order to let the boy show off. When we got there, the girl said to the boy, " "It's really cold," the boy said, "Yes, it's really cold. Fortunately, I don't wear as little as you." Generally speaking, boys will give clothes to girls, but the boys above are relatively slow. After saying such a sentence, it is conceivable that girls will be angry, but logically speaking, boys are not wrong. In this case, it is nothing more than either If a boy finds the reason and apologizes to a girl, he or she will directly ask for forgiveness through a sugar-coated attack, otherwise it will be difficult to resolve the conflict.