The blind date process is not smooth, you can try it like this.

One: first confirm the source of the blind date.

He was introduced by his parents? Was it introduced by a friend? Or a dating site? These three are qualitatively different.

1. If it is introduced by parents. Well, first of all, both parents are right, and both families recognize each other. This is very important, which means that both sides are at least suitable for each other, and many basic questions have been simply screened for you by your parents. Then in the next relationship, I will pay more attention to whether there is eye contact; Whether the three views are consistent; If there's anything to talk about.

2. If it is introduced by a friend. That will mean that in their eyes, you are matched in appearance, experience and emotional history. Because when they get along with you, they will know what you like better than their parents. Then I will pay more attention to what the other family is like in the next relationship; Whether the other party is in the same city as me; Hardware of the other party; And how to think about the future.

3. If it is a blind date website. Then we should pay attention to all the problems, because even if there is no reliable introduction from parents and no suitable introduction from friends, the next relationship will be slower than the above two.

Two: the tentative blind date is introduced by parents (choose a more common option)

1. Sit down and look at the place where you choose to date. It's not necessarily demanding here, because everyone's situation is different, and the place you choose should be as standard as possible in peacetime. )

2. Look at each other's clothes. Clothes are clean and generous, and the style is close to life or work. Since it's a blind date, put on new or freshly washed clothes! Never bring oil stains or strange smells; Don't wear heavy perfume (some straight men can't master much, they can smell it from a distance, and girls won't think you are particular, they will only think you are low-level ...), so they can freshen the taste of washing powder; Hair must be clean and fresh.

3. Watch the dialogue. After greeting and sitting down, you can ask the other person how they came and then send them back. Ask the other person what he wants to eat/drink, and don't come straight to the point (what do you do, what do I do, what do I have, what do you have? Since it was introduced by parents, there is nothing wrong with the materials.

Some people will say that everyone's time is precious. Isn't that what blind date is all about? We are all adults. Let's be honest and don't waste each other's time. Then I will ask, what is the purpose of your blind date? It's not that you don't believe in the truth, but in the era of fast food, you also go with the flow. Don't wait until the question appears at the end of the debate. "I didn't expect that you are such a person!" ")

4. Look at your habits. There used to be a joke about this on the internet. After decades of running-in, a couple finally separated. The reason for divorce seems simple and strange, just because the husband played with ash in the flowerpot where his wife raised flowers. The daughter asked her mother why she was so determined to divorce. My mother said that I have put up with him for a long time. From this move, we can see his disrespect for me and the inappropriateness of the two of us. ]

I think, in a marriage relationship, the saddest thing is this state. He plays with ashes in your flowers, and what you think is most worthy of respect and care is nothing to him.

Where can I see this? 1. Look at each other's attitude towards the waiter. 2. After you give a speech, see the other person's reaction. 3. Look at his behavior in the interactive scene (for example, what will he do if someone accidentally meets him on the road/for example, he will be considerate of you to slow down in high heels or sit down and rest, etc. ).

5. Finally take me home. Do take me home. If you don't like it, I will think that you don't like me. Even if you are right in the future, I will think that I am just a choice you have to make.

Three: When I got home, I learned that you had a good impression on me, and I also had a good impression on you through observation.

1. Please express your feelings directly to me. Since it is a blind date, it means that everyone wants to find the other half and has a clear goal. If you have a good impression on me, please express it directly to me. Don't let the middleman convey it. I think you don't have the courage to face me, or you don't have the courage to face my refusal.

2. Communicate and substitute into the scene. You can express the things that move you when you get along with each other, express what you haven't said offline with online words, and give each other a feeling that you understand me. For example (I like cats, too, and dream of being a shovel officer with my other half)

3. Keep chatting for a few days. Good morning, good afternoon and good night. What are you doing, what am I doing, sharing daily life, sharing videos and so on. 4. Look for opportunities to meet each other through communication. For example, if you know that the other party is going to xxx, invite them to set off together!

You can directly determine the relationship when you meet for the second time. I won't talk about it here, such as unintentional touching and more intimate movements. As long as the girl allows you to enter the intimate distance, then 80% will win!

Four: After returning to China, I learned that you have a good impression on me, but I have no feelings for you after observation.

1. We need references. Ask what you are dissatisfied with by innuendo, and then let the middleman give you advice from your own advantages. After all, since it is a date, the elders still listen.

2. Express your sincerity online. I don't mind taking my time. I am a straight man and have little experience with girls. I'll just chat online for a few days to create opportunities to meet.

Pay attention to what the other person doesn't like after meeting, and don't do it again. Don't touch it, go to some places where you often go and show off (for example, can you box? You can draw? You can sing? Is there a familiar friend's shop? )

4. After meeting, ask about your feelings and further attack your heart.