I feel like I am like Haizao, and I have also met a man like Song Siming. How can I...

I have seen ignorant people, but I have never seen such ignorant people.

I have seen shameless people, but I have never seen such shameless people.

I can tell you with certainty that you will not have a good outcome.

Besides, none of the reasons you mentioned are tenable.

First, you said you would not destroy his family. But when you have a relationship with this man, you have already destroyed his family. Whether it is the male servant or the man's wife, there are potential dangers that will break out sooner or later. The only difference is that it's sooner or later.

Second, you said that you do not have a good family background, but you still have the qualities, appearance and temperament you should have thanks to my own efforts. As the saying goes, appearance comes from the heart. Without a healthy outlook on life, how can you have a good appearance and temperament? Your current appearance and temperament are brought about by your healthy life in the past. Being a mistress will definitely bring about a bad life and mental state. How will it bring about your future temperament? How to create space?

Not to mention that your appearance will age!

Thirdly, you said that you two have no basis for relationship and only care about your appearance. Have you ever thought that there is someone more beautiful than you? Don't tell me that you are the most beautiful woman in the world. Even the most beautiful woman in the world will get tired after being together for a while. Do you know when someone gets tired of aesthetics?

Fourth, your subconscious mind says that you will cultivate feelings. Do you think you are better at playing with emotions than the other person? Furthermore, if he can ignore the feelings of the married couple, how likely is it that he will take into account the feelings of you, a dishonest and shameless woman?

Fifth, do you want to impress the other party with your skills? Do you think your skills are better than a man who has read countless people? People in the world pretend not to know, pretend to be impressed, they just lie to you and make you think you are more sophisticated than the other person. In fact, I was laughing in my heart.

Sixth, do you want to hang out for a few more years and get married normally after making money? You dream. First of all, others will not let you take away how much money you have. Secondly, you think all men are stupid, but you are willing to marry someone else’s mistress? There are no men who are willing to marry a mistress, but they don't marry you because they love you.

Seventh, you ask: Is it the Chinese secular view that it is right for a man to be imprisoned in the woman he marries for the rest of his life? Is it wrong to look for lovers? Of course, as a woman, I He definitely doesn’t want to hurt his wife. As long as he doesn’t hurt his wife, is it necessarily wrong for a man to have an affair outside of marriage?

I can answer you clearly, not only Chinese people are like this, but also foreigners. This is also true, including in the animal kingdom. Looking for lovers is simply wrong! It is beyond doubt! You don't want to hurt his wife, but you have actually hurt her. There is probably no other person in the world who is willing to share your husband with others except you!

Eighth, if someone treats you as a plaything, they will not tell you directly that they treat you as a plaything. A person who doesn't care about your personal future and only cares about playing with your body doesn't treat you as a plaything, then what does he treat you like?

Ninth, the story of Haiwei and Song Siming is just a fabricated story, but you regard it as fact as the reason why you are willing to be a mistress, which shows what a bastard you are. Whether that story is true or not, it has no necessary connection with you. Besides, it is also clearly stated in the TV series that Haiwei is just a stand-in for Song Siming's first love. But you think of it as feelings. It is very different from ordinary feelings. What if the original person is found one day?

Ninth, you are still asking about ideals and career. It seems that you don’t know what ideals and careers are at all. It seems that you do not have a correct outlook on life and world view at all. No wonder you have such abnormal thoughts.

Did he pave the way for your ideals? Then say this is not your ideal, just a temporary random thought.

Tenth, you think you are not a monster. That's right, you are just a plaything, not even a pet. A fool who can't tell the difference between being silly and silly can only be a plaything.

You have said so much and defended so much, but only the first sentence is correct: Love fantasy, be ignorant, mature on the outside, childish on the inside.

The most shameless fool in the world!

You can forgive the evil you do by God, but you will not live if you do it yourself!

With your stupidity, you will definitely get retribution within a year. If you don’t believe me, just wait and see. If there is no retribution within a year, come and scold me.

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Think about it carefully What you're doing now may be right. Depending on your intelligence, I believe that you may not be able to earn the life you have now just by relying on your own abilities and abilities. If you can enjoy it now, enjoy it. Otherwise, after passing this village, there will be no such store. Of course, don’t forget that this kind of life will last forever. Be prepared to leave at any time, and be mentally prepared to suffer hardship after leaving him.