What is the final outcome of the older women around you?

In the last article, we said: What is the fundamental reason why older women can't get married? Today, let's talk about the final outcome of older women:

Widows and orphans

stepmother

Homosexual

Convert to Buddhism

Which one do you choose?

Although it is a joke, it also reflects a common phenomenon in society. Saying "leftover women" is not derogatory. In fact, most of the leftover women actually want to get married when they are old, but they can't find anyone to entrust them for various reasons. I want it, but I can't get it. In fact, if you look at similar people around you, you can see that they are "low-minded" and have average conditions, so they have to find a rich second generation. Once you speak your mind and want to get married, you will become the laughing stock of people around you. There are so many boys around you. Why can't you find a boyfriend? In fact, in the eyes of others, many boys who are very suitable for her may not realize it in her eyes. Or because everyone has similar conditions, maybe we can meet better ones in the future? So you'll be a leftover woman in a minute.

Everyone has a characteristic, especially sensitive to the words "older", "leftover women" and "married", because it will hurt the situation that you want to get married but your eyes are too high to find a boyfriend. So when you ask them why they are well-qualified and beautiful, why not find a boyfriend? They will use a theory that they want to be single to get others back. For example, after marriage, you will be held by your children, and you will be a mother-in-law and a nanny at home. And being single can enjoy the benefits of being single without restriction. Eat if you want, and play if you want. After I get paid today, I'm going to buy LV's new bag. But in fact, they want to have a career and enjoy life. You can also meet the male god in your mind and live a sweet and happy life. However, the reality is cruel. I can slap you in the face and cover my burning face at some time, but I can't shout pain. Watching all my friends get married and have children. However, it is too late. When you are in your thirties, you will find a man with average or worse conditions. Men of the same age are married, but girls younger than themselves can't compete. This is the saddest thing. Anyway, I made it myself.

Youth is the most precious capital in a woman's life! But they just bound themselves in their own circles with their own ideas. I was also fooled by the serious remarks of some high-quality women who want to be single to death. I don't have the capital to be single all my life. I would rather be lonely and arrogant to death than go with the flow and find someone to marry when I am old and can't stand the pressure. I don't know if I have the capital.

In fact, the final outcome is:

The first is to be single until death. If you have a good family, you can make money yourself. Sure! No problem, you can live a very chic life. A woman with a general family background who earns her own living expenses will be miserable after middle age.

The second type is packaging processing type. Seeing that I am getting older every day, I really can't stand the pressure, so I just find someone to marry. This kind of person often finds the other half in the end, and is generally not better than the original suitor.

In fact, having said so much, I didn't belittle the leftover women at all. It is just a social phenomenon produced by society in the era of change. Just like someone else had a great mobile phone in the 1990s, now everyone is holding it to brush the headlines. Mobile phone is the product of the changes of the times. So are the leftover women. In fact, this also shows that our society is also making progress. The more developed countries, the lower the marriage rate. It's just that our country and society are developing too fast, and the traditional concept has not kept pace with the development, so the term "leftover women" has come into being.

What should I do after I finally say "leftover"

I want to persuade my friends who are still single. In fact, most people will get married eventually. Don't waste time looking for people with the same view. Don't slap others to death because of some trivial things, "what constellation is not suitable", "not handsome" and "wearing rustic clothes" In fact, there are no couples who are perfectly matched in all aspects in the world, and they all have to rely on time to get used to it.

Finally, let's talk about the final outcome of the leftover women around us.