When a parent gives a teacher a banner that says, "You can't teach me anything," will my child be able to hold his head up in school in the future?

A parent gives a teacher a banner that says: If you can’t teach anything well, call the parent first. ?. After going through something like this, I think it will be difficult for my children to hold their heads up and be normal students in school in the future.

Conflicts between teachers and parents can often be resolved in other ways, and it does not necessarily have to be such an extreme act as sending a banner.

Perhaps such behavior makes parents feel very comfortable because the teacher has been embarrassed in school. But what parents don't think about is what kind of life they will have with their children in school.

The reason why it is believed that parents’ behavior will make children unable to hold their heads up in school has the following two important reasons: 1. Parents make teachers lose face

They all say :?Respect between people is a mutual behavior. ?, if a teacher wants to gain the respect of parents, the teacher first needs to respect the parents. If parents want to gain the respect of teachers, they must first respect teachers.

In this incident, the teacher's behavior may have been inappropriate, but this is not the reason for the parents to send the banner. You must know that such a negative pennant will bring shame to the teacher in the school and become a joke to the whole school.

It is even more likely that the teacher will be interviewed by the school leaders because of this "pennant". 2. Children are still being educated by teachers

As the old saying goes: "Kill the enemy by one thousand, but you will lose eight hundred by yourself." ?, as parents of children, we have made the relationship between ourselves and teachers so rigid. I think when teachers lose face, they will naturally hate parents and their children.

Although teachers cannot directly target parents, they can target their children. In daily teaching work, the management of children's education is loose and even laissez-faire.

The teacher's deliberate neglect of the children will make the children feel very confused and lost. Correspondingly, the students will also point fingers at the children.

So as a parent of a child, you cannot do similar things. When problems arise, you should communicate with the teacher rationally.