After less than a year of marriage, my wife got divorced: Before the marriage, she was all cheating, but after the marriage, he became a mama’s boy. What do you think?

Less than a year after the wedding, his wife filed for divorce: before the marriage, he was all cheating, but after the marriage, he became a mama's boy!

Xiaoqiu, the helper, told the mediator that she had been married for less than a year, but she always felt that she had been deceived into getting married. What was going on? According to Xiaoqiu, she and her husband were married. They were married less than a year ago and now have a three-month-old child. Before marriage, Xiaohui was considerate and obedient to her, but she couldn't accept the changes after marriage. What kind of promises were made before marriage? She failed to do so, which made her suspect that she had married a liar. Now she asked for help either to let Xiaohui fulfill the promise he made to her before marriage, or to get a divorce.

Xiao Qiu thinks that her husband, Xiao Hui, is a complete mama’s boy. Basically, he does whatever his father says and whatever his mother says. Xiao Qiu’s mother also said this about her son-in-law, Xiao Hui. No, they listen to their parents in everything. After getting married, the whole family seems to be decided by their parents. Xiao Qiu even said aggrievedly that the quarrels at home were all about trivial matters, and it was all caused by the parents-in-law. They now live with their parents-in-law. . The conflict last time was because the young couple had a quarrel, and the father-in-law intervened. What was even more outrageous was that the father-in-law knocked a bowl of freshly cooked millet porridge to the ground and sprinkled it all on Xiao Qiu. He didn't know whether he meant it. It was still unintentional, but when her husband Xiaohui saw this, he ate his own food as if nothing happened, which made Xiaoqiu feel aggrieved again and again.

Xiaohui opened a car repair shop and took his father to run it together. When he came to the shop, Xiaohui explained what happened that day. Xiaohui said that because his wife wanted to learn to drive, but in order to take care of the children , I asked her not to go to the driving school and promised to teach her in person. My wife called Xiaohui at noon that day and drove back when she had dinner. She could learn it when she had time. Because Xiaoqiu’s tone on the phone was not nice, so Xiaohui did not He didn't drive the car back and didn't teach him. This made Xiao Qiu angry. When he saw Xiao Hui eating, Xiao Qiu cursed, "Why don't I eat you to death?" Because this sentence was heard by Xiao Hui's father. , he said a few words to Xiao Qiu on the spot, don’t be so fierce. Regarding the matter of throwing the bowl, Xiao Hui’s father, Mr. Xu, said that he was too tired just after returning from work and could not hold the bowl firmly, so he dropped it. Not on purpose.

Seeing what her husband said to her father-in-law, Xiao Qiu couldn’t believe it. She said that since her parents-in-law came, she felt that the whole family was guarding her as much as a thief. That’s not what Mr. Xu said. He said that his daughter-in-law Xiaoqiu did not want them to live in his son's house. As for Mr. Xu's statement, Xiaoqiu admitted that this was because Xiaohui promised himself a lot before the marriage and agreed on all conditions before the marriage. At that time, Xiaohui promised not to I will live with my parents, but now? Xiaoqiu said that she didn't like Xiaohui at all at first. It was because Xiaohui had been stalking her for so long and promised everything later that they got together. She didn't expect that it would be like this after marriage. It really was all about her before marriage. Liar, not long after the wedding, Xiaohui brought all his parents and younger brothers over. Xiaoqiu, who likes the world of two people, naturally couldn't accept it.

Xiao Qiu said frankly that he hoped that his parents-in-law could move out. There was another house in the city. Xiaohui put it in his father-in-law’s name. Regarding Xiao Qiu’s statement, his father-in-law, Mr. Xu, rejected it on the spot. He said that the house was rented and it was very small. He was worried that he would be laughed at if people found out that he had moved out because he had also contributed some money to buy the house for his son. Now his daughter-in-law would not let him move in, which would make people in his hometown feel embarrassed in the future. Xiaohui She also said that she just wanted to bring her parents to the city to enjoy the blessings, and had no other intentions, but Xiaoqiu couldn't accept it. She didn't want to live with her parents-in-law. The point was that these were things Xiaohui had promised. Since one thing happened before marriage If nothing has been done, then this thing should be done, fulfill the promise or divorce, choose one of the two.

Xiao Hui was in a dilemma. The mediator walked up to Xiao Hui and asked: "Did you promise to promise many things to others before marriage?" Xiao Hui said yes. Why should you promise since you can't do it? This is your fault. Men should be honest. Otherwise, no one would dare to cooperate with you. Regarding the mediator’s criticism, Xiaohui just remained silent.

Then the mediator persuaded both parties to make a compromise plan, hoping that both parties could adopt it. First, Xiaohui's new house has three bedrooms and one living room for two people to live in. He allows his parents-in-law to move out and rent a house, but leaves a room for them at any time. In this way The parents-in-law can also go on both sides, instead of staying permanently. It should be okay to live together for a day or two occasionally to see the children. The parents-in-law should not interfere too much in the young people's affairs if they have nothing to do. Both parties expressed their acceptance of this, and Xiao Qiu also hoped that Don’t make blind promises to your husband in the future that he can’t do.

Most young people are not willing to live with their parents-in-law. There are differences in living habits and language communication. It is easy to have conflicts over time, especially if you meet a mama's boy. Sad, distance creates beauty. This saying is not groundless. Only by keeping a proper distance will there not be so many contradictions. If you got married, would you live with your in-laws?