Always compete with your peers, not fools

This is chicken soup with salt, which can be used as a tool to wake yourself up.

The best mentality: like what you like as usual, but allow yourself to temporarily not have it;

The best way: don't waste time and energy on things that can be transmitted without knowing the sound; If you can solve the problem with words, don't swear. There are really not many people who deserve your character and education.

Remember: if you want to be a big tree, don't compete with the grass; The general has a sword and doesn't cut flies. Don't bet on providence, don't guess people's hearts. Work hard silently and see how time says.

Be knowledgeable in life, why do you hate:

Don't take yourself too seriously, pretentious, really insignificant;

Others treat you well in the hope that you can treat her well, not make you feel great; Others don't want to bother you, in fact, they don't want to be disturbed by you, instead of making you feel that he has never had any difficulties. Everyone should have self-knowledge;

Mature relationship: we need each other to maintain our relationship; We don't interfere with each other and can save ourselves.

When you shut up, I like you best:

When you can't "spit lotus", you should know that "silence is golden" Choosing to shut up voluntarily means that I'm not speechless, but I don't want to waste time on you, so wait, wait for you to shut up.

The minimum requirement for joking is: avoid the shortcomings of others, otherwise it is not a joke, but a public ridicule! The premise of a joke is that the parties feel funny, which is a joke.

You can keep silent like a fool, and don't prove yourself an asshole when you open your mouth.

Sincere advice should be to make people improve day by day, not to make them feel ashamed.

(Montesquieu) When a man regards himself as the judge of other people's lives, what he does is not care, but violence.

Don't tell all the secrets when making friends, and don't reveal your privacy when making friends. Since you told the story to the wind, don't blame the wind for blowing it all over the forest.

If you don't agree with a word, you will be blacked out. This is the foundation of happiness. Too many smiling faces are used to being sick.

If you don't have the ability to clean up the mess, don't indulge in fickle emotions:

First, try not to influence others' mood and life with your smelly face. In the age of fragile relations, all restraint is worth promoting. Second, don't pester or provoke "garbage people" with your momentary anger. In the face of a once-in-a-lifetime life and a precious good mood, all concessions are extremely glorious.

No one will care about the "emotion" without strength, just like saying "a lion doesn't care about the opinion of a sheep at all." . Three provinces a day: what's the matter? Pack what essence? Correct what? May I ask: What kind of fish do you usually like to keep when your brain is abnormal?

Your sensitivity, please be kind to:

Born as a man, please be kind, don't be assimilated by the darkness of others, there is no light left. Choosing kindness seems to be clumsy, not because I believe that "good people are rewarded" or "fools are blessed", but because I firmly believe that it is right to do so. Remind yourself: don't compare bad with bad people, there is no lower limit for bad; Don't compare with fools, stupidity is contagious.

Once some people miss it, they really have to thank God:

The person you once thought "must be him" will become "so many" sooner or later. Letting go when people are unhappy is progress. The more you struggle, the more sinful you are. So, dead love, let it be buried. Remember, remember, you are single, not a dog.

Everyone is rushing forward, why do you have to go ahead: everyone is working hard, not just you.

The principle of excellent people: no affectation, no luck. "I don't want to run today, so I want to run"-Haruki Murakami. If you don't take the initiative, you will be passive. Wake up if you don't wake up. If you don't work hard, you will give people a handle in disguise. If the sheep are not careful, it will only make the wolf very happy.

Many times, doing your best can only ensure that you will not fall behind too much. You always think there is still time, and that's the problem.

When things go against your wishes, you won't be angry all day; When you want what you want, you don't have to be on tenterhooks all day.

Almost life, in fact, is much worse:

Many times, it almost means that it is not at all; The other meaning is actually completely different. Your score in the exam is your score, and the score of 100 is because the perfect score is 100. The so-called sit back and relax, in fact, is fully prepared. Don't let your plan at the beginning of the year become a joke at the end of the year. Fate will not sympathize with you, but will only look at you helplessly-watching you carry large and small bamboo baskets and go to the river of time to draw water. Don't ignore the importance of the present to the whole life, and don't ignore the importance of details to the final result.

The less you know, the easier it is to be opinionated;

People who believe that reading is useless basically don't read much; People who think they know a lot often have little knowledge. In fact, there are not many strange things and monsters in the world, but many people are rare and strange. "Rare" and "strange" are often causal, and in the final analysis, it is too little knowledge.

The more people who have no ability to change their lives, the more they like to comment on others' changes. In the eyes of people kneeling, people standing are all heterogeneous, just like birds growing up in cages, and they think that flying is a disease.

Seriously, praise and work hard, because the knowledge, pattern, education and hard-working skills in your head can't be deprived by fate. In this way, even if one day you fall into the pit of life, the things in your head and the ability to get hurt can save you from the pit. Only those people with empty hands and empty heads like to fight the world with their fingers and tongues.

I am really worried about you. When one day you decide to settle down and live in harmony with yourself, you suddenly find yourself so difficult to get along with.

Fear is fear. Before you became an unlovable adult full of knowledge and skills, you had a charming appearance of "worry" and "spasm".

Little people don't smile at me, the in the mind is very practical:

If you don't have skills, you can improve day by day. Without education, study hard at a cold window. If you have no appearance, you can change your appearance. But if you are out of your mind, there is really no rule of law. It is no less difficult to make a person change his face than to explain "Who is Shakespeare?" .

Nine times out of ten, life is unpleasant, and you ask for it:

Everything that can't kill you will make you stronger (Nietzsche). The reality is that everything that can't kill you will kill you one by one. Many people have an illusion that life will improve as long as they change their environment-no matter whether the mountains are heavy or the roads are blocked, it is another kind of robbery.

If you really feel that "what you want is on the road", then "what you don't want is on the road". What you can get on tiptoe is not a dream at all; Jump up and touch, barely count as a goal; You need to move ladders, climb high walls, and even wait for many years to become a dream.

If you are afraid, you just do things with a supporting role mentality and take credit for the protagonist's attitude; Are you ashamed to criticize others with the judge's eyes and defend yourself with Dou E's mouth?

If you don't try to live the life you want now, you will have a lot of time to live the life you don't want in the future.

When you are weak, there are the worst people:

What is the weak? The weak are embarrassed to speak, but they always want others to ask. Claiming that you don't want to trouble others, but you are always bothering others. It seems that you are trying to avoid bothering others, but in fact you want to enjoy the right of "others helping you", but you are unwilling to undertake the obligation of "gratitude or return".

The strategies of the weak always converge: once they do badly, they will look elsewhere for reasons. Either I feel that everyone around me is very bad, or I feel that fate is difficult everywhere. The so-called "threshold" on the road of life is actually relative. Enough skill is the door, and someone will take it; If you don't have enough skills, it is a threshold, and someone will block it and drive it out. Life is stumbling, mostly because the skill is too small.

If others are kind to you, you should redouble your efforts so that you can repay your kindness one day; When others downplay you, you should live up to your expectations, so that you can have a proud day.

I've always felt that clothes don't look good. Are you wearing the wrong clothes?

Good things often have only one "expensive" disadvantage, while cheap goods may have only one "cheap" advantage.

Since you are fat, you must "lose weight" day by day. In the final analysis, temperament comes from the calmness brought by experience and the humiliation brought by strength.

Not afraid of opinions, afraid to disagree:

The brain is a commodity, don't treat it as an ornament. A person without judgment, like a marionette with an empty soul, like a fish hooked by a fishhook, can be easily manipulated, moved and bewitched.

Your so-called choice is only to obey the opinions of the majority; What you call thinking twice is just sorting out your prejudices again and again.

It is a virtue not to touch or irritate people casually; It is a skill not to be touched or angry casually.

May you have your own opinions in the complicated life, and may you keep your "brain" as jade in the age of gossip. May the world continue to be lively, and may you still be you.

It is better to have a huge sum of money than to seek warmth for lack;

The test of sincerity is not how much you say, but what you do. We are all adults. Don't expect a fake key to open anyone's heart. Many people say "I like you" and "I love you", just like fishing. Give a little to get more, just like trying to catch whales with earthworms. If you really want to meet, think about it. When, where and with whom?

Don't pour out your heart before you know whether he is a man or a ghost.

Don't read so many useful books and become such a useless person;

The most common mistake children make is not that they don't have time or are unfilial, but that they think they will always be there. True filial piety is that although you don't believe what they say so much, you are willing to listen to them; Although you don't like what they do, you support them.

What you think of forever is actually counting down.

People who treat themselves like onions too much often like to "pretend":

Swearing coward: I smile at the sky from the horizontal knife, go to bed after laughing, wake up and pick up the knife, and then smile at the sky from the horizontal knife. -I'm not myself.

Say what you should, and whisper what you shouldn't.

The most important point of life experience: don't take yourself too seriously. The lifelong curse of many people: pretentious, but insignificant.

I'm glad I don't know you, and thank you for not liking me:

The biggest failure of a person is not that no one cares, but that people who have had a little intersection with you feel glad that they don't know you. Being smart afterwards is the same thing as being a pig beforehand.

You did say it at first, but others didn't listen, which means you didn't say anything. "I can't convince others" and "you didn't say anything at all" actually mean the same thing.

Regarding friendship, the best mentality is to cherish those who are willing to stay around and respect those who are willing to talk to each other. As for the rest, please miss it.

More self-knowledge and less self-love;

Unrequited love, my heart turns stormy day and night, but the whole world knows nothing about it. If there is an adult love guide, the most important thing should be: be conscious!

The cruel fact is that only those who do evil but refuse to admit it need clues to prove it.

The cruel reality is that some things can't be bought at a discount; Some people lower their eyes and still look down on you.

No one asked if the poor were making trouble, but the rich had distant relatives in the mountains.

What is really terrible about poverty is not only material lack, but also spiritual embarrassment. It will magnify the humbleness you are trying to hide, and make you have to be stingy, give up and be withdrawn.

An empty wallet can't stand up straight (Franklin)

Because of poverty, there are often no correct options.

You like nothing, but you can't solve anything;

Most people's problems are the same: lazy and unaware, knowing but unable to change, unable to change.

The entanglement of human nature probably lies in: because I doubt that I am not a rough jade, I can't try my best to carve myself; Because I feel like a rough jade occasionally, I can't stand interacting with gravel.

Learn more and watch less. That's the way to carry it. Don't try to compete with the world if you can't "save enough skills" or "put your mind right".

Allow others to be different from themselves, and also allow others to be themselves;

The best mentality is: like what you like as usual, but allow yourself to temporarily not have it; What is opposed is still opposed, but it is allowed to exist.

It is not bad to be seen as a bad person at once, it is stupid; We'll come to a conclusion soon. That's not smart, it's lazy.

The upper class likes to praise people, the middle class likes to compare people, and the lower class likes to step on people.

Mutual understanding is the most ideal; We can't understand each other, which is a reality.

It is better to be hurt by the truth than comforted by lies;

With your present dignity, this boring soul, and your inflammable and explosive personality, if you take the initiative to be nice to everyone, those who refuse you will certainly make up a deck of playing cards.

Don't shut yourself in the concept of "I'm terrible" and "I'm not going back to be a man", and don't be led by some ideas that are even outdated. There is no problem if it is not smooth enough. If you are not a man, it is not fatal. What is fatal is that you have no ambition and no body. Sticking to a powerful role that doesn't take you seriously won't make you powerful. On the contrary, it is called self-degradation. So don't rush to climb up, let yourself be reliable first.

Always remind yourself: be awake! Being awake means walking alone, not feeling lonely, not needing help, not feeling weak; That is, when others do not take you seriously, you still value yourself; When someone flatters you, don't take yourself too seriously; No matter how crazy, impetuous and complicated the world is, you can always be alert, kind and spotless.

Occasionally look at chicken soup and change your mind.

-Bug (Beijing 20 19-3- 15)?