How to resolve the embarrassment tactfully when you confess your love to a man you have a crush on while drinking wine and you are rejected?

How to resolve the embarrassment of being rejected by a man you have a crush on while drinking alcohol?

You can't hide your good impression of a person. When the love in your heart overflows from your words and actions, expressing your feelings is imperative. However, confession may not always be successful. The person you like may not like you that much, or may be intimidated by your enthusiasm and dare not agree to your communication requirements. It is reasonable to reject you.

The more you love someone, the easier it is to fear that you will have no friends after being rejected. This huge gap is really unacceptable. Because after finally gathering up the courage, the person who is full of hope and likes expresses his confession, and he definitely hopes that the other party will agree to him, but love is about affection, and the other party also has the right to refuse.

Confession is like a soldier going into battle. After being rejected, he will feel that he will be extremely embarrassed if he comes to Taiwan, and some may even become strangers.

In fact, when you want to express your love, you have to be prepared with both hands. You should consider success and failure at the same time, you can't do it step by step.

After a confession is rejected, smart people will use "jokes" to resolve the embarrassment to avoid becoming friends

If successful, they will confirm the relationship and then date. But if they are rejected, some people can't handle it well and will be frustrated or discouraged and feel that life is not fun.

So, after a confession is rejected, smart people will use "jokes" to resolve the embarrassment so as not to become friends.

Use self-deprecation to resolve awkward situations, and then express your original intentions clearly.

Hai Bo has been in love with a girl for almost a year. Usually two people have contact at work and will say something. This girl is neither salty nor bland to him. After he finally thought about confessing his love, he asked her out to play, hoping to find a chance to tell her.

She wasn't surprised at all when he took the chance and said he liked her. She said calmly that he was a good man, but not the one she liked. She thanks him for his love and says they can still be friends.

Hai Bo didn’t mention how embarrassed he was. In order to lighten the atmosphere, he said mockingly, "Although I have thought about the consequences of being rejected, I was really rejected by you, and my heart still hurts."

The girl felt very embarrassed after hearing this and immediately said sorry. Haibo said, no need to say anything, I'm sorry. It's my business that I like you, it's your business that you reject me.

He did not get angry, but really expressed his true feelings, saying that it would hurt to be rejected by the person he likes. Then he said he hoped to be friends again.

Of course the girls agreed. Although they got along less with each other later, at least they did not become enemies.

Self-deprecation sometimes means saying something about yourself. Smart people will use this kind of self-deprecation to help themselves clarify their thoughts and relieve tension between each other.

Some people will laugh it off and vent their unhappiness after being rejected by a girl. This is a very stupid behavior and will make women feel happy that they rejected you.

Smart people will laugh at themselves, which may seem like a forced smile, but saying they won’t hurt others will make it easier for them to leave a good impression on women.

Rejecting you doesn’t mean you don’t have a chance. Smart men will pretend to be "thick-skinned" and continue to please women to get the next chance.

Let women know that they are serious and will always like her.

After being rejected by the woman they love, many men think that women have high standards. In fact, women are a slow-warming species and respond to feelings slower than men. When faced with a man's confession, some women will pretend to be reserved or test the man's sincerity to see his reaction after rejection.

It is said that "a good woman is afraid of pestering a man." It’s not terrible to say no once. The terrible thing is that you don't have the courage to do it again. There is no shame in being rejected, be optimistic and face the situation.

Huzi’s wife was the one he tried hard to catch up with. He's not handsome, but he's very skilled. Compared to the men around his wife, he was inferior. However, after being rejected, he did not give up. Instead, he joked that Tang Seng had to go through eighty-one difficulties. I had to go through some difficulties to marry a wife. I would not give up easily.

Later his wife said that his attitude after being rejected made her notice him, because some men besides him would say some unpleasant words to irritate her and make her angry and uncomfortable.

There is no shame in being rejected. In front of the person you like, your confession is an act of brave fighting. At least you tried hard and have no regrets.

As for whether you want to give up or not, it’s up to you. You have the right to continue to like other people. If you want to win a beautiful woman, you must learn to get what she likes and know what girls need most. Don't think that women only love money. If it wasn't because she loves you, she might not care about you, let alone be with you.

Women are emotional species, she knows who is good to her. When faced with a man's confession, if he has not been secretly in love with you for a long time, he will usually refuse politely because she wants to see if you are suitable for her. When she confirms that you are the one she likes, even if you don't confess, she will hint that you are actively pursuing him.

Therefore, it is not shameful to be rejected by the person you like. The shameful thing is whether you can have a clear conscience after being rejected.