What are the customs of returning home on the first day of marriage?

Generally speaking, the day before marriage is called marrying a woman, and then the woman holds a banquet and then holds a wedding. On the third day of marriage, the groom and the bride will go back to their parents' home with gifts. This kind of going back to her mother's house is called going back to her mother's house, also called mothering, and then the woman will have a big banquet, which we call "mothering banquet" But now some brides are married far away, so when should we go back to China? What are the customs of Huimen?

When are you getting married?

1. The return time varies from place to place, especially now many brides will marry far away or even go abroad. Both parties should communicate the return time.

In ancient times, the third day of marriage was usually chosen as the day of returning home, but of course this custom still exists in many places. Judging from the actual situation, there are also many people who return to the door on the sixth, seventh and ninth day of marriage, and there are not a few people who return to the door on the full moon of marriage. However, on the day of returning home, newcomers can't spend the night.

What are the customs of Huimen?

1. clothes

Going back to the door is an important thing after marriage, and the clothes that go back to the door should also be carefully selected. The groom wears well, which shows that he respects his father-in-law and the bride has a higher status. In some places, according to the custom, the bride should put on the bride's dress on the day of returning home, and the mother can take off her wedding dress after washing herself.

2. gifts

The custom of returning to the door is different in every place. Before returning home, the groom should ask about the wedding date and how to prepare for the returning home ceremony, otherwise it will make a joke. Yes, men, so the groom should prepare even numbers when preparing gifts. Generally speaking, gifts include chicken and fruit representing good luck.

3. Mothering banquet

For women, going home is a big deal. There will be a big banquet, and the groom will sit in the seat next to the woman's elders. During the dinner, the bride will accompany her husband to propose a toast to her parents and relatives. After dinner, the couple can't leave in a hurry, they have to hurry and wait for their parents to nod before going home. This is the end of the comeback.