Love is gone, affection is not enough, and marriage is only a dead letter. What can we do without a divorce?

The wife said: None of our family is good. Let's warm up and work together. However, I feel that I have given up. I used to feel distressed and unbearable when I watched him work hard. Now, I don't feel bad anymore. I don't think we have a future. Living on is a joke.

Ten years of love, one year of marriage, just over a hundred days of children, but the couple are getting divorced. What causes this contradiction is not a major event, but only some small things in daily life. If it is a normal person, such a thing will definitely not be divorced. However, this contradiction is only the fuse, and the real problem has been buried in life for a long time.

My wife's parents divorced when she was in primary school. She grew up in a disharmonious family and felt very insecure. She thinks of her husband and this small family wholeheartedly. I go to work during the day, take care of my children at night, and help my husband with company affairs at weekends. Busy every day, but still unpopular and questioned. She felt physically and mentally exhausted.

Husband and parents are not harmonious, and the atmosphere at home has always been disharmonious. He always hoped that he could have a harmonious family, but he could not avoid the interference of his parents, so he was helpless in the relationship between his mother-in-law and his daughter-in-law. He has always hoped that his wife can understand and understand him, but the family atmosphere is getting worse. Work pressure, family disharmony, he is also physically and mentally exhausted.

Their family backgrounds are not harmonious. When we first came together, we also appreciated each other, because we only came together to keep warm. In the past ten years, both sides have paid a lot. Because they have similar life experiences, they are tolerant of each other. For their future, they worked hard together in other places and didn't get married until last year when their business was on the right track. I thought this was the happy ending of love, but I didn't know it was the beginning of love failure.

Even though both of them are trying to maintain this family, the distance between them is getting farther and farther. Apart from the similar growth background, other aspects are becoming more and more different. No one has a * * understanding of the outlook on life, values and world outlook. The beauty of first love is also spent in ten years, and the only thing that maintains the family is marriage. Without love, there is no family, and such days have become torture, and days are like years.

Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. When two people can't get into their own family, contradictions will follow, one is love, the other is affection, and no one can give up. Two people who love each other only see each other's good points. Once love is rubbed into the sand, the advantages in their eyes will become disadvantages.

Should such a marriage continue?

If we continue, will there be happiness in this reluctant marriage?

What will you do with your ten-year relationship if you don't continue?

And that innocent child, who should protect his life?

Love has been running for ten years. Don't two people know each other well enough? Why is this happening? Why are the two sides in such an impasse?