How to retaliate against colleagues who use language that hurts you?

When colleagues verbally hurt you in the workplace, it is usually because you have offended your colleagues. At this time, you should reflect on your mistakes, take the initiative to admit your mistakes to your colleagues as soon as possible and sincerely apologize, and win over your colleagues. of forgiveness.

Of course, it is not ruled out that your colleagues are jealous of your achievements at work, so they verbally hurt you. At this time, you must correct your mentality and be upright and not afraid of shadows. If you explain and If you don't pay attention to it, it will become darker and darker.

When I was promoted to three levels in a row in a year, my colleagues around me would say behind my back that I had the connections and the backing to rise so fast. Faced with all kinds of rumors, I turned a deaf ear to them. , do your own job well, I firmly believe that using the performance to seal their mouths is the best and most effective way.

1. My unintentional actions touched the "reverse scale" of my colleagues

What seems to me to be a normal joke or a very normal ridicule, in my opinion, Colleagues may seem to be unbearable in their harsh words. At this time, verbally hurting you is out of a way of protecting themselves and giving you a powerful fight back.

Different regions have different customs and habits, and people with different personalities also have different persistence and beliefs. Everyone comes together for work. Before joining the company, everyone did not know each other and had nothing to do with each other's lives. Intersection, after joining the same company, the company became the connection point of everyone's lives, and there was no hatred between colleagues.

At this time, you should take the initiative to apologize to your colleagues, be sincere in your attitude, and indicate that you did not mean it. Now that you have realized the harm to everyone, you will pay attention to your words and deeds in the future, hoping to give yourself a chance to correct it.

If you have a good attitude towards admitting your mistakes, your colleagues will understand and forgive your unintentional actions. After all, no one wants to make enemies on all sides in the workplace, not to mention that it is not a big deal and there is no reason to hold on to it.

2. Explain the cause and consequences of your colleagues’ unreasonable troubles

You give your colleagues a candy every day. One day, your colleagues see you giving two candies to others, and they feel disgusted. It's a great grievance, but what he doesn't know is that others give you an apple every day.

Similar situations often happen around us in life. An unrelated colleague takes your kindness to him as a matter of course. After getting used to it over time, one day he suddenly discovers that you are nicer to others. Or he may suddenly treat him badly and say bad things about you behind your back or all kinds of bad things about you.

In this case, you can find a suitable time to have a good chat with your colleagues, explain the matter clearly, and gain their understanding.

Just because a person is nice to you for no reason does not mean that he has an obligation to be nice to you.

3. When colleagues are jealous of their achievements at work, ignoring them is the best response

Colleagues who don’t like other people’s good achievements often feel jealous when they see others achieve good results. He will say some hurtful things about others to please himself, as if others should be worse than him for the best result.

To put it bluntly, such a person has an extremely distorted psychology and a big problem with his values. He wants to hurt you verbally in the hope that you will get angry and bring you to the same level as him for dialogue. Get a sense of accomplishment to fill the frustration of failure in the workplace.

Never argue with him, otherwise it will only lower your IQ. If a dog barks at you on the road, do you want to bark at it? This will only make other people think There is something wrong with you mentally, and nothing good can come of it other than that.

Just ignore such verbal attacks. We can’t control other people’s mouths and there is no need to pay attention to them. We just need to control our own mouths, don’t say useless words, and don’t talk to such people. General knowledge will do.