Why are Beijingers reluctant to find someone from outside?

In fact, not only Beijingers, but also people from other places rarely give priority to foreigners when looking for a partner. There are many factors involved, which are the results of both sides' consideration of their own interests.

First of all, if couples live in different regions, there will be great differences in cultural concepts, which will easily lead to contradictions in some small details of life, which is not conducive to the stability of marriage. For example, the taste of food varies from place to place, and there are many things that people in other areas can't accept, so contradictions will slowly breed in these small details.

However, these small problems can be overcome, and besides, they will also involve family problems of both sides. Every new year, parents want their children around, and now most of them are only-child families. It will become a big problem during the Spring Festival, and distance will become a major factor limiting emotions.

In addition to the above factors, there will be various minor problems that affect whether two people can be together. One of the most important points is the difference in economic level. Although free love is advocated now, it is very important that two families are suitable. Everyone's quality of life is the same, and their thinking and ideas are similar, which is more conducive to family harmony.

As the capital of China, Beijing has a relatively high level of economic development, but this does not mean that all Beijingers are rich. They just enjoy some special treatment that is not available in other places, which makes many foreigners very envious, so they want to stay in Beijing, and one way to get a Beijing hukou is to marry a local. But not all Beijing natives want to make a profit in this unfair way. They still want to find someone they like. This will inevitably cause a kind of vigilance. In fact, there are many things that are really like this. Some people will try to get a divorce after they get a hukou by marrying a local. Some local people will pass on this idea after suffering losses, thus forming a social consensus.

Of course, Beijingers have a natural sense of superiority in cultural concepts and look down on people from other places. This is very common, especially in the hearts of the grassroots. But in fact, this phenomenon is basically found in every city. People in the main city look down on suburban people, suburban people look down on people in cities and counties, and people in cities and counties look down on rural people. This kind of emotion is hidden in everyone's bones, and more or less you will find some superiority in people who are lower than yourself. The so-called Phoenix Man is a unique term born through this social phenomenon. Therefore, the arrogance of Beijingers is a psychological behavior of the whole people, not only in one region, but also in Beijing, which is more obvious because of its outstanding advantages.

Marriage is actually mutual recognition between husband and wife. Don't dwell on the region. As long as you see each other right, you can come together in any environment. If the other person doesn't want to marry you, there is no need to force it. Just find someone who suits you and likes you. We can't change the reality, so let's accept it.