A girl lost 70 pounds because of love, only to find out when she met a scumbag: Is it really worth going crazy for love?

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In "Confess Now", there is a special girl named Liu Ye. She lost nearly 70 pounds for love, from more than 120 pounds to 58 pounds. Jin came to the show to confess to her boyfriend. Everyone was shocked when she appeared, but she was very confident and thought her boyfriend liked her like this. She said she wouldn't eat if she wasn't hungry. Even when she was hungry, she would just drink water. Later, she took diet pills and used many extreme methods. Everyone asked her if there was no problem with her health, and she firmly said that there was no problem. I don't know if she is really healthy, but many people are shocked to see her now.

She said that her boyfriend is 120 pounds and 180cm. He likes her to be thin, so she wants to lose weight for him. However, when the door of confession opened, the boy did not come. The only things that arrived were his parents, who had gray hair on their temples, and a letter from the boy. The parents had not seen their daughter for a long time. Seeing that their once healthy daughter was so skinny, the parents could not hide their sadness, and the mother even had tears in her eyes.

The so-called boyfriend did not come, but brought a letter, and that letter completely shattered all the girl's beautiful illusions. He said: It's just a game to play, and there is always no reason to refuse if it comes to your door. And he has a regular girlfriend, and the two are ready to get married. When Liu Ye heard this, he collapsed a little. The other party even called her a "walking skeleton", and what she thought was "love" turned out to be nothing more than the other party's games and tricks, and even looked like a joke in the eyes of others.

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I don’t know if there were many girls like her in the past. I think there must be many, but everyone’s craziness in love is different. There is a very popular topic on Zhihu. What crazy things have you done in love?

Someone said: I took all the risks and flew across the country to be with him without thinking about the rest of my life.

Some people say: in a different place, broke up, learned that she was going to Greece, ran to Santorini alone to wait for her, appeared at sunset on the Aegean Sea holding flowers, was rejected, and got drunk in Santorini at night Rini.

Some people say: I have lost myself. The self that used to love talking and laughing has turned into a strange self that is sensitive, suspicious and loves to cry.

When seeing these, many people will definitely feel a little sad, because one of those people who others say may be their former self. Maybe many people have done some crazy things for love. But what happened next? Later, the most common ones were that the sky was on one side and the other was wide.

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Love is a particularly beautiful thing in this world, but no love is worth sacrificing your health, self-esteem or even your future. A man or woman worthy of your love will not have the heart to let you do things that hurt yourself. And those who don't love you, it's better to let go and let yourself live. At least, don't hurt yourself or your loved ones for the so-called love, because every pain you suffer, your parents will hurt you more than you.

Love is not a one-man show, but two people who love each other and truly want to be together. Those tortures that make you suffer may not be true love. Bi Shumin once said: Waiting for others to love you, it is better to love yourself first. People who fall into the whirlpool of love tend to put the other person first in everything, caring about the other person's every smile and every move, but forget about themselves. But if you don’t care about yourself or cherish yourself, how can you get the love of others?

The person who is worthy of your madness will not make you crazy. The person who lets you hurt yourself and go crazy for love may not be your prince or princess. Next time, before loving others, I hope you don’t forget to love yourself first.