Excerpts from classic sentences of unbearable loneliness

1. However, we are all blinded by overwhelming expectations, so that we forget an important fact too easily: parents and children are just an accidental collision.

No matter what kind of parents a person has, they can't use this as an excuse to stop pursuing their own peace and happiness.

You love the softness and liveliness of water and accept the existence of stones. You love towering trees and accept the existence of moss. Everything in the world does not depend on your own will, but you can choose to be with the person or thing you like.

There is no choice between parents and children. However, no matter how deep and long this fate is, it cannot hide the fact that you are independent individuals and must be responsible for your own destiny.

Under the "protection" of this group of mothers who are used to humpback breasts, many daughters disdain to break the snobbish sky, but find that they don't have much ability to fly. Because no one has exercised their eyesight and bones.

6. She can still love her mother, love her limitations and enthusiasm, and love her vicissitudes, but she must also know clearly that her life can't yield to a sentence that can't stand scrutiny at all: listen to her mother.

7. For the first time, I realized clearly that love can only be the product of sober mind. If the mind is ignorant, the so-called "love" is just a messy and bloody dressing room, and even the devil will laugh.

8. The condition of love is to know how to love yourself first, and to redeem yourself from the instrumentalized machine first is wisdom and courage.

9. Only an enlightened mind can care for one's cognitive ability and uniqueness, realize one's own sufferings and other people's tragedies, and understand where they come from. Only through an enlightened mind can we truly love ourselves, exercise our thinking, soothe our feelings, and understand the fragility and nobility of life from now on.

10, people who love each other don't have to live up to this world and this era. To be worthy of yourself, to be worthy of each other and to protect each other from the pain of social slavery is worthy of the name "love".

1 1, love is just a branch of a life that loves life; Knowledge, knowledge, creativity, courage, aesthetics ... these are as important as love, and it is these passions that transcend love that can give love endless confidence and vitality.

12, she just doesn't like to tell her needs at any time, she doesn't like to cause trouble to others, and she doesn't like to disturb her self-esteem city. She advocates the principle of independence and strength, but seriously underestimates the importance of satisfying others' "needed" psychology in interpersonal communication. She is good at refreshing clear rules of the game, but ignores that the entrance to love is an obscure maze, just like a foggy heart.

13, love is a personal victory, not a compromise to others.

14, normal love may appear in an unpopular posture, or it may bloom in a place full of prejudice and abuse.

Let's go What does it matter whether it lasts or not? Who can have the cheek to say that he is a love prophet? Don't love if you are afraid of failure? Open love is a victory.

15, not afraid to speculate on human nature with the worst malice, is a sign of a person's maturity and an important sign of a social system moving towards civilization. I don't believe that politicians will be honest, teachers will love each other, and parents are good people-just because I know that the dark side of human nature is inevitable, I will keep power in a cage to prevent it from ravaging innocent people.

16. People who pretend not to see the abyss of the world become part of the abyss, not because of how bright they are.

These people are called "strong men" or "heroes", but they just know how to love themselves gently. They firmly believe that even if the whole world doesn't love you (in fact, the whole world doesn't love you, it's just a narrow illusion in desperation), you always have a firm supporter: yourself.

18, magically, when a person can break through fear and despair and cherish himself anyway, the cruel world will also show a gentle side.

19, the growth of life is not learning addition, subtraction, multiplication and division and calculus, but learning the thing of "being alive". Life is not an artificial glass cover, life is magnificent.

20. The dazzling sun will only be particularly dazzling in the eyes that are used to gray; People who pour out their hearts will always show the unfaithfulness of others.

2 1. A woman who is not bound by the old rules of the game within her power is the most direct subversion of "son preference" because she really values herself.

22. In love, it is best to seek truth from facts. No matter what you encounter, you should avoid it as soon as you step into the mire. Stay a little longer when you meet flowers. Never impose too high a meaning on a "family" to determine the value of life and the future direction.

23, people want to grow up, that is, to see the absurdity and magic of childhood magnified, and correct cognitive bias, although that sense of magic will follow us for a long time.

24. Money is like Mr. Mask in "Beautiful Girl Warrior". He usually hides quietly in the bank card, but at the critical moment of embarrassment and urgency, he will wear a decent black evening dress with roses in his mouth and beat the enemy neatly-he is ready to give you a malicious slap at any time.

25. We people love money so obviously because we want to make money openly, end the drag on others, control our own destiny and live an independent life.

26. I learned to crown what I love without the support of authority.

27. We are also born with the sense of experience and judgment of "common sense". Specifically, common sense is like a small bell hidden in our bodies. When a gust of wind blows, our Jason Chung will vibrate and rattle-we can't explain this "* * *", but it just exists.

A true idealist is not a supercilious visionary, but a person who knows that the "right path" is not easy, but also walks through it with some strength.

29. It is more unbearable for women to destroy the uniqueness of love than the integrity of love.

You can't destroy the night, but when you have enough love and understanding, you won't be eaten by the night.

3 1, you think that other people's pain is only the southeast wind of the third and fourth grades, which is not worth mentioning. As a result, when the alien comes, he connects you with an antenna that can completely connect other people's feelings. You feel that he has been standing alone in a hurricane of magnitude 12.

32. If you encounter something that shocks or even breaks your heart, don't run away, face it and solve it. This will be your moment to change the world.

Tears make us realize the important things in life, make us unable to deny our feelings, and finally calm us down and cure the imbalance and fracture in life.

When we look at other animals from a more comprehensive perspective, we will also look at ourselves more objectively. Our ugliness and beauty are more shocking than other species. It is important not to forget that man is also an animal.

Compared with changeable passions, there is one thing that can make loyalty more constant, and that is loyalty.

36. This is a profound understanding between two individuals, that is, "with you, we live more completely because we see each other;" When you are away, I will continue to miss you with this complete understanding, as if you have an indelible connection with me. Only by staying away from coercion and grandstanding can such loyalty exist.

37. Instincts and desires will never disappear. No matter what method you use to suppress them, what you can do is to finally be honest with a small number of them.

38. Ignorant conflicts bring the most terrible destructive power. The conflicts we see are like the darkness illuminated by the light of consciousness, and the flood accepted by the sea is finally no longer so dangerous.

I always thought my heart was dying, but I was wrong. A force came from my beating heart, though weak, firm and clear. Whatever the outcome, I am ready to solve the mystery of "life". I've seen its cards, and it can't do anything about me. Its harshness aroused my dissatisfaction.

40. This is vitality, which can resist the cold, dead and unfathomable abyss. It is hidden in the deepest part of every pessimistic heart, just like the rolling lava hidden in the darkest sea floor.

4 1, when making a choice, the most difficult stage and the most important significance is to force you to see yourself clearly. A person shapes himself through repeated choices.

42. Literature is not an ecstasy to escape from reality, but it is infinitely close to reality-it is the kind of truth that allows "Chao Jun" to see Hui Shuo and "Fu Fei" to see Spring and Autumn Annals; It is to let "I" stop being angry and feel sorry for myself in the narrow passage and see the truth of the sea in mediocrity.

Finally, even if it rains, "I" can give myself a small honey pot, and then like a bear, put my paws in it to search for honey.

44. Life and love are what they are. Don't distort others' comments and your own prejudices-when facing difficulties, the truth can give people incredible courage and strength.

45. Facing all changes of love bravely is the only way for us to respect and love love. The first core of dreams is that you should make independent judgments. You must first find out your situation and opinions and live a high life, no matter how loudly other voices shout.

46. The first core of dreams is that you should judge independently. You must first find out your situation and opinions and live a high life, no matter how loudly other voices shout.

47. You should invest time and creativity in your hobby, not fantasy and sigh, so even if you work hard, you haven't wasted the year. If every year is not wasted, then this life is not wasted. Then, when you look back, you won't regret saying, "I spent my whole life waiting for the future."

48. A silent woman has no choice but to know that it is much more difficult to face the unknown world alone than to endure a painful marriage. They chose safety and inertia.

49. Life should have a certain burden, something to do, some troubles and annoyances, and some to overcome their stubbornness, so as not to wither all the way in internal friction. Don't be a fool who just doesn't want to, but don't be just a dreamer.

There are different qualifications, but the spirit of independence is the core of one's life. The former tries its best to expand with the fate, while the latter is worth pursuing all your life. (Excerpted from Song Han's new book "Loneliness Can't Wait")

Excerpts from Mao Zedong's classic quotations.

Excerpts from Mao Zedong's classic quotations.

1, no matter how stormy it is, it's better than walking around. Mao Zedong

2. Don't fight unprepared. Mao Zedong

Either the east wind overrides the west wind, or the west wind overrides the east wind. Mao Zedong

You are not a true man until you reach the Great Wall. Mao Zedong

The power of example is infinite. Mao Zedong

6, there is no party outside the party, and the emperor thinks that there is no faction within the party. Mao Zedong

7. The army and the people are the foundation of victory. Mao Zedong

8. Turn other people's experience into his own, and his skill will be great. Mao Zedong

9. Thorough materialism is fearless. Mao Zedong

10, fight if you win, and leave if you don't win. Mao Zedong

1 1. The enemy advances and we retreat; The enemy is stationed, and I am disturbing; The enemy is tired and I fight; The enemy retreated and I chased. Mao Zedong

12, the enemy is getting worse every day, and we are getting better every day. Mao Zedong

13. We should have what the enemy has and what the enemy doesn't have. There must be an atomic bomb and a hydrogen bomb must be fast. No matter what country, no matter what bombs, atomic bombs and hydrogen bombs, we must surpass them. Mao Zedong

14, how many things, never worry, the world turns, time is tight, 10 thousand years is too long, seize the day. Mao Zedong

Imperialism is a paper tiger Mao Zedong

16, the law of unity of opposites is the fundamental law of the universe. Mao Zedong

17, winning the national victory is only the first step after the Long March. Mao Zedong

18, start a new stove, clean the house and then treat, one-sided. Mao Zedong

19, the revolution is not a dinner party, not an essay, not painting and embroidery, not so elegant, so calm, "gentle", so "gentle, respectful and frugal". Revolution is a riot, a violent action by one class to overthrow another. Mao Zedong

Twenty or thirty years later, the French will have a big headache. Mao Zedong

2 1, develop sports and enhance people's physique. Mao Zedong

22. We support whatever the enemy opposes; We oppose whatever the enemy supports. Mao Zedong

23. Women hold up half the sky. Mao Zedong

24. I think it is entirely possible to develop atomic bombs, hydrogen bombs and intercontinental missiles within ten years. Mao Zedong

25, high gorge out of Pinghu. Mao Zedong

26. Noble people are the dumbest, while lowly people are the cleverest! Mao Zedong

27. Make the past serve the present, make foreign things serve China, let a hundred flowers blossom and bring forth the new. Mao Zedong

There is no hope for peace talks between the two countries. Mao Zedong

29. The nuclear submarine will be built in ten thousand years. Mao Zedong

30. Nuclear war is impossible. Mao Zedong

3 1, it's not bad for Charles de Gaulle to come to power. He likes to be at odds with Britain and America. Mao Zedong

32. Study hard and make progress every day. Mao Zedong

33, the child is determined to go abroad, and he will not return until he learns to become famous. Mao Zedong

34. Elementary particles can also be separated. Mao Zedong

35. There is no road to the south. I believe you will come back in a year. Mao Zedong

36, strengthen discipline, the revolution is invincible. Mao Zedong

37. It is people, not things, who decide the outcome of a war. Mao Zedong

38. A learned man is the elder. Mao Zedong

39, resentment is too strong to prevent heartburn, and the wind should be eye-catching. Mao Zedong

40. History is created by people. Mao Zedong

4 1. The development of history is independent of human will. Mao Zedong

42. The countryside is a vast world with great potential. Mao Zedong

43. The countryside surrounded the city and seized power by armed forces. Mao Zedong

44. The route is an outline, and the outline is open. Mao Zedong

45. Roosevelt would let the United States participate in World War II. Mao Zedong

46. The truth of Marxism is infinite. In the final analysis, it is a word, rebellion is justified! Mao Zedong

47. There is no right to speak without investigation. Mao Zedong

48. An army without culture is a stupid army. Mao Zedong

49. You should know the theory and method of revolution! You must join the revolution. Mao Zedong

50. No assets are the biggest assets. Mao Zedong

5 1. Without correct political views, there is no soul. Mao Zedong

52. As long as the American Empire is willing, we will fight! Mao Zedong

53. The United States may peacefully evolve zg. Mao Zedong

54. Where there is oppression, there is resistance. Mao Zedong

Loneliness is not terrible, but I am afraid that loneliness will talk.

1. The function of the alarm clock is to remind me to sleep in a different position.

One day, you will meet a rainbow-like person, and from then on, everything else is just a hasty cloud.

Just keep some things in your heart, there is no need to tell them, maybe it's just a joke for them.

Delete the words line by line, and finally send them to you with a well. It doesn't matter, not all emotions should be told to you. For example, I am unhappy, for example, I miss you so much.

5. A person who has not contacted for a long time suddenly contacts you. Recently, most people have had a bad life, and people who have had a good life will not think of you.

6. The most disgusting feeling is that you can see many people clearly, but you can't expose them at will or turn your face easily.

7. People who haven't seen you for too long, miss you slowly.

8. Time always saves the best people for last.

9. If I can, I hope to play the fool all my life. I can't hear those harsh words, see those troubles and feel those pains.

10. Although I know that I am an ordinary person, I still hope to have a special existence in the hearts of special people.

1 1. We always practice smiling and finally become people who dare not cry.

12. Meeting you overdrawn all my good luck, and I have no extra strength to accompany you anymore.

13. The best revenge is not hatred, but heartfelt indifference. Why hate an irrelevant person?

14. Love is strange. I care about everything and forgive everything.

15. Don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. There are few people worthy of bending over in this world. Bending for a long time will only make people get used to your low profile, and you will become less and less important.

16. What God didn't give me, no matter how tight my fingers are tied, they will still leak out. What he gave me, no matter how I missed it in the past, I will have it.

17. I wanted to give the world a warm hug, but I was caught off guard by all directions.

18. Girl, swallow your tears and you win.

19. Be nice to people who care about you and cry for you. Don't wake up one day and lose the moon when you count the stars.

20. I am not good at comforting and retaining, so don't feel bad and don't go. The only thing I can do is stay with you, even if I don't say a word.

2 1. Loneliness is not terrible, but I am afraid that loneliness will talk.

22. I really want someone to look me in the eye and say angrily when I'm trying, don't shut up.

23. Before meeting a man who can take care of her life, a woman should live like a man. Therefore, men should not laugh at women living like men. We are just too lazy to pretend to be a little woman in front of men who are not interested in us.

24. Money leaves people, but it is just a piece of waste paper; People leave money, a loser. The eagle, without clapping its hands, is flying. Grass, no one is distressed, is also growing. You don't need everyone to understand, just do your best. Persistence is doomed to loneliness and hesitation, and it is no harm to question and ridicule. Even if you are black and blue, you should be strong. In fact, your life is not long. Now that I'm here, I'm going to live beautifully! for oneself

Learn to smile even if you hate it inside, because the world won't care about your feelings.

26. On your wedding day, should I look at your figure or your eyes?

27. No one will always wait for someone in the same place, just like the boys you grew up with. Even if they naturally occupy your youth, it doesn't mean that they can accompany you to your old age.

28. People who break up and get back together will never forget what they lost.

Sad and lonely words: loneliness is not terrible, but the fear of loneliness.

1. Life is an endless process of self-improvement, in which we will become stronger and stronger.

Second, on the road of life, don't expect too much from the status quo. Everything in life is fleeting. Win or lose, everything is over. Think about it, no matter yesterday, today and tomorrow, it's a wonderful day to be suddenly enlightened. If a person can keep a compassionate heart when he is frustrated and confused, then there will be a way in the future, and he firmly believes that being kind to others will eventually pay off.

Thirdly, it is a kind of peace and relief to laugh it off; Laughing off misunderstanding and hatred is calm and tolerant.

Every one of us is pursuing, but sometimes we never find what we want in our whole life, and sometimes we find it and lose it. Life just lingers between gain and loss. If you love deeply, there will be no complaints. Some people can calm down and reveal everything on the table, probably because you don't love deeply. Otherwise, how much effort and sacrifice is just for a smile of Zhan Yan.

The United States has always been the pioneer of democracy, and it often regards its general election every four years as the envy of the earth. However, you may also notice that Americans are very cautious and even taboo about voting outside the general election. For example, he never holds a referendum, and if there are any major issues, he will never hold a referendum as Chen Shui-bian did when he wanted to hold Taiwan independence. The United States is also worried that local voting will go beyond the Constitution. For example, during the civil war, when people voted for the south to leave the union, he launched a war and killed thousands of people.

6. Some people walked with you for a while, some people passed by, some people have been watching your growth and change, rejoicing for your joy, or some people are standing at a certain intersection in the future, waiting for you to meet him. Don't cry and grieve for unnecessary people, cheer for those who love you.

Slowly, I realized that in this life, people should stand up to lies, perfunctory, cheating and forgetting promises. Slowly, I understand that persistence is not necessarily victory, and giving up is not necessarily giving up. Turning gracefully is better than hitting the wall. Give yourself a circuitous space, learn to think, learn to wait and learn to adjust. Life, in many cases, needs not only persistence, but also a free and easy smile.

8. It is better to face it bravely than to escape passively. Sometimes, being able to recall is also a kind of happiness. You can not forget the past, but you must let go; Things may fail again in the future, but you must seize the opportunity. If life is just a dream, I would like to indulge in the misty rain when I met you, quiet and happy. If you and I are just a play, I am willing to only play the play where I met you this time.

9. What does true love need? It is relaxing and pleasant to need two people together, and there is no pressure. Garcia marquez

More importantly, you should see yourself clearly in true love and bravely pursue what you want. Good love can make you see the whole world through one person; Bad love leaves only one person in your world. -"Perfect"

Eleven, I came to this world, and I left this world. Even if someone says to die with you, they won't be together when they die.

Twelve, care about people drowning, for a long time can not extricate themselves. You can care, but not too much. Maybe we can't help caring, but we can make ourselves care less. Feelings that don't belong to you are like sand in your hand, no matter how tightly you hold them, there will be a risk of passing away; A heart that doesn't belong to you is like a clockwork. No matter how far you go, you will stop one day.

The faultfinder can find faults even in heaven. A person with a peaceful mind can live a good life anywhere, with upward thinking and optimism, just like living in a palace. There is no need to go through all kinds of hardships to find new things, whether it is clothes or friends. Turn over the old ones and give them back. Nothing has changed, but we are changing.

Fourteen, don't wait until you want to break up to regret not cherishing your feelings; Don't wait for others to admire you before you believe in yourself; Don't wait until you want elegance to smile; Don't wait for loneliness to think of friends; Don't wait for a good position to work hard; Don't wait until you don't remember others' advice; Don't wait until you are sick to realize the fragility of life, and don't wait until someone points out your mistakes.

Fifteen, can't hide secrets, can't hide sadness, just like can't hide the joy of loving you, can't hide the hesitation when we are apart. I'm so calm. You want to hurt, you hurt.

Sixteen, smoke, I'll wait for you at the door. The sun goes down, I'll wait for you on the hillside. The leaves are yellow. I will wait for you under the tree. The moon is bent. I'll wait for you in the fifteenth. It's raining in Mao Mao. I'll wait for you under the umbrella. The running water is frozen. I'll wait for you by the river. Life is tired, I will wait for you in heaven. We are old, and I will wait for you in the afterlife. It is not only love that can last forever, but also habits and responsibilities.

We are not saints, so we often go the wrong way. In fact, there is nothing wrong with the road. What is wrong is only choice. If, on a wrong road, others stumble and pull a long face, but we still smile like flowers and move forward calmly, over time, it will become a landscape on the wrong road, which will make others shine at the moment and make our own hearts happy. When our hearts are different, the road under our feet will be different, the sunshine will be bright and the pain will be far away.

Eighteen, woman, you are always so afraid to leave, but you pretend to be strong there; Woman, you are always so afraid of the night, but you always hide secretly; Woman, you are always so afraid of a person, but you are always alone; Woman, you are always so easy to pay, knowing that it is pain, but still so persistent; Woman, you are always so fragile, knowing that you are cheating, but you still cheat yourself; Woman, are you always so stupid and annoying? .

Nineteen, you are only half of my life, and I am as strong as you.

If you dare not face your heart, how do you know what you want, what you are afraid of and what you are waiting for? Loneliness is not terrible, but fear of loneliness. You have to face it, make yourself stronger and find your own pace of life.

It's sad to be ignored by people who care about you very much. What's more sad is that you have to pretend not to care.

Twenty-two, you today is the result of your past habits; Today's habits will be your destiny tomorrow. Change all the habits that make you unhappy or unsuccessful, and your fate will change. The bigger the field of habit, the freer and more energetic your life will be, and the greater your achievements will be.

Twenty-three, it is not shameful to love only one person for a lifetime. I know in my heart that there will be better people besides him, but one can't be so greedy. One heart needs to warm the other, and be honest with each other before we can be happy. Be a strong person, face it calmly, experience it bravely, have ups and downs, and have various tastes. Instead of indulging in the past, it is better to bathe in the sun, put aside sadness and loneliness, and no longer be afraid of confusion.

Water, seemingly clear, is not because it contains no impurities? , but to understand precipitation; Heart, seemingly transparent, is not because there are no distractions, but because you understand the choice.

Happiness is like a butterfly, which is hard to get when you chase it; But when you sit quietly, it may fall on you.

26. If you can find your own shortcomings as accurately as others, then your life will never be ordinary. If you insist on taking simple things seriously, then you will be very painful.

27. Life can be dull and ups and downs, but it can't be without wonderful love. In this life, I don't want to be earth-shattering, just want to walk indifferently in the world of mortals, be free and easy, and be the truest myself. If you are sad, try to look up at the sky. In fact, we have been disappointed countless times, and there is nothing wrong with one more time. A road without curves is not a road, and a life without life is not a life!

Twenty-eight, optimistic attitude comes from your tolerance, generosity, understanding, not competing with the world.

Twenty-nine, some problems in men can be changed, such as bad temper, and when you meet someone you really love or when you are older, your temper will be smooth; For example, he is too addicted to playing games. Maybe he is married and has children, so it is good that he has no time to play any more. But you should remember that no sense of responsibility is the cancer of men. Without the rule of law, this disease will only get worse. To put it bluntly, it is waiting for death.

A true friend will always be by your side, even if you let them go.

3 1. The people we love should be people with similar values to ours. His upward consciousness, positive strength and attitude towards life and career, even if crushed by reality? The appearance of diaosi should also have the momentum of breaking through the ground, the fighting spirit of turning over and the look of killing. If not, then he really doesn't have the first element of being loved by you. Life needs exposure.