There are 30.49 million more men than women. What is the reason for the imbalance between men and women under big data?

Obviously, in this era, gender contradictions and marriage problems are the biggest anxiety. If you look closely, you will find that in third-and fourth-tier cities, older single men catch more, and in first-tier cities, older single women also catch more.

Although there are 30.49 million more men than women, there are still many women who can't find suitable people. Relatively speaking, it is difficult for a man to get a wife. The imbalance between men and women under big data has brought huge social problems.

Investigate its root cause, and you will find that it is the fault of China people themselves, and it is also the sorrow of China family.

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How many women have been killed by son preference? I don't know if you have ever experienced a preference for boys, but the more girls see it with their own eyes. In my hometown, a remote rural area, my son is held in the palm of my hand, and my daughter is regarded as a loss.

My parents are fine. Some families hide from Tibet in order to have sons. If you find out you have a daughter, give it to someone else secretly. One by one until the son was born.

Some families will feel inferior to others if they really can't have a son. Even if their daughter is excellent, parents will feel sorry.

Some netizens will ask, do they want their son so badly, and do they have an heir to the throne?

There is no throne, only feudal and ignorant thoughts. In their hearts, the son inherits the incense and the daughter belongs to others. So, I tried my best to give birth to a son. Now that my son has grown up, I know the bitter fruit.

On our side, there are more men and fewer women in the generation after 80' s and 90' s, so many men can't find wives, and their parents are bald.

This is just one of the problems. Because they prefer boys to girls, they spoil their sons too much and are not good for their daughters, which makes these sons spoiled, useless and bad for their parents.

These parents who didn't like their daughters before still depend on their daughters when they get old. This is really ridiculous. The idea of son preference will hurt you in the end.

Cause and effect cycle, eventually all retribution on themselves.

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The inequality of marriage, why do women get married? Look at the big data of divorce, and you will find that 70% of divorces are initiated by women.

Every woman has great expectations when she gets married. But in marriage, they are not sheltered, but disappointed again and again. When widowed marriages and fraudulent child-rearing occur frequently, what is the significance of female marriage?

Huang Lei once said: "Chinese-style relationship between husband and wife has a kind of inexplicable rudeness. When you are chasing others, you are very active, giving people to the boiler room to open water, occupying the seats in the canteen and cooking well; As soon as I got married and lived, I stared at my family with my nose sideways. Thank you, I won't say I love you or say I'm sorry. Is directly' wife give me water' ... "

Another survey shows that men are more satisfied with marriage than women.

Think carefully, how can a man's marital satisfaction be low? Getting married is equivalent to having another mother, washing, cooking and cleaning up the housework, so that you can work hard in your career without any worries.

When you get home, you don't have to worry about not cooking, washing clothes or mopping the floor. Just say, "Wife, is the meal ready?" After the baby is born, you go home later and later in the name of making money.

You don't care about your wife who gets up every night, just sleeping beside her. The child grows up day by day, and I feel very happy when I look at his lovely appearance. On the other hand, I have a wife who is several years older because of giving birth to a child.

Look at her bloated figure, no longer exquisite dress, you say a few words in your heart: she has changed. In the face of your wife's nagging, you are either indifferent or feel that she is unreasonable.

And you can be promoted step by step in your career, and you can be flattered at the wine table. Your wife's life is only children's milk powder, endless housework and endless clothes.

Until one day your wife filed for divorce, you still thought she was unreasonable, obviously she didn't earn a penny, and it wasn't so easy at home.

Yes, in men's eyes, who knows how much women have paid. It is this unequal marriage that makes women more and more afraid of getting married.

If marriage is not an extra support, but an extra son, isn't it good to be single?

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Gender equality is just a joke. We always call for equality between men and women, but when will men and women be truly equal? Gender discrimination, uneven distribution in marriage, the victim is always a woman.

Now is not the time it used to be. Women know how to protect their rights and fight against injustice in this world. In this way, women are getting better and better, and they no longer regard marriage as a necessity of life.

It has been said that China men are not worthy of China women. This sentence is not absolute, but it also has some truth.

Looking at women nowadays, there are several beautiful women who can earn money to support their families, while men just stay in their comfort zone and hate God's injustice, while women hate his poverty.

She talked about a boyfriend and planned to get married. It is suggested that two people try to save some money when they get married and make a down payment on a house together.

My boyfriend verbally agreed, but he still played games when he got home every day, saying that his research was very good and that he didn't jump ship. Readers work hard and are the youngest department managers in their company.

At first, she also knew about her boyfriend. She didn't know how much money he had, but at least she hoped he would work hard.

However, her boyfriend's performance disappointed her and eventually broke up. The man insisted on doing so and spread the news that readers didn't like his poverty.

In fact, women don't dislike which man is poor, but are afraid that they can't see hope. Being poor for a while is not terrible, but being poor for a lifetime is terrible. When a man is complaining, a clever woman has dumped him for ten blocks.

Don't say that there are 30.49 million men and women in our country. It's impossible to get a wife just because some men think they are not motivated. Nowadays, women don't need a man to raise them, but they don't want someone to drag them.

The imbalance between men and women under big data is the bitter fruit of feudal ignorance and the sorrow of countless families in China.