My mother broke up with me when I graduated from college and married a builder. Is it really inappropriate for college students to marry a builder?

After graduating from college, I went to work in a construction company. Because I just graduated, I often need to run to the construction site, and later I met my husband here. He is a migrant worker who works in the city. To tell the truth, at first I didn't think that my 2 1 1 college graduate would have any intersection with a migrant worker.

But after running on the construction site, I gradually found that he was different from others. He uses his brain and is very active. He not only often finds problems in his work, but also finds solutions to them. Instead of sleeping or playing cards and drinking after finishing the work arranged by the chief, like other workers.

After discovering that he is different, I like to communicate with him every time I go to the construction site, because it is particularly simple to communicate with him, and more importantly, I can improve my practical knowledge quickly. I didn't notice either. I don't know when I began to have a good impression on him, but in the long run I became his girlfriend.

When my friends and colleagues found out, they all said I was crazy. Some people even say that I am a "anthomaniac" and just like my husband's muscles. In fact, I know in my heart that although we look different in status, our hearts are interlinked, and I can feel that his future is definitely not just this construction site.

My mother is even more incredible. It is hard for her to imagine that her daughter, a college student who spent so much money, actually married a migrant worker! She threatened to break up with me and let us break up.

My friends and colleagues laughed at me for being crazy. Some people even call me "anthomaniac" because I like my husband's muscles. In fact, only I know in my heart that our hearts are connected, and I don't think he will always be at this construction site.

My sister also laughed at me looking for migrant workers all over the street. Why did it take so many years to go to college? My mom thinks it's even more incredible. It is hard for her to imagine that her daughter, who spent so much money on college for so many years, fell in love with a migrant worker! She threatened to break up with me, but I insisted on marrying him!

I know what my mother thinks, and I also want to find a rich husband's family like my sister and live a life of caring for her husband and educating her children. But I know that because my husband's family is rich, my sister has no position at all in his family, and my brother-in-law is also busy socializing all the year round. Even my sister said that if it weren't for money, she might have divorced!

When we got married, my parents made it clear that they would not attend. In order to avoid embarrassment, we didn't hold a wedding, only a banquet. My parents keep their word. After we got married, they almost cut off all contact with us. Later, I heard that they sold their house and lived in their sister's house.

How time flies! Ten years have passed in an instant! Because my husband is serious and responsible, and his skills are comprehensive, he has long since changed from an OEM monitor to a partner! We also have a pair of lovely children, and their lives are very colorful. My only regret is that my relationship with my parents has not eased for so many years.

Last month, I suddenly received a phone call from my father, only to know that my mother was seriously ill in hospital and could not afford surgery. She wanted to call me, but she couldn't save face. In desperation, he had to avoid my mother and call me secretly. I also learned from my father that my sister had been divorced for several years. Because he gave birth to two daughters, his brother-in-law already has another family outside. At first, my sister deceived herself, but later I couldn't bear it anymore and got divorced!

Because my parents sold the house long ago and my sister got nothing when she divorced, the three of them are now renting a house outside and living a miserable life. I cried when I listened to the phone, blaming myself for not fulfilling my responsibilities as a daughter over the years. I had a good life, but my parents were suffering outside.

After getting the news, my husband and I rushed to the hospital to pay the money that day. When my mother saw us, her face was full of guilt. She took my hand and wanted to say something, but she couldn't say anything.

Under our careful care, my mother was discharged from the hospital after more than a month. My husband and I took my parents and my sister home and asked him to find a job for my sister in their company. Women are not independent and never feel safe.

After my mother came, I felt very embarrassed. As soon as she landed, she wanted to help us clean up the housework. I stopped her from doing this, saying that only her health is the greatest help for us to be children!

She said shyly with tears in her eyes that I was all thumbs and did those stupid things. In fact, I have long regretted it. I just saved face and couldn't say it. I hope you can forgive me.

I said with a smile, it's all over. Is it not good to be a family now? Some words, you find a chance to tell Dazhuang (my husband)!

My mother said, yes, I must apologize to him!