Raising children and preventing old age has become a thing of the past, and 600,000 families choose Dink. What do you think of Dink?

The census shows that the population of China has been in a state of negative growth in recent years, which is one of the main reasons why the country decided to open the second child. In this era of fighting for a second child, many people choose Dink. According to relevant survey data, nearly 600,000 families in China have chosen Dink in recent years. From this data, we can see that double income no kids is no longer different, but there may be such a crowd around you.

According to those friends who choose Dink, even if they are pushed and pressured by their families, they are often questioned by various voices from outside, but this will not shake their determination to choose Dink. The general reasons why they chose Dink are summarized as follows:

1. I don't want to break the current state of life, and I don't want to reduce the quality of life between husband and wife because of children.

The cost of raising children is too high, not only economically, but also spiritually.

3. Having a baby is like a gamble. It's out of control. A good education is also good. If the education is not good, it will add to your life. Raising children for old age is a thing of the past, and I don't want to pin my future hopes on uncertain factors.

And the views of the social crowd on those dinks, let's take a look:

@ Concentric Circle: As far as the current economic situation is concerned, I feel that children can't afford to raise or get sick. Even if I am sorry for my parents, I can only be sorry.

@ DuDu Baby: Under the current epidemic situation, it's great to watch those pregnant mothers around me being too scared to eat or sleep well. Humans are always willing to sacrifice themselves in front of their cubs. But at the same time, I'm glad I'm not pregnant and I don't plan to have children. Because looking at the world, from the environment to food, I feel that I have no courage to give birth to the next generation.

@ 中中中中: I have to admit that more and more people with good economic conditions choose not to have children, and feel that they can support themselves in the future. Living in a nursing home is better than looking at the faces of their children. In contrast, the birth of the poor is an old-age insurance, which is invested when young and strong, and supported when old and weak.

@ Mo said: double income no kids's happiness may be beyond many people's understanding, but from the social point of view, this behavior is really selfish. If the low birth rate and serious aging continue, then the population of a great country will be less and less.

@NT: After the COVID-19 epidemic, many people may reconsider having children. After all, the warmth of caring for each other in times of crisis can only be realized by family ties.

@ Xiaoguo: Raising a child now is like "swallowing a golden beast", not to mention raising a child to prevent old age, that is, even the old money can't be collected. So raising children is actually a loss-making business, but it is also the bounden duty of human reproduction. Most parents ask nothing in return.

In fact, although there are different views on the issue of raising children, it is certain that although raising children is a bounden duty, whether or not to have children is a lifelong choice under the premise of freedom and human rights. What we need is to be responsible for this choice, not to mind and accept other people's pointing fingers. After all, my life is my own decision.