It is embarrassing to be regarded as a joke by many people.

You like chatting, which shows that you are still a person who likes to communicate with others. Why do they laugh at you? You think too much, as long as you see everything as normal. Everyone has his own shortcomings. This is a normal phenomenon. In fact, they laugh at you just for fun. After all, some people are mean and many people talk badly, but their hearts are not bad. Many people don't like you. It doesn't really matter. Why do you say you are not serious? In fact, it is good to have a clear conscience in many things. In fact, many times the collective vision is really extreme. Many people do a lot of meaningful things when they are alive and will not be praised. Once something is accidentally screwed up, there will be a lot of accusations. Once this man dies, many people will speak well of him. You should look down on these extreme things. Since it's empty, why care about it? People only live for themselves. If they always live for the eyes of others, will they feel very tired? What if a person always proves himself to others and others die? Find someone else to prove it to him? Is it too tired to live like this? So many times, I ask myself, if I have never been wronged, then don't care about other people's eyes, stand up and everything is only in line with myself, right?

In fact, many people have the habit of gossiping, which is true of any nation. Why don't you leave him alone? The greatest pleasure of a gossiper is not to spread, but to see how you resist. Isn't it their own happiness that you are upset about it? If you don't ask, then they will gradually lose interest, so again, as long as you are not wronged, then stand up.

Actually, I don't usually talk much, so it's better to stay focused. You should remember that you'd better keep quiet. If you talk too much, there will be many differences. Talking to friends will lead to disagreement, and eventually you will be unhappy, but you will be embarrassed. In fact, getting along with friends is not endless. The most important thing for friends is to help each other, not to kill time by chatting. Even if the two sides sit together and keep silent, the best friend will not be embarrassed.

In fact, you don't have to be timid. I said, shut up and stand up. Why bother?

I'm not a sweet talker, and I don't flatter or flatter others. It's like meeting relatives and friends, just nodding. I seldom say hello loudly. People around me are not particularly impressed. Actually, this is the best. If I am too impressed, it is easy for people to talk about right and wrong. Why not be a passer-by in life?