There is a boy who is good everywhere and handsome. I just can't hear others say that he is bad and narrow-minded. Sometimes he can't afford to joke.

This is a man with primary narcissism, male They are burdened with their parents' expectations and think they are good enough. Naturally, there is no need to change. If we break their narcissism, their hearts will collapse. Without the support of primary narcissism, they cannot bear the unreasonable expectations of their parents. But they want to fall in love again, which is instinct. As soon as he falls in love, another person appears in front of him, and any difference between the other person and himself becomes a strong impact on his primary narcissism. If he wants to defend, he must fight again and again. As long as he hits you in a quarrel, he thinks he can remain intact. So your relationship started with mutual attraction, but eventually it went to the offensive and defensive war. And I know you want to ask, what should I do? Can you make him change? Because every girl in love seems to think that this love is the final destination of her life. Your boyfriend may be able to change. After countless failures in love, people will reflect. I don't know how many times he will start to reflect. If you don't break up, you can go on. Either he breaks up or you break up. It's too simple to go on. There is no love in many people's "love", but they torture each other. But go on, your boyfriend doesn't have this ability yet. Don't try to change him.