Why is dad involved in taking care of the baby? These benefits of dad, Ma Bao can't catch up with flattery.

Whether in programs or books, it seems that most of them are nannies, but with the development of the Internet, the word "dad" has gradually entered everyone's sight. As the name implies, dad is responsible for the growth and life of children. Many novice fathers make a lot of jokes because they have no experience with children.

Everyone went to celebrate the birth of Xiao Li, a colleague, because his daughter-in-law was confined to the moon, and Xiao Li took care of the children most of the time. As a result, when I got home, I found Xiao Li sitting upright on the sofa, afraid to move her neck, sweating all over her face and holding a small bag in her arms. The child slept soundly in Xiao Li's arms.

A man with a height of 1.8 meters stood motionless for a whole hour and asked his mother for help every few minutes for fear that the child in his arms would suddenly cry.

The newborn baby is very fragile, small and soft to hold, and has no strength and bone support, which makes many dads afraid to get started.

1. What are the "famous" scenes of novice fathers taking their babies?

1, holding a child is like holding a bomb.

Some dads are very obedient after the baby is born, and they can do anything as long as they are not allowed to hold the baby. Some bad habits before pregnancy suddenly change after holding the baby. When it comes to holding the baby, I immediately hold my head.

The way fathers hold their children also gives full play to their whimsy. Some are like holding a bomb in their arms, and some fathers are like going to confess, dragging their children with their hands, even with their own eyes. Some fathers put the wrapped baby under their armpits and even dragged it with one hand. Few skilled fathers will hold their babies in a more comfortable position.

2. Ghostly crying and howling

This kind of father is particularly afraid of any situation of the child. If the child is asleep, he can still hold it. However, as long as the child wakes up, if Ma Bao wants to do something, and as long as the child reacts, the father can make a hullabaloo about for help, so that Ma Bao runs to find that the child just ate his own hand. You can feel Ma Bao's silence through the screen.

3. Newborn toys

Some fathers are still children's psychology. After having children, they seem to have new toys and have no awareness of their safety. They put the child in a homemade cradle and controlled it with their feet, and the child slept next to it. However, the dads are curious, stealing their children's milk powder and picking them up and down for several months. They play alone, but ignore the fear of Ma Bao.

4. Fly with your baby

A treasure mother wants to go out and let her husband take care of the children at home. She will tidy up the children before she leaves. When she comes back to open the door, there will be a moment of doubt. It's like having two dismantled erhas at home. Not only did he lose his original appearance at home, but even the child was like a little monkey, with no clever appearance at all.

Second, let the novice father get started smoothly, how to do it?

1, go to the Confucius Center to study in advance.

Some dads think that Ma Bao's class education during pregnancy has nothing to do with him, and directly put the responsibility of taking care of the children on Ma Bao, so that they are at a loss about the soft organism after the baby is born.

Let the nanny and Ma Bao go to the Confucius Center to study together. Systematic knowledge of babysitting can eliminate the nanny's resistance, understand Ma Bao's hard work of babysitting, and actively share some things with children, which is conducive to promoting family harmony.

2, practice more, eliminate the fear of dad.

Sometimes it's not that the nanny doesn't want to help with the children, but that the nanny doesn't trust to give the children to the nanny to teach, which leads to the nanny never taking the children, and the nanny is very hard alone. In this case, the nanny should give the nanny more trust. Similarly, as a parent, the nanny will not hurt the child.

No matter how much you watch and how good you teach, it is better to let dad practice quickly. With more times of taking care of children, dad will know some main precautions and be able to take care of children skillfully alone.

3. Teach dad to take care of the baby scientifically.

The reason why the daddy panics is that on the one hand, he is confident in himself, on the other hand, he knows nothing about caring for the baby. Therefore, the nanny should teach the daddy some common sense when taking care of the baby. For example, when reporting a baby, first hold the baby's head and neck with one hand, and then hold the baby's hips and waist with the other hand, with the head slightly higher than the feet, so that the daddy can slowly explore the baby and his own comfort.

Third, why do you have to have a father for parenting?

1, which contributes to the harmony between husband and wife.

Many families are widowed, and the nanny knows nothing about Ma Bao's hardships, and even thinks that he is the main source of income for a family, while Ma Bao does nothing, which has caused many family conflicts. When the nanny is involved in child-rearing, she will realize that it is not easy for the nanny, and at the same time, it can also let the nanny relax her nervous mood and let the two people better establish communication.

2. It is helpful for the formation of children's independent personality.

Under the control of maternal love, many treasure mothers can't wait to arrange everything for their children and reduce the dangers around them. But this arranged life makes children more and more dependent on their families. In the golden age of growth and development, they didn't develop their own personality well, which led to the emergence of giant babies and treasure men. They didn't have their own opinions.

When the daddy is involved in the child's upbringing, because of the completely different education method from the mother, the child feels stimulated, explored and explored in the daddy's education, and the sense of security obtained from the daddy can't be given by the nanny.

Most of the time, fathers choose to keep animals, so children have to use their brains to solve any difficulties, and sometimes even take care of their fathers, which is conducive to the formation of their independent personality.

3. Help children understand gender.

For a girl, her father is the first man she touches. The existence of father is to let them know that they are different from themselves and learn how to get along with boys through his teaching. At the same time, the father will greatly affect his daughter's concept of mate selection.

For boys, their father is their role model. If the father is a responsible person, then the boy will unconsciously imitate his father and become such an excellent person.

Children are the responsibility of a family, not a person's business, so in education, nannies and nannies should study together and make progress together. What do you think of daddy taking care of children? Welcome to share your views.