How does a father improve his feelings with his children?

Do prenatal education during pregnancy.

Studies have proved that the role of prenatal education is very great. The emotional cultivation of fathers and children should start from the time of pregnancy. When the fetus is in the mother's stomach for four months, prenatal education can begin. Prenatal education is not a matter for mom alone. Dad is also important. Tell stories, talk and sing to the baby in the belly every day, so that the baby can hear and be familiar with his father's voice every day, so that the child will be no stranger to his father after birth and feel intimate.

Mother's bond function

Mothers also play a key role in the emotional cultivation of fathers and children. Dad has been away from home for a long time. In order to prevent the child from getting used to it, being indifferent to his father, or complaining that his father is not at home with him, it is necessary for the mother to tell the child more, such as "Dad is very hard, going out to earn money to buy good things for the baby, and the baby should be obedient at home!" Dad will be back in a few days "; When breastfeeding a child, the mother can tell him: "Don't eat all the delicious food, leave some for dad;" "The baby want to dad? That baby should call him dad! " After a long time, the mother's words will subtly affect the children, so that the children will put their father in that very important position in their hearts.

Hugs before going out and after going home

Dad hugged the child before going out and told him, "Dad will be back when he's done. Dad will miss you. Will you miss your father? " Let the children feel their father's love and reluctance; Hug the child for the first time after going home, enjoy the happiness of reunion with the child, and tell the child: "Dad misses you very much. Is my baby awkward? " Did you listen to your mother? "At this rate, children should be very willing to communicate with their fathers.

Call at least once a day.

Telephone is a good way to contact feelings. No matter where you are, it is essential to call your child every day. Call at least once a day to ask about your child's situation at home. Let the children know that although the father is in the field, he cares about the baby very much. For example: "Tell Dad what the baby did at home today?" "Is the baby good today?" "Dad misses you very much. Will you call your father tomorrow? "

Video with children for a long time.

When dad is away for a long time, if there are convenient conditions, you can have more video communication with your child, which can not only see the growth and changes of your child, but also connect with his feelings. In this way, the child does not feel that his father is far away, but feels that his father is around. As soon as the computer is turned on, the father will appear, and the child will be very satisfied and happy. There is more concern between father and son.

Go out for a long time to bring gifts to children.

Children are very simple, and the best way to get close to them is all kinds of gifts. After going home for a long time, no matter how busy dad is, he should take good care of the children and bring them gifts, otherwise he will be disappointed. Gifts can be given to children who like them, or they can surprise him with something strange, or they are very practical, such as clothes. In this way, when children play with toys or get dressed, they will think of their dear father.

Try to spend various festivals with children.

Every father is not easy, busy and hard, but no matter how busy he is, he should make time to spend holidays with his children. Every holiday, the child sees that others are accompanied by their parents, but he is only accompanied by his mother, so he will feel unbalanced, sad and inferior. So dad tries to spend the holidays with his children in his busy schedule.

A happy and harmonious family atmosphere

Mother should not speak ill of father in front of children, and husband and wife should not quarrel in front of children, otherwise it will have a bad influence on children. Therefore, we should create a harmonious family atmosphere, start with adults, make friends with children and communicate with them on an equal footing. When we have time, we shouldn't just go out to play by ourselves. We should spend more time with our children at home and increase the time for the three of us. Such an environment will naturally promote the relationship between father and son, which is in direct proportion.

A family of three travels together.

On holidays or holidays, put aside the complicated work, relax and take more children and lovers to travel. While broadening our horizons, we will enhance the feelings of husband and wife and children, feel the beauty of nature with children, form a tacit understanding with children through various parent-child activities, and tell children: "A family is United and is not afraid of any difficulties. The three of us are iron triangles, and no one can live without anyone! " A family of three is happy.