Friends in the circle of friends may not be friends, and old friends in the blacklist may not be forever!

We are all passers-by in each other's lives. Try to cherish it when you have it and have no regrets when you lose it! In fact, there are many former friends in the circle of friends, and more are strangers. There are not necessarily old friends in the blacklist, most of them are strangers or people who advertise too hard.

the relationship between people is very fragile, which can't stop distance, interests and fate!

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The first message you get when you get up in the morning is often chicken soup for the soul: you lose 6 seconds of happiness in your life when you are angry with others for 1 minute. So we should learn to be heartless and gradually become indifferent to everything. Good morning, friend!

For such information, I silently read a sentence of "good morning" and never gave any response. Over time, maybe I bored him first and then deleted it, Lahei! Of course, maybe he didn't get any response from me, and it's possible that he blacked me out first.

then why am I so rude that I never respond to such information?

Actually, I responded at first. For example, I just passed the friend verification sent by the other party, and the other party sent a sentence "Hello, I am XXX". I politely connected "Hello" and then the other party began to talk about something. In fact, I really want to ask, "What can I do for you?" Then don't ask him. Finally, I couldn't help asking myself, "Have you ever known someone?" Or send a product or industry prospect video directly. Then and then there is no then, because I'm not interested.

If the person who sent this message is not a stranger, but a former classmate and friend, I will start to spend money to buy it, even if I really bought it and threw it away, then I will be willing to give this face. But again and again, maybe they change several products a year, and I can't buy everything, so my friends are only indifferent with the help of my interests.

(2)

In the movie (Good Will Hunting), I remember that when Rambo quarreled with his college classmate Shang En, I saw a picture: two excellent boys graduated from school, one for his hobby and career, constantly struggling and working hard, thus having a bright future; Another boy, who was supposed to be an excellent professor of psychological counseling, was painstakingly remembering his lover because of his lack of desire after losing his lover. In others' eyes, or in Professor Lambert's eyes, Shane didn't mix as well as himself. Lambert thought Shane didn't mix well, so he never attended class reunion. And Rambo had to contact his old friends for many years just because the talented boy Will he discovered needed Shane's help. However, in Shane's eyes, Rambo's life is nothing but arithmetic, academic discussion and speech, and there is no love. He is a boring mathematician.

So there are no like-minded people on the road to a bright future, and friends only drift away.

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For students, there may be many old friends on the blacklist, and there may be a lot of unhappiness between them. For example, one day my daughter, who is studying in elementary school, came back and said angrily to me: Mom, please blacken my friend with a classmate. He threw my schoolbag today!

Well, at night, I found that the child who often sends messages calling my aunt actually took the initiative to blacken me. Then a few days later, he volunteered to join me. Isn't this child's behavior a portrayal of us adults?

I used to think that your contradictions were irreconcilable, but I decided to blacken them. After many years, I recalled my past and smiled at each other, and became friends again through classmates or parties.

There are fewer and fewer friends, just like seeing some questions on Zhihu. "Why do you grow up and find that there are no friends to talk to?" Yes, many people can be contacted in the circle of friends, but why is there no one to talk to when there is trouble?

I think it's because you don't want to talk to others. First, you're afraid that others will know about your life difficulties. Second, you'll be laughed at. Third, you won't be kept a secret.

It's a little embarrassing that we don't maintain our feelings well, and we don't burn incense and cram for the Buddha's feet at ordinary times.

in a word, only we have our complete life. Friends are just passers-by in your life, there is no journey that does not reach the station, and there is no friend who does not get off the bus! Emotions also need to be nourished, and if consumption is gone, it will be gone. In the circle of friends, friends are just spectators of each other.

Not all friends are in the circle of friends, and the old friends in the blacklist may not be forever!