After a lapse of 20 years, Song Dandan Ni Ping reconciled. Why do you say that some jokes can't be played?

Twenty years ago, the old artists had a big party. Song Dandan was very happy to see Ni Ping, put her on his shoulder, and proudly and happily said that he was a good friend of Ni Ping. Unexpectedly, Ni Ping said flatly. Who are you? Do I know you? ? It was this remark that hurt Song Dandan, who was not as famous as Ni Ping at that time. Both of them said on the show that it was a joke, but Song Dandan said the joke was not funny at all. Later, Song Dandan said, maybe when people are busy, they just think less about other people's feelings. I am also such a person. Because I am outspoken, I often blurt it out without thinking. Seeing that Song Dandan was so sincere, Ni Ping was also very moved, saying that he really didn't realize that he would hurt Song Dandan at that time, and took this opportunity to formally apologize to Song Dandan.

Pay attention to the occasion when joking. Ni Ping and Song Dandan had a friendship of life and death, so it's not worth joking about. It can be seen that joking really needs to pay attention to the occasion. There are only two people in private. I believe that no matter how you joke, the other party will not be angry or sad. But in some big occasions, especially when there are many people on the scene, if you make jokes that hurt your face and self-esteem, it is likely to hurt the other person's self-esteem and make it unacceptable to the other person, thus blocking your heart and never wanting to associate with those jokes again. Knowing this, we should pay attention to the fact that if we really think each other are friends, we must give each other enough face in front of others. Not only friends, boyfriends and girlfriends, but also husband and wife. You can joke when you are alone, but leave room in front of many people.

Ni Ping is very kind to Song Dandan. It can be said that without Ni Ping, Song Dandan might not be where it is today. When Song Dandan and Ying Da divorced, they were depressed, and their lives fell into a stage of self-denial and doubt. Song Dandan called Ni Ping and told her frankly that she wanted to die. At that time, Ni Ping told Song Dandan not to die first, but to go home and tidy up before he died. In fact, what Ni Ping meant at that time was to let Song Dandan come to the house as a guest, but Ni Ping's words always tide wait for no man. When she heard that Song Dandan was going to commit suicide, she was so angry that she spoke directly to stimulate Song Dandan and cheer her up.

In fact, from beginning to end, Ni Ping's words are bitter. Ni Ping's sentence at that time:? Do I know you? ? Is a joke, Ni Ping may have a follow-up words to pick up at that time, the result may be interrupted, she can't bypass this seemingly heartless words. Pay attention to the occasion when joking, or it will ruin the friendship for 20 years, which is not worth it!