How to deal with people who are laughing at jokes

There are many friends who are always afraid of being laughed at. In fact, whether it is a joke or not does not depend on how others see it, but on how we define ourselves. Being afraid of others laughing means that we also think we are a joke. If we think we are legends, why should we be afraid of others laughing at us? Since jokes are artificial definitions and appearances, after the appearance is destroyed, only cognition and thoughts remain. When your thoughts change, your concepts will change, so how can you make a joke about it? So we can't stop others' words and deeds, but we can adjust ourselves.

Secondly, who has not been laughed at? But when we step out and make achievements in our own fields, it is not a joke, but a myth. If the moment is ordinary and being laughed at is normal, why be sad?

Yan Hui's "one basket of food, one ladle of drink, living in a shady alley" is a joke to outsiders; Confucius traveled around the country to promote benevolence and morality, but was misunderstood and hunted down, panicking like a lost dog. It was also a joke in the eyes of people at the time. But they clearly know what they want and what they are doing, so that they can move forward firmly towards their ideals and goals regardless of the eyes of the world and the pain of displacement. Only people who are not confident and unsure will care about other people's opinions and opinions.