Why did Xuan Xuan dump Zhang Weijian back then? How much Jian loves her! When his career is not going well, she can accompany him to tide over the difficulties. Maybe she doesn’t really love Nick Cheu

Why did Xuan Xuan dump Zhang Weijian back then? How much Jian loves her! When his career is not going well, she can accompany him to tide over the difficulties. Maybe she doesn’t really love Nick Cheung, right?

Why should we understand it this way?

Actually, don’t be too influenced by TV movies

If you can be together in real life, you must have truly loved each other

Why should you misinterpret this relationship and deny each other? What about the sacrifices

And I always think that it is difficult for people in love to stay together because their thoughts must always be the same and they must be able to grow synchronously

There must be synchrony in falling in love at the beginning. Problems will arise if one cannot keep up with the other after one meeting or if everyone has different thinking directions

ANYWAY The following is a report. Although many things cannot be explained to outsiders and we can never really understand them, there is a Some opinions are still very positive and desirable

Even if you have moved to another country, it is still good to have a look

[News 2008-09-28] "Stage and Screen" Xuan Xuan made Zhang Weijian angry Blood Feeling

Since breaking up with her doctor boyfriend Chen Jianwei 3 years ago, Xuan Xuan's relationship has been unsettled. It was not until recently that it was rumored that she had found a rich husband and hooked up with the late Hong Kong philanthropist Liang Yao. He secretly moved into the other party's mid-level mansion with a market value of 50 million. However, Xuan Xuan firmly denied this and seemed to be deliberately protecting this new relationship. Looking back on Xuan Xuan's several relationships, the one with Nicky Cheung 15 years ago was the most spectacular. Back then, Xuan Xuan didn't mind being a "Tchaikov driver" for Nicky Cheung, driving her boyfriend to and from work every day. Zhang Weijian also publicly stated that Xuan Xuan was his favorite woman, and even claimed that Xuan Xuan made him feel like he was gushing blood.

He admitted that he often visited the Zhang family at night

Xuan Xuan had She has a pair of very slender legs. It turns out that it was her legs that we first saw her on TV. It is said that in 1992, Xuan Xuan returned to Hong Kong after graduating from a British university (majoring in material engineering). One day, after rehearsing a play at the Academy of Performing Arts with her friends, she went to a nearby stall to eat stinky tofu. During this period, a strange woman came over and asked Xuan Xuan if she was interested in filming a coffee commercial. Xuan Xuan nodded in agreement out of curiosity. Xuan Xuan originally thought she would be the heroine of the advertisement, but after it was broadcast, she discovered that all she could see in the picture was her legs. Then, Xuan Xuan took on another commercial called "Eat Chocolate While It's Fresh", so she was noticed by "Wireless" and was invited to be the host of "K100". Later, Stephen Chow also asked her to play an inconspicuous small role of Xia Xiang in "Tang Bohu Spots Autumn Fragrance". However, most viewers know Xuan Xuan from October 1993, when she served as Zhang Weijian's "Tchaikov driver"

At that time, Xuan Xuan worked with Zhang Weijian and Wan Ziliang to film "Brothers of the Dragon and Brother Mouse" 》. Xuan Xuan is Wan Ziliang's girlfriend in the play, but outside the play, they get along day and night and become Cheung Weijian's lover. At that time, some people saw them going to the movies together, and some people said that they witnessed Xuan Xuan entering and leaving Zhang Weijian's home late at night. In response to this, Xuan Xuan answered frankly: "I did go to his house as a guest at night. We live very close to each other, and he usually doesn't drive when he starts work. I just drop him off on the way, and he will invite me to his house to chat. "Xuanxuan added: "Zhang Weijian lives with his family. He and I are not alone in the same room." Asked her what her impression of Zhang Weijian was. Xuan Xuan said without reservation: "He works hard and is definitely a good person."

But when the reporter asked Zhang Weijian the same question, he hesitated: "She and I are very close." We can talk well and have a good impression of her. She is very well-educated, but we are not in a relationship. I don’t have a girlfriend now.” But when asked about the possibility of developing a relationship with Xuan Xuan, Zhang Weijian said. : "I won't rule out this possibility." Weijian Zhang said that he used to be an actor and could openly disclose his love affairs. But when he becomes a singer, if he is connected with a girl's name, he is worried that it will affect his career.

Seeing Xuan Xuan as a marriage partner:

In late November 1993, Zhang Weijian held a mini concert and invited Xuan Xuan as a special guest.

It was her first time to speak out, and she actually received strong support from Nicky Cheung's fans. People in the audience kept shouting her name. It seemed that the fans loved her and were very accepting of her. Xuan Xuan said: "His fans have always been very friendly to me. When it comes to relationships, let them take their own course."

In the past, Xuan Xuan always chose a boyfriend first to see if he was handsome or not, but gradually, She began to feel that appearance was not important, and she did not mind the height of her boyfriend. "I appreciate a man who is career-minded. He does not necessarily have to be wealthy, but he should not rely on his wife; he must be emotionally dedicated, care about the people around him, and I like dogs." Zhang Weijian fully meets Xuan Xuan's requirements for choosing a spouse. Although Zhang Weijian, who is 1.7 meters tall, is 1 centimeter shorter than Xuan Xuan, he is more enterprising and caring. At that time, Xuanxuan's female dog was sick, and she had to go to work, so Zhang Weijian was the driver and took the dog to the veterinarian.

While dating Xuan Xuan, Zhang Weijian always regarded her as his marriage partner. It is known that Zhang Weijian's father was a captain with a bad temper and often beat his son. When Zhang Weijian was 15 years old, his father fell in love with another woman and left with a suitcase, abandoning his wife and children. It is precisely because of this childhood shadow that Zhang Weijian feels that he must not be responsible for his children and wife like his father. However, at that time, Dicky Cheung was at the trough of his acting career, his record sales were not good, Warner Records would no longer renew his contract, and it was difficult for him to accept good TV series. "Seeing Xuan Xuan becoming more popular day by day and making more money than me, regardless of what outsiders think, I told myself in my heart that she is definitely qualified to find someone better than me." Zhang Weijian recalled. Zhang Weijian kept saying to Xuan Xuan, "Wait for me for one more year" and wanted to wait until his career was successful before marrying a beautiful woman. Unfortunately, after saying this year after year, Xuan Xuan could not become Mrs. Zhang. In 1995, this relationship finally came to an end.

After breaking up, he called to "check up on the situation"

After breaking up with Xuan Xuan, Zhang Weijian could not let go of her. It is said that back then, Zhang Weijian often called Xuan Xuan in the middle of the night just to hear her voice and confirm whether there was another man next to Xuan Xuan, and then hung up the phone without saying a word. Many years later, when Cheung Weijian went to Taiwan to participate in the variety show "Celebrity Samoa", he personally admitted that this was indeed the case! She also said that for a long time after she and Xuan Xuan broke up, she would hide and cry alone.

Xuan Xuan and Zhang Weijian reunited again, 4 years later. That day, they went to Radio Hong Kong to promote the drama series "Legend of Liar" and "Young Hero Fang Saiyu" respectively. Xuan Xuan arrived first, followed by Zhang Weijian. The reporter asked Xuan Xuan to wait before bringing the two together to take a rare group photo. Reunited after a long absence, the two just shook hands lightly. The reporter encouraged them to hug, but they both refused.

Afterwards, the reporter asked Weijian Zhang how he felt the moment he saw Xuan Xuan again? He said: "I have mixed feelings, my heart is touched, and I even feel like blood spurting out. But this feeling is definitely not wrong, it is just an emotional fluctuation. I remember that I would be very nervous when I put my hand on her shoulder. , it felt very hard; but this time I put my arm on her shoulder and felt very relaxed. I don’t know why, I just know that things are different now.” Zhang Weijian also said that Xuan Xuan was once his favorite woman; but now. At that time, Xuan Xuan already had her boyfriend Rong Wenhan by her side, and he also had Zhang Qian by his side.

Today, many years after the breakup, he is now in full swing, and I am happy for him. As for his words about not wanting to wrong me when he was young, I really don't feel anything about it. When his career was at a low point, his mood often fell to the lowest point. I saw it and felt that I really didn’t understand this person. I thought that there would always be ups and downs in his career, so this conflict really affected our relationship! , but now I finally understand that men and women have different views on careers. I felt very happy during this meeting, but my feelings towards him were no longer the same.

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Described by Weijian Cheung as his former favorite, Xuan Xuan also responded politely, "I think he is a good boyfriend and a very secure man. As for him and me, it can only be said that we are destined to be together. ”

Xuan Xuan’s first love

Although she fell in love with Zhang Weijian vigorously, he was not Xuan Xuan’s first boyfriend. Xuan Xuan’s first love happened when she was 18 years old. He is 1.78 meters tall and is a Chinese who grew up in the UK. They have been together for two years. Xuan Xuan, who has always been single-minded in his relationship and believed that his boyfriend was his marriage partner, ended up heartbroken. "His ex-girlfriend returned to him. I couldn't stand it, so he wanted to break up with me. At that time, my heart was very painful. I cried day and night. I didn't even go to class. I sat at home all day long. I felt that I had been abandoned. I was the most miserable woman in the world, even worse than the hungry people in Ethiopia. Even if friends come to comfort me during the day, as soon as they leave, I cry non-stop. "Finally, the two months of darkness finally passed, "Huang Zhan has a saying: 'Men are born to be flirtatious, but soft-hearted; women are born to be single-minded, but decisive. ’ It’s really true. In fact, falling out of love is not a big deal. "

After returning to Hong Kong, Xuan Xuan met a man who was younger than her and 1.83 meters tall. But after a summer vacation, the man was going back to the United States to study, so Xuan Xuan decided to make a break, "I don't I mind that he is younger than me, and the age difference is only a few months, but how can we only see each other every two or three months? I have no reason to wait for him for two or three years. The long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain, so we are separated like this! "It can be seen from these two short relationships that Xuan Xuan is a very pure person who has high requirements for love. She will not wrong herself for love, and she is not good at waiting. This is destined to make her and Zhang Weijian meet in the end. Everyone goes their own way.

/Some people say: being with the wrong person is a heartache; meeting the right person at the wrong time is a pity; meeting the right person at the right time. Being with the wrong person is a kind of helplessness; meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of happiness. Xuan Xuan and Zhang Weijian are the "right people" for each other, but it is a pity that their love happened at the wrong time.

Back then, Nick Cheung and Xuan Xuan were considered a golden couple. At that time, the entertainment industry was far less open than it is now, and fans were far less sensible than they are now. Therefore, celebrities never dared to reveal their relationship. Like Lin Fengjiao and Zhu Liqian, who have been Jackie Chan and Andy Lau's "invisible girlfriends" for decades, they are abnormal products of the time. However, in such a general environment, it is very rare for Zhang Weijian's fans to recognize and even like Xuan Xuan. , which just shows that the outside world thinks that they are very compatible.

Not only do the two match up in appearance, but their personalities also complement each other. He desperately needs a girl who grew up in a happy family and has a cheerful personality to warm him up. Xuan Xuan, who is persistent in love and straightforward, has also been looking for a good man with a sense of responsibility like Zhang Weijian, but the time for them to fall in love is not right. The journey has not yet begun, but Xuan Xuan is already one step ahead. The career gap between him and his girlfriend makes Zhang Weijian anxious. He is afraid that Xuan Xuan will look down on him, and he is also afraid that others will laugh at him for being too ambitious. Putting on his girlfriend's shoulders made him feel nervous and hard.

In fact, looking back now, the gap between the two was not that big at the time, but Zhang Weijian's self-esteem and inferiority made the gap magnified. Xuan Xuan never paid attention to this gap. She couldn't even understand why Zhang Weijian cared so much. I believe Xuan Xuan felt aggrieved. She always thought that Zhang Weijian was "unwilling to wrong her in a small moment", which was just a touching sentence. It's just an excuse. If they meet again a few years later, when Zhang Weijian has become famous, his mentality has been corrected; and Xuan Xuan will be more mature and understand that a man's career is their dignity. In that case, there may be another story. It’s an ending.