After the death of my wife, my father-in-law: You marry my little daughter, and the rich water does not flow out of the field, and the men clap their hands and applaud.

There are so many accidents in life that we can't predict what will happen tomorrow. The same is true of human life. Some people are alive and kicking one second, and something happens the next.

Many women change their hormones when giving birth. Some women will be depressed, leading to depression, and some people will give up their lives. Mr. Dong's ex-wife is an unfortunate woman. After giving birth to the baby, she suffered from postpartum depression. Due to lack of care, this kind of depression recurs. Later, at the age of 40, she took medicine and ended her life.

After his wife left, his father-in-law suddenly asked Mr. Dong to marry his little daughter, thinking that the rich water would not flow out of the field. Why would his father-in-law say such a thing? Did Mr. Dong marry her little daughter? We continue to look down.

Mr. Dong, aged 42:

I feel really unlucky. I even think my ex-wife is a poor woman. After she married me, life was not good. On the contrary, she got schizophrenia because of pregnancy, and she got depression because of this disease.

When she first got married, everything was normal and she was cheerful. It was not until my wife was pregnant that I found other abnormal phenomena. At the beginning of pregnancy, she had vomiting like other pregnant women, and her family took special care of her. I hope she can eat more and take care of herself. After all, the baby in her belly needs nutrition, but her body reacts so badly that sometimes everything she eats is spit out.

Finally, in the second trimester, the mood was stable, but after a few months, the stomach became bigger and bigger, and the quality of sleep at night was not good. The whole person looks particularly listless. At that time, my wife always complained to me that pregnancy was simply too uncomfortable, and told me that she would never have a second child again. Looking at my wife's hard work, I feel sorry for her, but I can't bear these pains for her as a man. I want to comfort her and take care of her in life, hoping that she can relieve her mood and pain.

The baby was finally born, and everyone focused on the baby and ignored his wife's mood. She was particularly depressed at that time, and our family didn't notice it until my wife ignored me after confinement. Sometimes she often loses her temper and throws things at home, and occasionally runs away from home in the middle of the night.

I don't know what's wrong with her. Her family takes good care of her. Why is there such an abnormal mood? Later, after consulting a doctor, I realized that she might have postpartum depression, and her family could only care more about her and give her warmth. However, instead of getting better, my wife's depression is getting worse. It's just that she is sometimes good and sometimes bad, sometimes she can talk and laugh with her family like a normal person, and sometimes she refuses to get along with everyone.

During that time, I was also very depressed, not only taking care of my husband, but also taking care of my children. Fortunately, my wife was sane, but she died suddenly in her thirties. I don't know how she can't get over it and why she should do such a stupid thing. Maybe she felt so crazy when she was awake that she didn't want to live in this world.

I was very sad after my wife left. Later, I learned through my father-in-law that my wife was a little mentally abnormal when she was a child. Maybe pregnancy has a certain influence on her. This may also be the reason for her depression. Everything was normal before she got married, so the pregnant woman didn't tell me about the disease. I heard that her wife even had epilepsy. No wonder a few years ago, her wife was sometimes normal and sometimes sober. It turns out that she has this family genetic disease.

When I heard this, my first reaction at that time was whether the child would inherit this disease. I consulted a doctor. Later, the doctor said that the disease may be hereditary, but it is not 1 0,000%, so I was relieved. Since most children don't respond, it shouldn't be inherited.

Although my wife is sick occasionally, she is also a member of the family and can help take care of the elderly and children at home. But now she has run away from home and her children are in a mess. Today's children are all teenagers and have passed the rebellious period of youth. Sometimes he doesn't listen to anything I say, and always quarrels with me, because I am a strong man and I won't be as patient as my mother.

I used to get all kinds of information about my children from my wife. Now there is no wife as a bridge, and my relationship with my children is getting more and more rigid. I don't know how to communicate with him. I usually just sigh or solve problems with violence. I always feel that my life has become more and more difficult since my wife left.

I feel particularly unlucky. At that time, the company was going to lay off employees. I used to be a team leader, but now I'm an ordinary employee. Due to the transfer of posts, the salary is much less now.

Later, the children faced the college entrance examination. At that time, we all thought that he should be admitted to an ideal university. Unexpectedly, after volunteering, he fell behind. Later, I learned that the child was not admitted because he chose the wrong major. Now the child is not convinced and wants to repeat one year. Obviously, he can go to college a year earlier. Now he has to repeat high school for one year, which will not only cost a lot of money, but also delay for one year. I really feel that everything is not going well, even a little desperate. Now the pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, and the salary is getting less and less, but the expenses have not decreased at all.

Although my wife died, I have a good relationship with my father-in-law. I also visit the elderly on holidays. Later, my father-in-law saw that my family was in a bad situation. He asked me to do something. I can't live alone now. It would be better to have a woman at home. But I think my conditions are too poor. If I marry another woman, it will definitely cost a lot of money. But which woman wants to be with a poor man like me, even if I can accept others? I can't just think for myself, at least I'm responsible for my children. After all, this is a family matter.

My father-in-law thinks what I said is reasonable, but he can't be a bachelor all his life. He said he would do something for me in the future. A few days later, his father-in-law called me again. He told me that he had a good idea. I asked him if he had any good ideas, and he told me, "After all, I don't know what this sentence means."

I naturally don't know what my father-in-law means. Later, he told me that it was his little daughter who divorced her ex-husband. Because the man likes gambling, regardless of his family, he took out all his property and lost. The most important thing is that the man still likes to hit people, so they divorced. It turns out that my father-in-law meant to marry his little daughter to me. I don't know if I heard it wrong. How could my father-in-law do such a thing? After all, brother-in-law and sister-in-law will be criticized by others together.

My father-in-law has always comforted me that life is my own. As long as he agrees, my little daughter agrees with me, and others are just bystanders. They have no right to control my life. My father-in-law asked me if I agreed. As long as I agree, I will go back to my little daughter's ideological work. Actually, I met her sister-in-law, who is very nice and good at housework. It's also a good choice if you can be with her. After all, she is a family and will not abuse my daughter. My daughter is willing to accept her.

Of course, my father-in-law also made a request to me, that is, I must be kind to my little daughter in the future and not live up to his expectations. After testing for a long time, I thought the method proposed by my father-in-law was very good, so I agreed to his father-in-law's request.

Later, my sister-in-law and I got married. I am very grateful to my father-in-law for his decision on this matter. Now that we are really rich, our life is getting better and better. Having a good woman at home is good feng shui. Since I married my sister-in-law, everything has gone smoothly and my work has gradually changed. My child is willing to accept this new mother.

Now we are still a family. In the future, my father-in-law will still have to rely on my sister-in-law to support him. Many people talk about me behind my back, saying that I am a little innocent, and some even scold me, but I think I live for myself, not for others. As long as I am happy, it doesn't matter what others think.

It has been more than three years now, and I have proved that my sister-in-law and I are very happy together with practical actions. I have blocked others' mouths with our happy life. Maybe people like me are in the minority. In fact, this also shows that happiness is created by ourselves, and everything in the future must be grasped by ourselves. Some people just like to read other people's jokes when they gossip.

Listen to your inner choice in everything. When you feel happy, you will be happier and happier. If you take your sister-in-law as someone else's after-dinner speech, you may not be happy in your life.

My sister-in-law has suffered from life and marriage, and I know how important it is to have a wife at home. Since we regrouped, we have understood each other. She is the master, I am the master, and we are harmonious. Now the child is going to graduate from college. Sister-in-law said that when children graduate, they want to follow their own choices. He wants to stay in the field for development, so he stays in the field. If he wants to come back and develop, we will entrust him to work nearby.

After the children get married and have children, the two of us can enjoy our old age.

In fact, life is only a few decades. As long as we live happily, we don't care who we are with, what we care about is being with the right person.

Conclusion:

Many people will find it incredible that brother-in-law and sister-in-law walk together, and few people agree. For Mr. Dong, the advice put forward by his father-in-law at the beginning is really the best choice. It was he who gave Mr. Dong a second happy life. He even ignored the worldly vision and let his youngest daughter marry his eldest daughter's ex-husband.

In fact, this combination is also very good. After all, when the family is together, the children will be able to accept their new mothers in the future, and the sister-in-law will not abuse the children, and the problem of the father-in-law's pension will be solved. This may be what my father-in-law said.

Today's topic: Do you think it is the right choice for Mr. Dong to marry his sister-in-law? Welcome to leave a comment.