Love marriage between aunt and uncle

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My aunt and uncle ran away from home together when they were 20 years old. I still remember that my cousin was all yellow when she was born. We went to their simple rental house. In the room, they saw the little one lying in swaddling clothes. Their family was completely destitute, but their expressions were full of infinite hope and joy for the future.

When I was a child, I grew up in my grandma’s house. My aunt is about ten years older than me. My grandma’s family has been fishermen for generations. There is a “leisure fort” near our house, and people who fish will come here. When it comes to eating, my aunt has been working here serving dishes since she graduated from elementary school. My uncle graduated from junior high school and joined the army. My mother graduated from junior high school. My second uncle and eldest uncle didn't study much either.

My aunt loved beauty at that time. I remember wearing black overalls and looking very beautiful. Every time my salary was paid, I would give me some scraps of money. More than 20 years ago, I had a salary of more than 300 yuan, and a few cents would be given to me as pocket money, and the rest would be given to my grandparents for household expenses. At that time, I was very happy when my aunt paid her salary. I could go to the school’s canteen and buy frozen drinks for 10 cents.

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When I was in the fourth grade, I came to Shanghai to live with my parents and siblings. Not long after, my aunt also came to Shanghai to join my mother and worked in a primary school cafeteria near my home. , I often go to my aunt to sleep with her in her dormitory. In the summer, we would take the mat to the school playground and use cattail fans to drive away mosquitoes and watch the stars under the moonlight. When we were in my hometown, we also moved the mat to the yard. Sing and chat under the big tree in the evening breeze.

At that time, my aunt had acne on her face. I still remember getting up early in the summer under Qingliang Oshii. She would wash her face with Keli Keli facial cleanser with frosted particles. She was always researching what skin care products could remove it. smallpox. She is full of energy but sometimes has a little inferiority complex. She has short hair and is smart and has many boys chasing her. My aunt and I talk about everything.

Once at my house, my grandfather arranged a blind date for her. We, brothers and sisters, were peeking upstairs. After it was over, my aunt told us that the boy was sitting with his mother. What? You have to listen to it, she doesn't like it. Although my aunt has not read much, she is smart, independent, and very filial. Until I met my uncle.

She ran away with him desperately on a rainy night. The little daughter who had always been obedient actually did such a treasonous thing and ran away with a poor boy. At that time, my aunt and uncle were in another place far away from my home. I was working in a factory in a district. The day after the incident, my grandparents came from my hometown. They were so angry that they came to Shanghai to pay off my aunt's salary at the factory. After several searches but couldn't find it, they announced to their relatives and friends that they were no longer with my aunt. relation.

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The aunt and the mother had a secret relationship. After the child was born, the grandparents and second uncle also came to Shanghai to grow vegetables and sell vegetables. The aunt took the child back to her parents' home, and the father It took women to repair their relationship, so my aunt and uncle never took wedding photos or held a banquet. Their eldest daughter is now 17 years old. They just took the wedding photos and family photos last year. They are a family of four, a handsome little cousin, a cute cousin, beautiful My aunt and my uncle who are still charming are extremely happy.

In the early years, my aunt and uncle suffered a lot. They grew vegetables in the vegetable field with my grandmother and uncle, and later sold vegetables in the vegetable market. I remember one time I was at my aunt’s house. When I was sleeping, the shed I lived in leaked on rainy days and the mud floor outside was not drained. The water almost reached the bed. My uncle got up in the middle of the night with knee-deep water to batch vegetables.

Then Shanghai reformed the system of contracting vegetable fields to vegetable farmers. My aunt and uncle’s family lost their livelihood. My grandparents returned to their hometown to continue farming. They moved to the community where my family’s small shop is located. My aunt, my second uncle, and my father started working as rickshaw pullers, and the work was very hard, but no matter how hard it was, my aunt and uncle never quarreled. In my impression, the two of them were always in love, and my uncle I had a hard day driving at night and had to rest and sleep during the day. My cousin and aunt and I took a lunch break at home. My aunt held my daughter and told her to be quiet and let dad sleep for a while.

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There is always a turning point in life. My brother-in-law returned from the army and worked at a supermarket aquatic product stall. The boss noticed his ability to endure hardships and his decent style, and gave him the opportunity to take over the business by himself. , my brother-in-law and his uncle pooled their money and began to contract aquatic product stalls.

At that time, my uncle had just passed away and my second uncle was in poor health. My parents had three children with a heavy burden of studying, so my aunt and uncle started the business. The two families worked from dawn to dusk to purchase and sell fish. , very hard.

The aunt who was pregnant with her second child was still shouting and selling fish in front of the fish stall with a big belly. She would go back to cook at noon and evening. At that time, the second uncle, second aunt, younger brother-in-law, and younger aunt and uncle all lived there. Together, we have three rooms and one living room, and my aunt has to cook for six people by herself. My cousin was sent back to her hometown to study at her grandma's house.

My aunt never complained about her hard work or anything. The other two families often quarreled and bickered, but my aunt and uncle always lived together happily. Every Valentine's Day, my aunt would receive a rose from her uncle. There are flowers and gifts, and no matter how poor you are in your life, you can still receive gifts.

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Later, the business grew, and several more stores were contracted. My uncle and I both bought houses and cars in Shanghai, and each had their own warm little home. The house is kept clean every day, and the little cousin has been well educated. He has been the class monitor from the first grade of elementary school to now. But they always feel that they owe their cousin a lot, so they also brought their daughter to Shanghai to study and gave her a warm arrangement. room.

During this period, my aunt also wanted to go to work many times, but her uncle would not let her go, and there was no suitable job for her. My uncle said that if she was really bored, she could open a store of her choice, or she could take care of it at home. Just the kids, you don’t have to go out to work too hard, I don’t expect you to make money, I will support you and the kids.

My uncle kept his promise. Even though he is already the owner of several stores, he still uses his private car to travel to Didi. He said that if he earns several thousand more yuan every month, he can enroll his children in more interest classes and buy more items for his aunt. Favorite clothes or jewelry. He doesn't want his woman to work hard outside, and he doesn't want his children to be worse than others, so he always works hard to give his family the best.

Yes, my aunt is never short of jewelry and clothes. Whatever she wants, her uncle is always generous enough to buy it for her. For my aunt's birthday this year, she received a crown cake customized by her uncle, the LV bag that my aunt has always wanted, flowers from her daughter, and a gift from her son. My aunt said she wanted a Longines watch, and her uncle said she would get it for you.

My aunt also does micro-business and earns thousands of dollars a month. In her words, it is enough to subsidize the family. She is optimistic and positive, fashionably dressed, and is a delicate little woman. She is not the kind of person who only A housewife who knows her wealth, she knows how to manage her body, makeup, and hair style and keeps learning to keep pace with the times.

My aunt’s WeChat circle of friends shares the beautiful and positive sunshine of life. She is also a Douyin (Erbao Hot Mom) internet celebrity with tens of thousands of fans. She shares her family life and her sensible children who love her. Her husband's videos often receive over 10,000 likes and comments. My uncle is occasionally jealous of some male netizens' comments, but he will also dotingly support her side business.

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Today I went to my aunt’s house. My aunt made delicious food again. I especially like to eat the food cooked by my aunt. I remember that when they were in the vegetable field, I visited them during the summer vacation. I worked as a waiter in a hotel there, and I slept in the bedroom they built for me at night. When I came back at night, my aunt would always make chicken legs or lobster, and she would always put a lot of oil in the cooking, for fear that I would be hungry.

Now I work not far from my aunt’s house, and I always go there to have a meal from time to time. I am also very casual, sometimes carrying boxes of wine and sometimes empty-handed, and my aunt is also very casual, sometimes specially preparing delicious food. Sometimes she would have pickles and porridge, and many times she would invite me to drink and talk to me about many things. But she rarely complained about her family’s shortcomings. No matter what the situation, she was very satisfied and grateful for life. , Tolerance and magnanimity will not talk about the rights and wrongs of others.

Today she was busy in the kitchen again, her aunt was watching TV on the sofa, the two children were quarreling over snacks, and the dog was happily playing around. Her aunt called her cousin to get her eggs from the refrigerator. When calling her husband, my uncle would immediately put down his cell phone and run to the kitchen to ask what was wrong. They didn't call each other husband or wife, they would just call each other by their nicknames.

When we were eating, my aunt said, "I will make spicy hot pot for you next time." My cousin said, "The spicy hot pot made by my mother is very delicious, even better than the one in the restaurant." My uncle was all smiles. "It's all money, and the materials used every time are more expensive than those in restaurants." My aunt later said: When I first got married, I didn't know how to do housework, not even cooking. Your uncle taught me how to do it. , my aunt’s words were filled with happiness.

I looked at my aunt busy in the kitchen and asked my cousin, "How do you feel when you see your parents showing off their affection like this every day?" My cousin looked at me mischievously, "You don't even know what this is." , they often show affection, and I am used to it." I think that children who grow up in a family environment with loving parents will also be very happy.

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After dinner, my aunt began to educate me again. She always wanted to educate me for my mother, but she also treated me as easily as a friend. Rhetoric, this kind of double-faced attitude also made me not as disgusted as other elders urging marriage. I would confide in her sometimes and talk nonsense at other times. I said, "There is no such thing as a good marriage in this world. Do you think it's like you and your uncle?" Is there a lot of love in this kind of marriage? There are so many children around me, and the woman is living in pain every day. She can’t think about it and complains to me every day, “I don’t want to get married. It’s not a good thing.”

My aunt said that you can’t live like this all your life. You always have to get married, have children and have your own family. I said that's not necessarily the case. I might just stay like this for the rest of my life. Seeing that she was trying to persuade me to fail, she had to give up, "Okay, then you are quite lonely by yourself, so come and eat more often if you have nothing to do."

People of the previous generation still have different views than people of this generation. If they are sure about love, they will go through fire and water to overcome all difficulties. They have a very strong sense of responsibility for family and lovers. But now many young people no longer believe in love and marriage so much.

If you ask them what is the secret of keeping love fresh, I think it is "continuous tolerance and uninterrupted love."

No matter when facing external turmoil or internal turmoil in children’s education within the family, the two of them can always stand on the same front, face it together and support each other, and they will be together in any storm in the future. Responsibility, my uncle will discuss everything with his aunt, and he can’t help but text her every 2 hours when he goes out. For more than ten years, communication has been constant, love has never been lost, and the natural and comfortable way of getting along has been maintained for so many years. Nothing has changed.

In a world where scumbags are rampant, do you still believe in love? What I want to share with you is real love and marriage life. I hope that you and I can both gain the happiness we want.